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Scorpio & Virgo

Scorpio and Virgo are likely to be on the same page for most aspects of their lives. They will feel eerily connected, as though they were meant to be find each other. Some of their favorite activities will take place in nature, and they will both have a practical touch which can enable them to create meaningful, long-lasting work. Scorpio and Virgo feel most at peace when it is simply them both, isolated from the outside world, on their own intellectual getaway.

Both Virgo and Scorpio are extremely guarded and reserved in love. Scorpio demonstrates more depth of emotion, but for this same reason they will test Virgo before opening up to them. Because Scorpio has been deeply hurt in the past, they will do anything possible to avoid further pain. Virgo can relate to Scorpio’s cautious behavior. They too are naturally suspicious, and they can also be insecure in love. Virgo may undervalue their own qualities and believe that Scorpio may find someone better. Virgo benefits from reassurance that Scorpio is as invested as they are.

Scorpio and Virgo are likely to have a solid friendship before all else. Because it takes much time for them both to feel each other out and admit their feelings, they may first enjoy a platonic relationship before delving into a more serious one. This actually benefits them greatly in the long-run, because it deepens the bond they both share. When they two are together, and as time goes on, the trust between them is impenetrable. There are few people in the world that they feel this degree of openness with.

The potential downfall of a Scorpio-Virgo placement is that these two can be overly dependent on each other. They may bond so closely that they do not feel complete when they are apart. They may also not feel the need to make new friends or invite new people into their lives because they are so comfortable with each other, and even possessive of one another. This can be an unhealthy attachment, but for the most part it is a sign of their true devotion to one another.

Nevertheless, Scorpio and Virgo should both should make a conscious effort to have some space in the relationship and to spend some time apart in order to add stimulation to their bond. Virgo and Scorpio are very deep, pensive, introverted, and spiritual beings. They learn a lot from being in each other’s presence, and often they communicate with each other without the need for words. Their intuitive understanding of one another and loyal support is their strongest link.

For more about how Scorpio’s partnerships and overall consciousness are being shaken up due to Uranus in Taurus 7-year transit in our relationship sector, read Part II of this astrological report. I wrote a 36-page forecast to help us navigate these changes and deepen our connection with our lovers with patience, courage and wisdom. All orders are available to download digitally immediately after purchase, and include a love forecast within the report. It’s now on sale. Enjoy!


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Uranus, the Planet of Surprise, shifted into Taurus in March 2019, where it will remain until 2026. Since Taurus is Scorpio’s opposite sign of the zodiac, its transit has a direct effect on our partnership sector these next 6 years. Our romantic partnerships, as well as all types of partnerships, will experience a radical transformation from the inside out. This is something that we’ve felt within ourselves, and it will now manifest outwardly. Uranus in Taurus Part II serves as a guiding tool for navigating this 2nd year of Uranus in Taurus. Your relationship foundations are dramatically shifting, but as long as you trust your heart and your instincts, you’ll experience the love life meant for you, Scorpio. 2019 was an emotional rollercoaster, and 2020 can provide greater internal stability, even in the midst of external chaos or change.

This 30-page report breaks down the overall energy of year 2 of Uranus in Taurus, and also highlights specific dates where we may feel its influence most intensely in our relationships. If you’ve been navigating challenges in your partnerships and feel like you’re at a crossroads in your love and social life, this forecast is for you. Empower yourself and empower your relationships by being self-aware and accepting of the changes manifesting in your life, rather than trying to control everything. You are not alone, and you will make it through stronger, wiser, and more evolved than ever.

All orders of Uranus in Taurus Part 2 are available for download immediately after purchase, and will also be emailed to you. Enjoy!

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Uranus, the Planet of Surprise, shifted into Taurus in March 2019, where it will remain until 2026. Since Taurus is Scorpio’s opposite sign of the zodiac, its transit has a direct effect on our partnership sector these next 6 years. Our romantic partnerships, as well as all types of partnerships, will experience a radical transformation from the inside out. This is something that we’ve felt within ourselves, and it will now manifest outwardly. Uranus in Taurus Part II serves as a guiding tool for navigating this 2nd year of Uranus in Taurus. Your relationship foundations are dramatically shifting, but as long as you trust your heart and your instincts, you’ll experience the love life meant for you, Scorpio. 2019 was an emotional rollercoaster, and 2020 can provide greater internal stability, even in the midst of external chaos or change.

This 30-page report breaks down the overall energy of year 2 of Uranus in Taurus, and also highlights specific dates where we may feel its influence most intensely in our relationships. If you’ve been navigating challenges in your partnerships and feel like you’re at a crossroads in your love and social life, this forecast is for you. Empower yourself and empower your relationships by being self-aware and accepting of the changes manifesting in your life, rather than trying to control everything. You are not alone, and you will make it through stronger, wiser, and more evolved than ever.

All orders of Uranus in Taurus Part 2 are available for download immediately after purchase, and will also be emailed to you. Enjoy!

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  1. I (scorpio) am currently dating a virgo and this can’t be more true. I love how deeply detailed you are in explaining each signs deeper meanings.

    1. I havebeen married to a Virgo for 26 years. The unhealthy attachment mentioned in the fourth paragraph is too true. This assessment is spot on.

    2. I recently just ended with a Scorpio, me being a Virgo she was the love of my life and all this is true we lasted a year and 2 months. But I miss my scorpio and it seems like she’s doing mighty fine. It sucks I want her back but she ignores me, any options on what to do???? Or do I just leave it until she comes back???

      1. Depending on the reason why she left, unlikely she will come back, especially if she was hurt. She won’t come back no matter how much the Virgo may still love you. However, if you come back, she may give you a chance, but she will probably need answers first before forgiving, and it better be a good 1.

      2. You have to give her all of you in exchange for her heart. It doesn’t matter that she ignores you because your efforts to get her back are not going unseen. Us scorpios just like to act like we don’t care for fear of being humiliated.

        1. Well not all the time.. I am a scorpio, as long as i wasn’t cheated on, theres still a chance if that person opens up to talk. but if there was infidailty thats when we can grow apart.

          1. I’m a scorpio. What I don’t like about virgo people is the difficulty of admitting they’re wrong. Maybe you haven’t said sorry to him yet. Maybe you won’t because you can’t remember anything you’ve done wrong. But chances are, you’ve said or done something which in her assessment is wrong. If you like her back, say your sincerest apology which will surely touch her heart. If that’s not the reason, maybe you lack sexual passion which is very important to a scorpio. The only chance she’ll be back to your life is when she realize who you are deep within and not just the cold surface which you tend to portray for fear of rejection.

        1. I’ve been going through this too. It’s been months since I been apart from my scorpio after 4 years but I can’t seem to get over him. As a Virgo woman no other mans ever made me feel the way he has. I hurt him & am trying everything to get him back. I gave him space and he came back around but refuses to see me. Idk what to do but let him make the next move and play it cool. He says he regrets that we ended but I can’t get much more out of him & I don’t want to pry. Ughhhh it drives me nuts.

      3. Just allow her to come back. If the relationship was real, I PROMISE she thinks of you from time to time. Make sure that you show her your interest without really showing her. She may feel that you have moved on as well.

        1. Yup.. i agree virgos need to speak up. we aren’t mind readers. one question.. what is it about scropios that virgos love.

      4. @Khels when you read this, do you mind filling us in about what happened afterwards? I am curious if you got your Scorpio back! Thanks!

      5. MY virgo man had the same prob nd on the same day 28 feb 2018 we broke up coz he was very over possesive, he fights a lot, a had prob with my male friends, he was soo much of childish , had no time for me and a lot but says i love u 😂😂😂. It funny. I gave him several chances but now i left hin forever. I ll never accept him. And i m happy living my life with a sag man.he is totally of my type.

      6. what did you do to your scorpio gal? one thing we dont forgive if cheating.. maybe i can help you.. i am a Scorpio.

      7. Chase her and tell you will chase her to the ends of the earth and back and you will never let her go and through all the ups and all the downs I know you are what I need in my life. Please please please please please please don’t stop saying please and it’s in you to cry, do it

      8. She may come back around. I was the Virgo that formed the unhealthy attachment which made the Scorpio I was involved with, disppear from my life for about 4 months but he is now back. Give it time. They hold grudges and don’t like to be hurt. Just like us Virgos.

    3. i am the virgo and he is the scorpio. everything you said was spot on! the only thing is, we are in a friends with benefit relationship. it’s almost like we understand each other on a deeper level, almost like we are mentally linked. but he doesn’t look at me that way, and so i had to finish things with him, but he keeps coming back and he’s really trying.

  2. This is freaky accurate… I truly believe the only sign that can handle a scorpio while keeping the flame lit is a Virgo. I love my Virgo!

    1. I was in love with a virgo but that person didn’t show just how much i meant to them. i would like to think that we are compatible but my Pieces understands me way more.

  3. I’m in the beginning stages of this Scorpio Virgo love. She (Virgo) loves me and I her. I’ve noticed we need space because as a Scorpio i can become deeply attached. She is a tad shy and I do get nervous that my deep feelings will scare her. She has been hurt so have i. This is too accurate but helpful

    1. I know I am responding to a 5 year old post but I just read it and am completely blown away.

      I am a Virgo man in an incredible relationship with a Scorpio woman and every part of this post is accurate. It took over 18 months for us to become lovers mainly due to my cautious nature. Now we are madly and deeply in love. We are soulmates and more. We make each other complete.

      Thank you for helping me understand the magic we have and why and how this is how it is between us.

      1. Cat, are you and your scorpio in the same city? I’m a scorpio with a very close relationship with a virgo male . He’s very hot and cold I have fallen for him but he is very focused on his work. I respect that and his being a single parent. But I think my being a scorpio I feel things so strrong i may have scared him.. Any tips you can share?

  4. Well….it is quite true but my virgo love has proved to be unfaithful and i think that a scorpio-virgo relationship is certainly not that perfect pair…

  5. That damn 4th paragraph!!!! So spot on. My being the Scorpio I am impressed that finally someone gets it! It seems as if we always had to explain our ‘relationship’ with others who didn’t. More often than not, their jealousy would try to tear it apart. Always to utter failure. Enough for us to laugh about later. Then, there are times when years go by without speaking to one another, when that one out of the blue moment happens of running into each other, we usually pick up the conversation right where we left off as if no time has passed. I am still trying to decide if that’s a good thing or not.

  6. This is bang on! I have a virgo best friend from past 3 years and lately we have started feeling for each other but quite skeptical as to take it forward or not because we don’t want to ruin the friendship.This horoscope helped a lot to get some clarity but we are still indecisive.
    Anyway Love this website.Please keep posting.

    1. As you’ve been enjoying his/her company, I know exactly how much you value the unique connection. Take a deep breath and go for it. You both know how to fix the connection even after breakup. Your pride doesn’t matter for this connection. I’m Scorpio.

  7. I, a Virgo woman, prefer women so you can imagine my surprise when I found myself falling for a Scorpio man. It’s like we communicate without words, we agree almost on everything, and when we disagree on something we argument so passionately that we enjoy ourselves. And sexual attraction at least for me is unlike anything I have ever experienced. He’s married, I’m in a relationship with a woman and I have no idea what to do with strong emotions that are boiling up inside of me.

    1. I’m not in a relationship with a woman anymore, he is still married, I still want him, I now know that he wants me, too, yet, nothing’s happening… We are both too shy to make a first move!!!

      1. I am curious how do you know you both want each other? Curious because I want a virgo woman who shows all the signs of attraction but I refuse to make the first move. I am attracted to her fully to the point she is the first and last person on my mind. I will never make the first move. If she doesn’t this one gets filed away into “what if”. Relationships are just better when the women are too overcome with passion that they need to make a move. I hate the technique because she is driving me crazy.

        I am curious how you know he wants you. What if it is all in your head? What if your just another woman and those flirty signals you interpret are just platonic interactions? I have to control myself when I talk to this woman because my body wants her and will gravitate toward her. Just a question. I don’t mean to belittle your inappropriate crush.

        1. Eye contact and body language, a few things said to someone within ear shot of your virgo may help. Don’t start too close to her. Virgos are very cautious when it comes to being rejected. Little things will capture her attention we notice everything. Remember, we analize everything to pieces so she is probably going crazy herself. Speaking for myself, I prefer to be dominated. I have never been the one to make the first move. Not that there wouldn’t be exceptions for other virgos. I have always had a very eerie telepathic connection with even my scorpio friends. The deepest and sexiest relationships I have ever had have been with scorpio. Sure doesn’t hurt that its my venus sign as well. Good luck to you. I am dealing with a secret crush myself. shhhh……….

          1. I’m completely smitten with a Virgo woman. Is there likely to be some truth in a Virgo jokingly telling you they would date you? Is this a sign I should make a move? Or just a simple remark without meaning? How do you flirt? Do you give subtle hints or simply tell someone you like them? Some context: Virgo woman made a point of telling out of the blue that there were some in our friendship group that thought she flirted with me. An hour or so later she joked that she would totally date me. We get on really well and she’s tactile with me. This is unusual for Virgo’s, right? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

          2. I hear what you are saying. I was in love with a Scorpio male friend for 6 years. My Venus is in Scorpio. Weve been very close friends. We acted like a couple. It didnt happen.
            Hes been on and off with another Scorpio with her Venus in Scorpio for same amt of years. Shes has screwed him over several times and Ive been the friend who has picked up the pieces. .
            Shes also 8 years younger than him(scorpio men love their young girlfriends). Shes back.
            Ive had to walk away. It has left me scarred. Stronger but scarred
            All my friends are Scorpios tho. Thankfully all female.

  8. This is so true. I am a lesbian and my ex gf is a virgo, she helped me come out and taught me to b open about my sexuality. Even tho we’re not together anymore we are still good friends. But its kinda hard for me to get into relationships with other women because of our friendship. My ex doesn’t like seeing me with new girls. And the new girls talk shit about my ex when they don’t even know her. The new girls end up leaving and never talk to me again Cuz Im still good friends with my ex.

  9. I am in love with a virgo. But I have no idea how he feels. It’s so weird I’m sad when he’s not around. I told him how I feel about him. But he has yet to let me know what he’s feeling. But its something in his,eyes that makes me feel like he does have feelings for me but can’t say it. Idk. I just feel like he’s suppose to be in my life. I hope its forever

    1. I’m a virgo myself and even if I do like someone, I’m very careful about how I deal with it: Why? Well, I personally fear rejection, that I’ve “misanalysed” something, the signs for example. I also sometimes fear someone’s confession is a cruel joke being played out.

      But even those times where I am sure of the other person’s feelings, I’m still.. Careful. I can be in doubt with my own feelings, wondering if I’m doing the right thing. Wondering if I’ll get hurt again the same way as I was last time. I date someone because I want a future with them, not to waste time. 🙂

      1. As a Virgo man I realised that sometimes ‘analyzing’ would be a downfall and hides more than it reveals – creating more space for regret – nowadays when high analysis seems to enforce my fear of pain, I play a hunch because even though Virgos analyze we have great gut-instinct and we’d do better if we all depended on both our keen eyes and unquestionable intuition. plus it also helps in the process of matching Scorpio’s passion.

        I’m with a Scorpio woman btw

  10. I love my Scorpio soooooo much!!!!! I have never felt such a strong connection to anyone else. I(virgo woman) hate that fact that he can just detach himself and not speak to me for a long time. I’m assuming its the stuff mentioned above. I know he loves me too.

    1. Hi Donna, I am here looking and find myself talking to my ex sister inlaw she isa virgo she has been hurt in past by past mate. all I want out of life is a good mate who willl understand me,yes I do tend to pull away,mainly due to maybe we had fuss over something simple,maybe big and I don’t want to open up till I have calm down or figured out a way to talk over what ever it was in the first place. maybe it is the stars maybe not but I pray

  11. While my best friend and I are not in a relationship, this post is scarily accurate in regards to our friendship. If you didn’t know one of us were straight, you’d mistake is for a married couple. We know when somethings wrong without even speaking to each other. Almost like a soul connection. The downfall paragraph is true as well, but honestly I wouldn’t have it any other way; it’s hard to find real people in this world.. Even harder to find ones you connect with. Love you Phooker! :3

  12. My love is a Virgo we got back together after 2.5 years.. He cheated on me in the worst way possible but ever since a 1.5 years ago when he seen me happy and in love with my new man he tried to get back with me ever since. Me being aScorpio woman if you mess up there is no return. But I gave him another chance after some years and I’m genuinely happy he’s like my best friend and lover and his intelligence turns me on. He’s like a walking encyclopedia lol. Knowing everything and having such a great drive. This is the love of my life and I’m glad I forgave him and I’m glad he never stopped trying to be back in my life. He reassures me everyday how much he cares. I can live without the emotional part because I know we live differently and we appreciate each other. Also the first month we got back together he asked me to marry him. I said yes BC this is my soul mate

    1. Awww that’she beautiful I’m a virgo women myself and u i feel the same way about my Scorpio man .. congrats

  13. This article is so true…. My best friend is a Scorpio and I am a Virgo. When we both are together we are inseparable. Everything mentioned in this article about friendship is ALL true. We are very possessive of each other and my Scorpio does not express herself through words but she definitely shows it with her body language. My BFF and I have known each other for more than 10 years and it took her about 5 years to be completely open with me now. She can still be mysterious at times but I love her just the same. She always lets me know that she loves her Virgo =) Also, do give your Scorpio some alone time, I do. We see each other every 6 mos and when we do, we always gain stronger feelings for each other and we become more inseparable.

  14. I was in a 7yr same sex relationship with a scorpio girl whom I cared so much for that I put my own needs aside just so I can make her happy (i now realize the unhealthy nature of this). Although the beginning of our relationship felt very distant and cold since we had yet to build a bond between one another, over time, we became this amazing duo that nothing and no one could break. She was everything my eyes could see and I could picture my entire life and future in her eyes. I really thought we wanted the same things but its been about 3 months since out break up and its tough. It was her voice and text msgs I woke up to every single day, it was her face that I stared at next to me while I was driving us and it was her laughter that brought out the funny and humorous side of me that has calmed down ever since the break up. Of course we had fights but I think we spent so much time together and closing ourselves off from friends and outsiders really affected everything at the end. She wanted to be single and felt that she needs to free herself from us in order to pursue an independent life where nothing and no one close to her mattered and should could do anything without feeling guilty. Well, I of course didn’t argue and accepted her wishes and haven’t spoken to her since that day nor seen her. I am trying to move on with my life and by this I mean trying not to dwell on what use to be and what we use to share. Nevertheless, I struggle every single day with thoughts of her in my head and it continues into my dreams every single night.

    Anyways, I’m ranting here but it helps to get my feelings out. Although I hold no hope for the future just so I can move on in a healthy way, I do hope that one day her and I can meet again and perhaps build a new relationship with the past behind and the future ahead.

  15. Mine was not as long as yours but I do understand what you are going through. It has been over a month since and it is not easy. Being a Virgo your constantly going over what happened and replaying events over and over in your head. Sometimes we have to just understand that in life things happen for no reason. The connection was intense and like nothing I ever had but the lesson from this is that a Virgo was able to feel emotions…

  16. This is so spot on! I love my Scorpio. What we have is beautiful. She’s the best thing to ever happen to me. Someone told me Virgo and Scorpio were not compatible. I beg to differ. Glad I found this post. Even gladder we found each other.

  17. This is all very true. I’m a young scorpio woman and I have been dating a Virgo man. We met a year ago and hung out a few times and I cut it off because I felt he was moving too fast and wasn’t close to ready for what he wanted from me. A year later I contacted him and we’ve been together almost two months now. He’s still wanting to move fast in his actions but he has yet to really open up to me. It hasn’t been long but I feel myself becoming attached to him and falling deeply in love with him and that is a scary realization for me due to the fact that I’ve been hurt badly. I’ve made a conscious decision to be with him whole heartedly and I’m just hoping for the best.

  18. This is all very true. I’m a young scorpio woman and I have been dating a Virgo man. We met a year ago and hung out a few times and I cut it off because I felt he was moving too fast and wasn’t close to ready for what he wanted from me. A year later I contacted him and we’ve been together almost two months now. He’s still wanting to move fast in his actions but he has yet to really open up to me. It hasn’t been long but I feel myself becoming attached to him and falling deeply in love with him and that is a scary realization for me due to the fact that I’ve been hurt badly. I’ve made a conscious decision to be with him whole heartedly and I’m just hoping for the best.


  20. I am virgo an my lover is scorpio. Its the most intense relationship i have ever encountered. I have no idea where this will go as i have fallen for him BIG time an well he just goes quiet on me all the time. He says i mean alot to him but for 4 days there he went away an never contacted me or even told me he had gone. Says it all really.
    When we r together its explosive in the best way.

  21. i miss my virgo man so much. but he wasnt true to me, betrayed my love for him and went with someone else. it hurts but im glad its all over. i just miss the connection though. ive never felt such a strong bond with someone before and i discovered so much about myself in our time together. i just wish things had worked out and he had been the man he had promised he would be for me.. but its ok. things happen and im happier now that the truth is out and i couldnt feel any better.

    -scorpio whose heart was broken by a virgo

  22. Hey im in a friends with beneffits with a virgo girl .. im scorpio be have all those things that the article said ,,, the thing is im deeply in love with her and she does not feel the same thing as me, we are seeing eachother for over 5 months and im still w8-ing for her to feel the same and commite to a relationsheep … What can it be that she does not want this to hapen, why cant she make this decision now because i am fully loyal and i tell her everything that i fell for her and she knows all of this things she obviously likes me if we are having a FWB relationsheep and she is quite ok with me she likes me but cant get pass this …. Any virgo woman out there that can give me an advice pls im starting to be desperate.. 🙁

    1. be a little aloof , that’s what my Scorpio did to have me .. Try to have best friends with someone else .. Don’t date them but just that they are friends (girls only 😉 be hot and cold! Just have something else to do from time to time

    2. Well…Mihai, I am a Virgo (f) and I am in a fwb relationship with my Scorpio (m) , our stories are like a carbon print , I have much admiration and an intense depth of attraction towards my Scorpio, however I can’t seem to commit …he put all his cards on the table n told me he loved me and I got scared …it’s not that I enjoy being fwb it’s just that my past relationship has made me afraid of commitment,
      We even tried the no contact rule twice in one year, lasted about three months each…and we failed due to our strong bond and feelings….
      I think you should just wait it out a bit…us virgos like to analyse and take our time before jumping into anything more especially a relationship, just know that the day she decided to take the relationship to the next level…it will be for the long haul.

  23. im a scorpio and wanna date this girl she is a virgo. im tryin hard to play my cards well. praying what i have read here helps. thanks.

  24. Virgo woman, scorpio man. He’s my best friend and just professed his deep love for me. I told him not to entertain the idea. We are both in our 30’s, divorced, with one teenager each. Mine is coming to live with me. And so is my scorpio best friend who is in love with me. Deeply, the love letters could be sold they are so beautiful. I just can’t except it. Ive been in one bad relationship after another. Will my scorpio give me time. I mean years. I want to be his friend forever. I promised him I would. I said we could never cross that line or we could destroy our friendship. Will he be able to go slow, or will he dip out. He’s so very precious to me. But kinda addicted to relationships. I guess I have been too. I’m so sick of it all, but I won’t turn my back on my friend. I know that is most important. Reading this is scary accurate, and has helped Thank you for letting me vent!!!

  25. Thank you so much for the article I’m s virgo in a relationship with a scorpion woman.we have been datein for 6 years he/she need sometimes apart.but reading some of the stuff on here I hope everything go good n better for us I love her I want to married her grow n still we get old together forever. Thank you so real

  26. Where can I start… I love my Scorpio man to death. He’s so passionate, creative, charming but selfish.. Very spiritual.. I’m caring, sensitive, affectionate and critical. Only because I see the potential in him and want him to do better. I support him in whatevrer he likes and what’s is mine is his.. He’s makes me feel safe and loved. Very reassuring.. But I know I can’t fulfill his emotional needs and its killing me.. It makes me insecure. I know I can’t.. Idk what that means.. Idk what it feels like to make desicions off of emotions. I try to feel and understand but I can’t.. He told me this before but he try to act like he didn’t say it but I heard him and will never forget it.. He know I have emotions where he can feel them, I’m not a cold person. I’m just very logical and I deal with emotions last.. He have Pisces and cancer female friends.. He use them for emotional excitement.. I know they’re friends, nothing sexual.. But I’m still jealous. I sometimes wish he wasn’t so emotional but I love it too because he make me feel emotions I never felt before.. Now our sex life is something else.. Like on some spiritual soul touching.. Lost for words.. I think it made us really possessive and jealous. He’s becoming abusive and I’m fueling the fire.. We won’t break up. Try but always come back together. All I know my heart is saying yes and I have to follow that.

    1. The most powerful thing you both can do is study your natal chart. You will gain an understanding of each other.
      Your natal chart shows you the tools and weapons you were born with. Free will is what you do with them to build something. Try or
      Good luck

  27. I have a friendship with a Scorpio man and as a Virgo woman agree with this article. It is accurate to the T. However our relationship started as lovers and well ended as friends. Seemingly the friendship has blossomed and for the life of me I couldn’t ask for anything more! We’ve been friends for almost 7 years now and never touched each other romantically again. It is to say that I still love him deeply but he did hurt me and I him. Granted this was long ago and we’ve healed together, sometimes I wonder how it would be to try it again. I don’t want to ruin what we have now but I’m so attracted to his person and just want so much more , it’s almost compelling!! Anyway just thought I’d share that since you all seem to agree to the same degree of passion and devotion as I have experienced with this wonderful man Scorpio. ❤️

  28. I am a Virgo man who has a female Scorpio best friend. When we first met in high school I was drawn to her…her energy was something else…it was alluring. I also had a deep crush for her, but I was way too shy to let her know back then. We had a brief moment in time where we lost contact for a few years, but I missed her terribly. It hurt, even.

    When we reconnected it felt like no time passed. I then confessed my feelings for her, and I understood that she was in a relationship and I had zero intention of interfering. It did feel cathartic letting her know how I felt about her. Thankfully she appreciated what I had to say. Fast-forward to now and she’s in another relationship, and I feel like I’m closer with her than ever. To the point of even calling it love. We’ve been through hell and back together. We enjoy silence together. We enjoy doing things together. When it’s just me and her I feel like I’m home, with my intellectual and spiritual equal. We are both so similar in terms of our worldviews it’s mind-boggling. I honestly mean this from the bottom of my heart: I love that quiet, snarky, intelligent, conscientious girl. My Scorpio muse.

  29. Very true. I am a Virgo woman who has fallen deeply in love with a Scorpio man and it has been going on for a very long time. What scares me is that I don’t think I’ll ever truly get over him.. I miss him so much it tears me apart.

    1. I Virgo woman an my spouse Scorpio man have been together for 14 years.Theres lots of strong feelings between us.At the same time I feel that he can manipulate my decisions and he hides things from me an me being a know it all must know every thing and that can be quit difficult for me and he says I don’t listen with I remember every single thing like an elephant so I find I’m confused lots of times an when I’m giving him advice he gets to find me in wrong of doing so continues!

  30. This… >>> “Both Virgo and Scorpio are extremely guarded and reserved in love. Scorpio demonstrates more depth of emotion, but for this same reason they will test Virgo before opening up to them. Because Scorpio has been deeply hurt in the past, they will do anything possible to avoid further pain. Virgo can relate to Scorpio’s cautious behavior. They too are naturally suspicious, and they can also be insecure in love. Virgo may undervalue their own qualities and believe that Scorpio may find someone better. Virgo benefits from reassurance that Scorpio is as invested as they are.”

    Should not make it ok for him to be out on a date tonight while professing to me just hours ago that he has feelings for me. Literally his words, “It’s a date. I’m not sleeping with anyone.”

    What the……

    I’m hurt Scorp… Your feelings for me are as transparent as the morning mist.

  31. I’m completely smitten with a Virgo woman. For the Virgo’s: Can the Virgo women (or men) of this group tell me if you’re ever shy and hesitant to make a move? Also, if you play hard to get sometimes? Or games to test how someone feels about you? Also, what are some of the things you do to flirt or show interest in someone? What signs should I be looking for? And whats with the push/pull thing? Sometimes I feel like I’m getting signals, then other times no signals. I’m terribly shy and tend to give mixed signals as I don’t like to be too vulnerable. She definitely laughs and jokes around and I do often find our eyes meeting across the room… When I do catch her looking at me she immediately looks away. Very early on she asked me about my preferences (type) for women but she reveals so little. She does compliment me but mainly relating to my intelligence and humor. She also seeks my advice and opinion on many things. But then she’s strange with the communication. Sometimes responds and then nothing for days, even ignoring a simple question. Then if I don’t text she will initiate. Also, we might chat on social media throughout the day then she seems really shy when I see her that evening. Even cold and detached. One weird thing: Following a match, we had a group conversation and were discussing how some women wear really short shorts when playing soccer. Like the REALLY short shorts – like underwear! I joked that “maybe some prefer air-conditioned comfort”. The Virgo does wear short shorts but not the REALLY short shorts. The Virgo must have overheard because she sent me a message saying she had a surprise for me and then arrived to play soccer in longer shorts. Is this a sign she is keen on me? Confused Scorpio here!

    1. I know for me (Virgo) the push pull thing you mentioned in rooted in fear. I’m so afraid of the intensity of my own feelings sometimes that it freaks me out so I’ll pull away from the person causing them so I can feel safe using the logical side of my brain.

    2. As a Virgo, this definitely sounds like a Virgo with a crush. I am terribly nervous to make a first move and always hope that the other person will do it. There’s a dominance to a Scorpio personality that is really attractive and I’m always hoping that my Scorpio crush will do something first because it seems like that’s a Scorp thing to do.

      The push and pull that you’re describing is something that I go through as well because sometimes I’ll feel brave and flirt a little bit and other times I am scared of showing my true feelings so I’ll pull back because it’s safer.

      I can give compliments like saying I’m proud of them but saying they look beautiful/handsome is incredibly hard because it feels like I’m going to reveal all of my feelings. So it comes across as a friendship compliment instead of flirting.

      I can’t speak for other Virgos but I’m not a touchy-feely person unless it’s with someone who I have romantic feelings for. So if she’s touching your arm when you’re talking or laughing that’s probably a really good sign.

      Good luck!

    3. As a virgo woman, I’m afraid to make the first move when I don’t see if the feelings between me and my scorpio crush are mutual. It’s because scorpios often give me extremely intense feelings that I don’t have the confidence in handling on my own. If I like someone, I wouldn’t dare to make the first move but if I do, it’s usually due to impulsiveness and after that I’ll feel super embarrassed about it and I’ll hide in my shell again. If she’s looking at you across the room, she might be thinking of you and she might be missing you. I do that too and if sometimes the scorpio guy I like stares bacl, I’ll quickly look elsewhere as my heart skipped so many beats it scares me. Scorpio’s stares are so intense, I don’t have the courage to handle it alone.

  32. I am a bisexual Scorpio man interested in my Virgo male best friend. He’s intelligent, funny as hell, almost frustratingly mysterious at times and then warm and vulnerable at times. I know that he’s an adult and that he’s not innocent but there’s this strange almost…pure aura that he gives off that makes me want to protect him. I’ve grown very possessive over him over the years and although I usually display that protectiveness in a brotherly way, I’ve grown to want more. He recently came out as gay which was a relief because for the past 2 years, I’ve been growing more interested in taking our friendship to the next level- and now he’s open about his sexuality (which I knew about all along) and I can make a move, but it’s hard to tell if he’s interested in me. Yet I feel like he knows – he usually can read me like a book, unlike other people who don’t know me well. But he hasn’t said anything, but there’s something in his eyes that makes me think he’s shy and doesn’t want to make the first move because he’s afraid I might not feel the same way…

  33. I just recently got out of a 8 month relationship with a Virgo man. Your article is dead on and sadly his over attachment and need for my attention was what caused our doom. I hope the rest of you Virgo/Scorps work out well better then we did.

  34. Virgo woman just left. She told me that she doesn’t trust me any more. I told her that I will try to change and she said “I gave you many oppurtunities, you didn’t change and then you won’t do it now”.
    I tried to push her and she told me to not stop contacting her.
    If I let some time and space, will she let her guard down? Does time help for them? She’s stubborn…

    1. It might take a long time. If this is about your behavior and if some trust was broken, you’ll need to show through your actions that you’ve changed. But do it from a distance. Do it slowly over time. She’s protective of her heart and won’t let her guard down easily.

  35. Virgo woman who’s fallen for a Scorpio man. We have a friend with benefits thing going on, but I want more. He knows I like him, but says we’re just close friends at the moment. I would do anything for him. I wish he would give me the chance to show him the inner me, but I think he’s already assumed who I am. We are really close though. We talk about everything, and though he has secrets I respect that. Its like ive been hypnotized. Want him so much it hurts, yet I’m so scared of having my heart broken again.

  36. You want more, then stop having sex with him. Why would he give you more when you’re already giving him everything anyway. Pull back.

  37. I’m a scorpio girl. Im still young but I have eyes on this person, I don’t know why but their presence seems to overpower everyone’s and I’m really sad coz all I think about is that person. I keep looking at them when their not looking but they don’t seem to notice me or acknowledge me but when we’re alone at a point and make eye contact it’s like a million words were spoken. I feel so deep about them but can’t tell if they are intrested which hurts like hell and when their with someone else It feels like someone stabbed me and the sad thing is I feel like there’s a bond for sure but them not reacting makes me think other wise.

  38. Have to say out of every relationship I have ever had. The one with a Virgo was the very best. No man has ever cared for and loved me so much. He cried so hard when I broke up with him and I will never forget I felt about him. I only hope to find that kind of love again no matter what sign he may be. We just got along so well we could spend every moment together. I loved his friends, he was hardworking, amazing sex, he always knew when something was wrong and knew how to fix it. I’ll never forget him.

  39. Its been 8 days with my scorpio.

    We had our first date and she and i where so attracted we couldn’t help0 but explore each other’s body.

    I am a androgynous person and im happy she fully accepts that

    I like her support and we both agreed we met in another life. We knew each other’s body so well and the mental connection made things More intense.

    Now I’m reading and totally understand why i feel so deeply. So fast!

    Im 23 Virgo and she is 28.

    She is stable and I’m getting my life together. This makes her worry because she wants someone to build with not build up.

    Instantly! I took all the knowledge I’ve been accumulating and i believe the universe gave me her to give me a bigger push of motivation to GROW UP.

    I want to be her safety net. She is well off but i want to spoil her and take care of certain things for her to have more time for her grow and collaborate our skills and make big moves.

    I found myself getting clingy i apologized and fell back. I don’t want to scare her at all. Im just a little devoted and it scares me more because its such little time.

    I am ready to let things grow at a natural pace!

  40. My husband and I just read this tonight I am a Virgo and he is a Scorpio we felt as if you were reading our story every bit of it was spot-on

  41. Im a Virgo and my One and Only is a Scorpio. He is by far the warmest, sweetest and most loving man I have ever known. By the way to those who claim Cancer and Pisces are the more sensitive I claim bullshit! Scorpios have the tenderest hearts of all!

    1. Wow Cleopatra that was the most beautiful description of a relatiomship ever. It’s weird because I am always telling my friends that the exact feelings you described is how I want
      to feel about someone else. I am virgo woman and my friends signed me up to an online dating site because I’m so reserved when it comes to love. I have NEVER taken it seriously but I ended up chatting with someone who I felt a strong connection with (and this is just theough text) and we have been in contact for 4 months. I kept trying to figure out what it is about him that has kept my attention for this long. He is intelligent as hell which is such a turn on, hilarious, respectful and kind. I recently found out that he was a Scorpio and reading these articles makes sense. He wants
      to meet in person and I’m being really shy about it because I’m scared that the spark we have might die. The possibility of one of us not liking each other makes me quite sad yet I’m also scared of the intensity of our connection. This has caused him to feel like I am rejecting him and he has pulled away. Jeez this zodiac pair is so confusing but it seems that if we let our reservations and fears go, there is potential
      for something amazing and out of this world!!

  42. I am a Virgo and I am madly in love with a Scorpio. This post is very enlightening, as I didn’t realize the energy that exists between Scorpios and Virgos. But, this makes complete sense now given my experience which has been magnetic. Ever since I first saw him, it was like this electric burst that shot through my soul. He just connects to me at the core, without saying a word- it is like some electric field moving through my entire body. Just one look, one blink of his eyes, a slight gesture or body movement – that is all it takes. I knew right away, and I have never felt anything like it. He moves me spiritually and physically without a word or a touch- there is just this amazing energy transfer between the two of us. It is the most beautiful think I have experienced. I was very shocked and frightened in the beginning, which I totally regret as I think it really put him off and confused him. I wasn’t sure how to respond, and my delay may have really hurt him. That is the last think I want. I love him dearly and hope this is forever. I feel his heart pounding when we are not even together. He is present everywhere I go because it feels like he has become a part of my soul. Although we are spiritually connected which is amazing and transcends anything physical, I do want more. I also want to be present for him so that I can provide the love and support he needs. If he is confused about who I am as a Virgo, I’d like a chance to explain and reassure him that it is not what he is thinking. I just want him to know that he is the love of my life and I feel like I can’t live without him.

  43. I was dating a Scorpio who was the most amazing soul, full of creative spirit, passion and insight into all heart related matters. He has a significant other and they are still together, although I don’t know if he still loves her and whether he ever told her about us. In some ways it didn’t matter to me, what we had was so true and pure, the conventions in life and what others thought just didn’t seem to make a difference. It was powerful and painful at the same time. Sometimes I did not understand him, not that it mattered to me really, because that is how it is with true love. I am still crazy about him and think of him always, but right now we are apart although in my heart he is always with me. I just found out it is his birthday in a little over a week. It hurts we are apart, and I wish I could be there during this special time. It just reminds me how hard it is to be away from him. I just hope he is happy, and if not hope the universe will let him know that he is still the most amazing person to me, and the greatest inspiration in my life. In my dreams we will find a way to be together. While I’m happy thinking of him, there is still so much pain. I do hope he has a wonderful birthday, and that there is someone in his life that feels he is as special as I do.

  44. Fascinating story, I was dating a Scorpio woman and she also had a significant other. It was very intense, and I couldn’t even bring myself to ask her what she really wanted and whether this other guy (far inferior to me from my perspective) was someone she was really serious about or just a bad habit (likely the later). Either way if she is with him, then I can’t be with her. In the beginning I didn’t deal with it because of the need/ want for the intense connection. But when things developed and we were considering moving to the next level, it was impossible to ignore. I guess I’m still in limbo, and need to understand more about Scorpios their sensitivities, and tendencies in love. .Maybe it is not too late and there might be hope for us. Like you I’m pretty hung up on this Scorpio- they must be pretty amazing sensitive spiritual beings that just grab on to your heart and don’t let go. I wonder if they are aware of their heart powers.

  45. Dear Sisi-
    I am just reading your response to my email posted on April 27th. That is exciting that you seem some similarities. Just curious, what has happened with your online relationship? Did you ever meet in person, has the attraction continued, or has the spark faded? I hope there is still potential for your relationship.
    Please keep me posted. Would be a shame for fear to stand in the way.

  46. As a Virgo woman, I’d say, if she says something to you, believe it! We are generally guarded with our thoughts and emotions and prefer to drop “subtle” hints. We want to be chased rather than to chase. …I hope this helps!

  47. As a Virgo woman, I’d say, if she says something to you, believe it! We are generally guarded with our thoughts and emotions and prefer to drop “subtle” hints. We want to be chased rather than to chase. …I hope this helps!

  48. I am man Scorpio and I fell head over heels in love with my virgo female….she amazingly beautiful. In my eyes I see her heart and soul expressing itself in her completely overwhelming her with a love very few people know more less know if….shes seems to be unfaithful or inconsiderate of my loyalty.. I need assurance I’m not playing a game with her this is my life I’m investing into her..

  49. Very true on ALL accounts! My Virgo and I both enjoy nature and being outside and find that we have more of a connection when it’s simply JUST us. We’re starting again at building a solid friendship – something we didn’t do the first time around and we both understand that this will build a bond that will be unbreakable. I am very emotional, she is very empathetic and I feel that we have this odd connection that I can’t really explain. The only thing that makes sense to me is that are made for each other. I can feel and tell that she has very deep feelings for me and she knows that I truly do love her. It’s great because we really can tell each other anything. I <3 her SO much.
    Thank you Dossé

  50. born on october 26 me being belonging to scorpio.
    i love her the best as the most best part of my life . she belongs to virgo. she never come to understand how much i love her . 4 years of our relationship is still going but every tym now her action hurts my deep feelings and she never care about it. ya. she might love but the way she does totally make me think that i am no more anything for her. i wanna live with her my whole life. but always feeling insecure since 1 year that she might move on.. i m extremely loyal to her. what to do to be happy with her?

  51. I have been in a relationship with a Virgo for the last 7 years. I’m a Scorpio. She says she wants to leave in 4 months. We live together and had plans to get married. But she tells me it’s not me it’s her. I don’t know what that means. She doesn’t want to work anything out anymore. What should I do? My first gf was a Taurus April 21st. Used to say in some horoscopes that we were compatible but not anymore? We have recently talked and it’s been 16 years but still feel like she was the one? So is this all just Mumbo jumbo? Or have I just fell into a dark place?

    1. I will say you one thing, go with one you love the most. Idk what happened between you and your virgo, if you had a great relationship then it will have huge impact on your life. You should both talk things out. Other than that it is whatever you want.

  52. All 4 my ex’s been Taurus nd it didn’t end up well . Hopefully my soulmate is the Virgo man I always dreamed of.

  53. I’m a virgo girl and OMG I recently fell for this Scorpio guy at work. He’s 8 years older and unfortunately, I’m only a temp. He’s really friendly and cool and I really like it when he just stares into my eyes when he finds me looking at him. But sometimes I get REALLY SHY AND SCARED that he will realize that I have a deep intense feeling towards him SO I JUST GIVE AN AWKWARD SMILE AND LOOK AWAY *PULLS HAIR*. He did try to be friendly towards me by asking me a few personal questions e.g. age & why i changed my image. He did try a sick joke but apparently I was too slow in getting it so i just gave him a blur/innocent (huh??) reaction – BUT once I got it i think i blushed?? so he apologized AWKWARDLY. Honestly, I don’t know if he’s just friendly by nature. I also don’t know why, but I told him that he was weird and there was just awkward laughter between us but he was quite curious on why I said that. I don’t know if he’s even straight SOMEONE SAVE ME *CRIES*. I’m gonna quit soon.. should test the water by telling him bout that? any scorpio guys who can advice on what I should do??

  54. Reading this, I actually find it did not match up to my relationship at all. I’m a female Scorpio and my partner was a male Virgo. When things started, it was intense and heated and we fell head over heels; we couldn’t get enough of eachother. But when we lived together, it was quite the opposite. All the Scorpio traits hold true to me, I can dive all in if I feel the trust, I’m loyal to fault, etc. but catch me on a bad day and we have problems. However, this Virgo does not maintain any traits whatsoever that I’ve read; maybe initially. He was messy, independent, more hot/cold than myself and lacked loyalty (he cheated). True to nature, I turned to ice and fell into depression (I’m ok), and a year later, he’s still begging for me back. Best relationship to start, but ended as one of the worst! Though I will say, our emotional connection is still definitely there, but I haven’t looked back due to lack of trust. Onward Scorpio! 😉

  55. i am best friends with a virgo guy, we have a very very strong bond most of what you wrote it is true and the others im not sure, is there a higher chance that me and him might date in the future

  56. I am a female Scorpio and have become very attached to a male Virgo co-worker. We have known each other for over 5 years. I am married ( not happily….my husband pices was having an affair). At first I just felt a friendship bond with him, I felt good in his presence, he made me feel good about myself almost as if he knew I needed some positive affirmations. He was the first person i told about my husbands lack of discretion. Then as time is passed I felt this deep rooted need to be around him. He seems to know without me saying a word when I am down and need comforting. It amazes me that he just seems to turn my whole demeanor around like a flick of a switch. He makes me feel amazing, and beautiful, and intellegent. Well, now I am having romantic feelings for him (at least I think…not sure if maybe it is just a Florence Nightengale effect), problem being he has a girlfriend….well actually just recently became his fiance…..ugh! It’s weird I have always felt as though he had feelings for me too. Long, deep gazes into each other’s eyes…you know the kind that last just a second or two longer than most! Even as i type those word, i breath i a breathless sigh of ecstasy just thinking about him. he is very logical….and when you put the two of us down on paper…we dont make sense…. there is a 14 year age difference between us (me being the elder) we work together ( ok..that chsnged a little …same company not in the same department anymore….i cant even begin to explain my heartache when that happened) and well…i am married and he has a girlfriend..ooops, i mean fiance! But everything in this post rings so true to heart. I want to tell him how i feel but have multiple reservations…as I am a Scorpio I fear being vulnerable and putting my heart out there for fear of rejection ( and Yes, Lord knows I have been hurt). As I was cheated on by my husband I feel apprehensive of telling him because I feel it is not right to do to his fiancee ( I have nothing against her…i have met her multiple times, and she is a nice girl) and I don’t want to do to her what was dine to me. and I most of all fear losing our friendship if i tell him because mybe he does not feel the same and it would make things awkward and beyond anything that I could not bare!!!

  57. I totally agree with this post. I am a lesbian scorpio and there is this virgo woman that is so amazing that I can’t resist. Regardless what kind of negativity that I can see her, yea sometimes I am so annoyed at the same time, I can’t take my eyes off from her.

    It is already been 11 years that she found me when we were in highschool but that time our love wasn’t given a chance cause I am still taken on that time with a cancer woman. Years gone by and for some reasons, our destiny keeps us linked even we are already in distance. After years, she will come again into my life and to the 2nd time around, I am taken by a capricorn woman that time. She always finding her way to me and I don’t know what makes her attracted to me that much that she is willing to love me in distance, even I am with someone else until she got tired and loved by a capricorn man but on that time, my life is on the rocks with the capricorn woman until we broke up.

    after 4 years and we meet again. Everything is so magical that at last, it is our time. It didn’t work with her capricorn guy at all. Time tested us on how strong our love is. I am so into her and nothing has changed. I am glad that I found the one for me. After 11 years.

  58. I am a scorpio female 11/04 that is dating a virgo male 08/31 for over a year now.
    We were friends when we were teenagers but lost touch after we started different high schools. As kids I felt a bond with him, I wanted to protect him since he was so shy and quiet but even then I knew he had a crush on me. Fast forward 20 years later and here we are, he found me and we started talking again. I dont know what it is about this guy that has me smiling as I type this. He is unlike any one I have ever dated. One thing that drives me crazy is the costant pull/push he does. Lord knows there are times he tests my patience but the connection I feel with him is strong. He says the wrong things at the wrong time, is brutally honest and very critical and lets not forget the mood swings. He told me he has been hurt before so he is very careful with his heart and guarded with his emotions, I on the other hand feel ready to show him true love, if only he would let it be. Im crazy right? Why would I want to give my heart to a man like that? Someone who seems to be emotionally unavaible. Well he has some amazing qualities that keep me interested, he is very intelligent, communicates well as long its not about his feelings, he is talented, funny, kind and generous. He brings me this calm when we are together that I dont find anywhere else. He can soothe my emotional storms when they do arise. He has slipped up a few times and told me that he does care for me deeply and wants me in his life. He has even said he feels very lucky to have found me after so many years. I think he is falling for me in his quiet and reserved way. I can look into his eyes and feel his emotions when we touch, no words are needed. I just hope he has the courage to allow me to love him and help him forget all past heartache.
    Its a funny thing how life works, I can still see that quiet shy boy I knew when he smiles from time to time. Life is beautiful

    1. Sh!t! Well it’s definitely retrograde/eclipse season. I have just spent a very cathartic hour and a half reading all of these beautifully twisted up soul connected stories. As I am currently reeling and healing from a Virgo/Scorpio heart break. He is a Virgo male and I a Scorpio woman. We started off being distant bar friends for many years u know the kind of relationship that u kinda just know one another’s souls without really knowing one another; healing each other one cigarette break at a time. Then I briefly dated his best friend (an Areas) during which time my Virgo and I became each others sounding boards. He had(has) a girlfriend (also an areas, the pore man is surrounded) but she is already married to a woman. Anywho we went through thick and thicker together in this time and in a night when I truly needed emotional support we ended up having sex. And I mean the type of sex that vibrates through your physical body and hits u right in ur soul spot. It has been 8 months since that night during which time we became (unhealthy) inseparable spending every single day together. Well last week he finally told he that he had to be true to his Areas (the married woman) they had been on and off for 10 year now and he has to see it through to the bitter end. While I have never been in so much romantically driven pain in my entire life I do understand that this is his life’s story and he has to complete it. He begged me to remain friends but I feel that he cannot help heal my heart while being the cause of its torment. In the same token I have never allowed my self to love or depend on another human as much as I have found myself doing for this man. I just feel very conflicted, lost, and just down right heart broken all very new feelings for me. But as a Scorpio I pride myself on being something of a Phoenix. Burn it all down so that my foundation can be built back up stronger than ever before. Only this time I have learned that my foundation can’t be built from a cold hearted f*#k em all outlook again because then the first person to truly warm it will have me just as dizzy as this one. Thank you all for your replies to this and I truly wish you all the best intentions in ur Virgo/Scorpio connections and in all aspects of ur lives.

      I am not a survivor because I’m a Scorpio, I am a Scorpio because the universe wanted me to survive.

  59. Sandy, sounds like you have an amazing condition with your Virgo man. I totally get your statement about the cal. You get when you are with him and you are spot on about the whole push pull thing! I think that is part of the draw we have to the Virgo male being Scorpio women we seem to love the intrigue and the challenge. If they made it too easy for us, Well, let’s face it……we would lose interest! Ha, we are our own worst enemies. I wish you and your emotionally complicated Virgo man the best of luck. Hang in there Scorpio Sister!!!

  60. My relationship was a total bust! I dated a September 17th Virgo and at first he seemed convincing but then he became rude! He had a tendency to get wishy-washy which is a total turn off for me. But of course, I wasn’t going to let that ruin our newly founded relationship. But as time went on, he just became more and more rigid. I have an open sexuality while he was very demanding. Our relationship lasted for about 10 months total. He was just too stuck up for me. He was your typical Virgo man, well in this case, all the typical negative traits. I’m a November 8th Scorpion with a Scorpio Venus and Virgo Mars. I wanted something more easy going, while he was just exhausting. Our energies probably didn’t mix well anyway. Now I’m kind of searching for a more compassionate partner.

  61. Virgo have a analysis always see her movements and eyes rolling scorpion jealousy impression. Scorpion always attacks back fight campaign. Virgo well know scorpion attitude. Virgo ignore and pardon

  62. Virgo analyse Scorpio his eyes rolling his way cold war and Talking behind backs, jealousy, his face impressions Care and sorrow oppressed, scorpion Love Money and and play others. if your friend scorpion then you help (Money), when he survival, then first Jealous with you. don’t share any ideas thinks to you Impersonate. but his memory get way of Money. if you any help Scorpion then he revenge inject Poison you (his Jealousy way) is reason. make lot friends has fun and start game, friends to Friends and he hide and show as a Judge. Virgo is Cool mind and soft corner and ignore better know Scorpion.

  63. I’m a Scorpio women and have been with my Virgo man for 2yrs. It’s true he is the only one I listen to, and the only one that has control over me like no other. We have argued every single day since our first date. Lol. But i blame him for nit picking everything and he blames me for not ever agreeing with or siding with him. We both give each other enough space apart. My only problem is that I’ve become too attached to him ever since the 1st time he cheated. I guess I feel too insecure now bc before i was always so positive that I was the only girl very confident with trusting him to go do whatever he needed to. Now I just feel like he is going to cheat the moment he leaves. Considering the fact that he has cheated multiple times and I’ve lost trust in him and somehow still forgive him enough to trust that he won’t do it again and before I know it, it happens again. I don’t understand how or why I feel like he loves me to an extent and then just does not care how I feel at all about anything. I know this isn’t healthy for me and nobody deserves to be treated in this way but I can’t help that I love him and try to understand why he hasn’t stopped hurting me. I know sometimes he feels my pain and cries with me but there’s still no excuse for this kind of behavior & I wish he would stop and we could finish our goals we had all planned out for our future………

  64. Idk what to do everyone…im a virgo woman who has fallen for a scorpio man and I’m having a hard time deciding whether this connection between both signs is real. My scorpio man is a co-worker who has a girlfriend but we’ve really connected the past year since we’ve worked together. We talk for hours sometimes and we don’t realise/notice the time. He stares into my eyes but i can’t tell if he’s just looking like he would do everyone else or if it’s an intense gaze. He recently shared some news with me that he’s only shared with one other person, which is probably his girlfriend. He hasn’t told his parents yet. I can’t tell if he feels the same. I asked if he would go to an art exhibit after work and he said his girlfriend probably wouldn’t be cool with it. Idk what to do.

    1. Let me add so I won’t be perceived as a homewrecker that he has expressed that she tries to change him weekly. Another one of our co-workers asked if his mom likes his girlfriend and he said yes. She said that this is a good thing and he made a face. Should I give up? Is it wrong of me to even like someone at work? I know some people feel that is the wrong place to look for love.

      1. You’re a homewrecker whether you want it to be known or not. You knew he had a girlfriend from the beggining. If he’s doing that to her don’t think you’re the only person he’s doing that with. Cut him off and find yourself a single Scorpio, it’ll be worth it boo!

  65. I’ve been having a huge crush on this Scorpio guy at my highschool, we tend to see eachother a lot around highschool and sometimes in town, I really like him and I feel like we could get along so well, whenever we see eachother in the hallways we stare in eachother’s eyes before I break the eye-contact because I get all shy and I blush and I don’t want to, but I just can’t bring myself to talk to him, me being the shy Virgo, I’m 2 years youger than him and he kind of intimidates me, but the thing is we have so much in common, I just don’t know what to do. He’s usually with his group of 2 friends while I’m with my own so we don’t really have a chance to be alone.

    1. Maybe next time when you both make eye contact in the hallway, you can wave at him. This way you’re making a move without actually having to speak (since you’re shy). If he likes you, his next move will be telling. Either way you save face because you don’t have to speak.

    2. You sound exactly like me and scorpio guy. We met in middle school. I was the new girl and shy. He was one of the only people we came and sat next to me on the bus and instantly opened me up. Keep the eye contact, stay mysterious…let him approach you they like to hunt.

    3. Let me update everyone. My scorpio crush switched jobs and I haven’t heard from him. I guess the connection was in my head. It’s a shame because this was the first scorpio who ever caught my attention.

  66. This reading was spot on with every single detail. In fact, I think Scorpio and Virgo should be #1 in compatibility above any other signs. The level of heat that comes between me and my scorpio guy by just looking at each other, without even needing to say anything to one another is enigmatic. I believe these two signs are true soul mates but because there’s such passion between them, the level of insecurity and jealousy can make or break the two of them. We almost never argue or fight about anything but rather the forces of other people trying to bring us down that cause complications. We fully appreciate each other’s individuality and actually learn from each other. We make each other better. If that’s not soul mate like then I’m not sure what else is.

  67. I am a Scorpio and he was a Virgo. Everything you said is spot on. Our connection was so strong like we were one person. My heart ached when he wasn’t around. We did spend too much time together. He needed constant praise and reassurance. He cheated on me multiple times and left me when i was pregnant. The relationship was short but incredibly intense. My heart was torn to shreds by him and I’ve never really been the same since. I haven’t met anyone else as I cannot let myself be hurt again. He is not part of his daughter’s life (his choice) He is dead to me which helps a little bit. I just never want to see him or hear his voice ever again as it’ll just rake up all the pain and heartache he caused

    1. It’s good he is no longer in the picture to save you from further hurt. Your happiness and your child is what matters the most. Take care of yourself in this time of healing. I’ve often try myself to put things in perspective. as much as I cared for the Virgo Man, his actions does not show it. I take it as it is. I have no obligation to wait on wishful thinking. Yes hard to let go; but let it be.

  68. I was involved with a Virgo man a while back. He was hard to read but told me a lot and the comfort level went deeper than is normal which alarmed me on some subconscious level. I drove him away, he was crushed. I hurt him before he could hurt me . I feel now, I was wrong to do so. He only wanted to love me . No hidden agenda , but I had to go and sink that ship down to the bottom of the ocean. He loved me for me, all of me. First time ever and I didn’t appreciate it. Things got a little crazy between us before I ghosted him but I was the instigator every time and he only struck back out of being hurt. I now see clearly how I caused everything to deteriorate between us. I don’t want to turn back the clock but, I wonder if he and I could start anew.

  69. My virgo woman is hard to read at times but this site is reassuring. I am so attracted to her that it is scaring me and this post says it all. It is on point true how we like it when it’s just us two and no one else and being completely open and intimate with one another even though we make each other feel nervous . When we are with our friends, my virgo woman is too embarrassed to show her affection in public but when it’s just us two she is very affectionate and charming. I think because we are both so cautious and closed off at first, this makes us both mysterious to one another. She is also very sophisticated and keeps me grounded which I love.

  70. I am a Scorpio woman who was having a long distance relationship with a Virgo guy for 2 years. I don’t trust easily and my instincts were correct. Another woman was talking to the Virgo guy for 8 months. She looked me up. Now the Virgo asks me why I should trust her, says we need to talk about this but yet he goes silent. I honestly thought things were good but he cheated and lied to me and makes me out to be the bad person in this situation. This is why a Scorpio woman never trusts so easily.

  71. I recently just broken up with my virgo and he was more attached then I was but I miss him. Our love was like no other and I miss it will he ever come back or did my deep feelings and emotions scare him?

  72. This is so true. I feel obsessive and overprotective of my virgo partner that it is almost like co-dependent relationship. I just miss my virgo partner -all- the -time, his presence, his calmness. It could easily turn into an unhealthy relationship where we cannot function without each other. The more I see him, the harder it is for me to go on long periods without him. He is just so gentle with me, in these tubulant times is when I need him the most. Only he can calm my intensed emotions. <3

  73. Virgo woman here. Dated a Scorpio male and although they can be intensely loyal, my ex Scorpio was not necessarily faithful.

  74. Scorpio and Virgo relationships are the most private and notorious pairings of all zodiacs. It’s your typical good girl and bad boy pairing that just complement each other so well. They are the pairing that everyone obsesses over, the pairing you never expected but somehow seems to work so well for them. It is like they were meant to find each other and be together, but at the same time feel repulsed by one another. An interesting pairing that you often see in movies I must say. The Virgo is the one that brings out the good and romantic side of Scorpio (that he/she never thought they had in themselves); and the Scorpio brings out the exciting and bad in the Virgo (that he/she never had the courage to be). They make a beautiful, yet an exciting couple. They learn a lot from each other and really do evolve together. This is a couple that can conquer anything when they are together.

  75. (sorry for the long post and the bad English :-)) I met my scorpio woman two years ago online (I am a virgo woman). She sent me a text to tell me how much she appreciated my blog. Since she was a big name in that blog-world I was pretty flattered and we started to chat. We seemed to have a big connection and after two weeks we chatted every single day, in the morning, while being at work and most of the evenings discussing our days and more. Wouldn’t we have time to talk we would at least sent each other a (sweet) goodnight message. We used to have funny, emotional, personal chats. I am a very closed person and doesn’t want to bother others with my stuff, but she found a way to let me talk. I am still surprised I opened up so easily and so soon to her, she encouraged me to tell me what was going on but never in a pushy way: she was there for me when I was ready to talk. This friendship lasted for two years, with some ups and downs. Recently, after a huge fight, she told me she never want to communicate with me again. I figured out she was lying to me about something significant. Confronting her with her lying she kept denying and at the end made me feel guilty and put the blame on me because she didn’t like how I figured out she was lying. I think she has a point there so I took the blame and apologized for that. Nevertheless she admitted lying instead she was acting manipulative and also turning around the tables during that conversation. After telling me she never want to communicate she blocked me, only to unblock me a few weeks later. How I wish now I read earlier about the traits of a scorpio, I would have understand her much better and it would have been easier to accept her “it’s just how I am”. As a true Virgo I am overthinking this friendship and still wondering why I failed. At some point I felt her pulling back and I still don’t know why it happened. Is it because that’s what scorpio’s do once in a while? Is it because I was too demanding/clingy/needy because of bad experiences in the past and insecurities on my site. I have let her reassure our friendship more than a dozen times, every time she would tell me how she is enjoying our conversations and how she would be disappointed would we ever stop talking. Or reading this here is it because she started to have feelings for me? She is a bi-sexual but only known for that in the “blog-world” in real life she isn’t out, she is in her forties and pretty confident with her life; I am not sure if she ever wants to come out. Besides we live in different countries and I don’t know how she feels about long distance relationships. I hope this is not the reason for her pulling back, because I am sure now I had/have a crush on her. It would be devastating to know we wasted an opportunity. I was devastated when this ended, but came soon to the realization I had to change some things/work on myself. So, I am seeing a therapist to learn where all these insecurities are coming from, how I can be happy again and accept you can’t control everything in your life. Besides that I started some new hobbies and am feeling better and better… but I still miss the amazing talks. I am thinking of sending her a letter when I have my shit back together, apparently her ending our friendship was what I needed to work on myself and I want her to thank for that  and tell her I am proud of myself for what I have achieved since the break up. It would be nice would she respond to that, but I know when a scorpio tells you she is gone… she is gone; so no high expectations on that from my side. Thank you scorpio girl for the great time, maybe fate will let us cross our paths again (how I wish that will happen). So, if there is anyone here who can tell me I still can have hope for my scoprio returning: let me know :-)!!!

    1. She won’t return .. Scorpios take alot of time clinging onto things n thinking things through while departing but once they are gone n it’s been a while like some time has really passed away than they won’t return.. she may remember you forever but she will not return.. Scorpios keep all memories good n bad but they don’t accept wat is gone with the wind..

      1. Thanks for your response. Of course not the answer I hoped for, nevertheless the answer i expected. Recently she started reblogging my posts again, it feels like she is re-acknowledging my existence. I guess that’s all I will get from her though.
        What I still find weird is she behaving as a liar. All I read is a Scorpio hates being lied on, but in this case the Scorpio is the liar even after we promised each other we would always be honest even knowing the truth could hurt the other. I will never understand what made her do this. And worst is she never admitted or took accountability for her behaviour (I think that that wasn’t clear from my original post).
        Anyway, still thinking about writing that letter but probably never post it just to give myself some closure. I will never forget her and also remember the good and the bad.

    2. Scorpio need Virgo is there life, they act as if the not listening or they don’t need us or they don’t love us but ignore them it’s a different story

  76. I am a Virgo Woman who has been in Love with a Scorpion Man for almost Six years. The relationship caught me completely off guard, and We have spent years reading each other and getting to know each other, but it has been anything but easy; doesn’t Really matter though because at this point..No one is better than him, no matter his flaws or anything..He truly is Perfect..And I think I’ll Love him Forever!!–MyLove–

  77. I am a virgo women as well. I have known my Scorpion for almost five year. I have fallen in love with him. He did walk away from me but I still love him. I dont want him to ever be hurt. Like LeadingLadiee84 said no matter what he will always be perfect to me.He has his flaws and quirks but I love him mo matter what. It has hurt me like hell to
    see him in pain and when he walked away it hurt me. But no matter what I will always love him. I hope he knows that.

  78. Yes Virgie’s are amazing.. there’s no doubt about that, very compatible, they really understand us Scorpios and yes attachment is quite a thing for Virgios.. I have known only a few Virgoes but they were attached with me n emotionally they just connect.. and they seem like happy go lucky but they are really deep.. amazing match 🙂 full of depth, happiness and love.. kind of made for each other

  79. HELP!
    I (virgo 25) met a beautiful scorpio women (23) and we hit it off instantly and we believe we are already meant to be with one another after 2 months of talking. Everything was perfect but I unintentionally hurt her and now afraid to lose her. She is aware of my situation in which I currently live with my ex but will be moving out the end of the month. She was still willing to continue talking giving the situation as we were so perfect for each other. Recently, I told her that I promised my ex I wasn’t going to date until I moved out. I know she is keen on honesty and I wanted to be up front with her. Once I told her she was totally turned off and changed her thoughts of what she perceived me to be. I feel like a loyal and honest person but it seemed to backfire when I told her what I promised my ex. She was not only mad that I didn’t tell her earlier but also angry that I didn’t tell my ex about us, but I didn’t want to hurt her. She stated she still wants to communicate but drastically cut back on how we used to be (talk all day everyday). The scorpio will ignore my texts/phone calls one day but then initiate a few days later, but only to say “have a great day!”. I don’t want to lose her already but I assume since she stills maintains limited contact, I still have a chance? I know what I have to do and that is to be honest with my ex that I am currently talking to someone. This is the right thing to do as well as prove to the scorpio that I am in it for the long run.

    It drives my virgo mind crazy knowing I don’t have control or reassurance of us and not knowing what will happen in the future. Ill do anything to regain her trust and will continue to reach out to her. Again, she is really upset about the situation and thinks of me differently now, but I had good intentions. We don’t have the relationship we used to have but I want that back ASAP. She is slightly confusing as one day she will initiate communication but then ignore me once I further the conversation. Do I have a chance?

    1. I know exactly how you feel. I’m a Virgo in love with a Scorpio but have made a few mistakes and hurt him. I love him so much but I realize that I cant make mistakes without him running off or digging into my stuff to see who Im talking to and if I am betraying him. I cant live like that. Its too much. When he makes mistakes I pull away but if he apologizes I forgive him.
      We make all sorts of excuses for Scorpios being so afraid to be vulnerable. We Virgos do understand cause we are the same.
      But what always makes me sad is when they jump to conclusions that what we are trying to do is bad instead of at least seeing why we are trying to do what we do or discuss it with you
      I see why you did what you did about your ex. You are trying to ensure your break is clean so your Scorpio doesn’t have to deal with your residual. She has to see that you still love and respect your wife for the years you were happy. After all, why hurt her. You LOVE her but you aren’t IN love anymore.
      I understand how she feels. Really I do… but if she doesn’t trust in your integrity in trying to do what you feel is the right thing, then you have to consider if she will always be like this if you DO end up together.
      I really regret the few mistakes I have made. But I don’t think it should end something so strong and rare as I have with my Scorpio. But evidently right now he does. I have no control over him. No more than you have no control over her.
      Next time she texts you be brief. But try to move on. IF ts meant to be it will happen…

  80. Scorpios are very guarded and deeply fearful of letting others in for fear of being hurt. I think you still have a chance. She probably is also being respectful of your ex. We can also be extremely jealous. The fact that she is still communicating with you makes me think she is just keeping you interested or trying to see if you are still interested. Scorpios very big into honesty and she is probably upset that you didn’t notify her of that at the get go. She may be a little weary and mistrustung of you going foward….be patient and earn her trust. We like full disclosure. Anyway, I wish you good luck as I understand how powerful the Scorpio/Virgo connection can be.

  81. Sorry to say that there is no chance in that is going to happen. Neither of them will ever come forward again. Virgo is too rational to even rethink for another chance. Both are very independent signs and such a breakup would never end in reuniting ever again. They both know this. Sorry to put it so bluntly but the only chance any sort of reunion to ever happen is meeting by chance again -unexpectedly. Other than that, the chances are very, very slim. Good luck.

  82. I just stumbled across this and I am glad I did. This is the way I feel for my Scorpio male friend. We spend all kinds of time together We just enjoy each other so much. but he makes no clear indication he cares for me outside of our friendship. There were time I thought I saw something…. It would peek out and I feel him wanting more but I just convince myself he just doesn’t want to lose me as a close friend and try to move on and he gets deeply hurt. I don’t have the time or the luxury of playing cat and mouse. I try to stay cool but he knows how I feel. When I try to break and find someone and move on, we find our way back to each other. I know it isn’t healthy at this point but other men don’t interest me. I do feel insecure that he will find someone else. His want in a relationship is the same yet different enough than me to make me a little wary. He doesn’t want to compromise or settle after a huge heartbreak he had. He needs to have freedom. Yet he has a hard time when I try to move on. It has been a great source of pain to me.
    I know when he does find someone, I will simply have to walk away and never see him again. It will be way too painful..

  83. I’m a Virgo male who once dated a Scorpio woman. She was a complete psycho I tell you. I didn’t do as she told me and she bashed the crap out of me. I have scorpio male friends and they are cool but the Scorpio females are legit psychos.

  84. To Scorpios : I am a Virgo deeply in love with my Scorpio ex partner. We have known each other for over 3 years and got very close and bonded in a very deep way. He still wanted to “ play the field” , I wanted total commitment. So as he gradually pulled away and I felt the palpable lack of warmth coming from him , which I immediately noticed but didn’t admit I felt long until near the end of last summer. We had no contact until late October when he told me he found “ the love of my (his) life!”
    I was devastated and have not been able to recover from the shock. I get vindictive when I am hurt and he has his hurtful side to be fair , but I felt all along this was just a mere fling. I hope so because they still see each other and my Scorpio has been running hot’n’cold on me. I risked a very heartfelt explanation of how my life has been affected by our break up and he suddenly apologized for bring hurtful . I hope I can trust him not to hurt me anymore, because it will destroy me and all I ever wanted was to love him. I am giving him my trust but the waiting is making me feel like I could climb the walls . Wish me a positive turn of events .♍️💚♏️

  85. I’m male Virgo in high school who has fallen deeply in love with a Scorpio women. I met her at the beginning of my freshman year last school year. At first she seemed pretty shy and quiet. I was sitting by her all of the time during the first month or two. She was new to the school so I decided to be nice and polite so I said “hey how you doing”. To which she smiled and said “I’m doing good” in response. I forgot what else I said too her that day. However the next day I came in humming or singing something and she kind of started grooving with me to it. Then, the next day I came in and she said “hey did you miss me”. To which I was surprised by and said” yeah I missed you”. So as time passed she started to get more and more comfortable. And, when I say comfortable I mean comfortable. I’m class she would flash her panties; I think bra a some points and etc. To which I was kind of shocked by being I’m a Virgo and not that bold. I remember in class one day when I was talking too my friend who was sitting in behind me. He was taking about how me and her should be together and something like that. To which she heard and I kind of rejected and said no because I was already in a relationship since the year before. Well fast forward a little later in the year I start sitting by her again. This time at the back of the classroom. This is where she started to get even more comfortable she would show me condone she’d kept in her purse, start touching me down below and everywhere, to where which I kind of was touching her too but not to that point. We started talking about some more personal or really sexual things like how she masturbated, squirted, and etc. I didn’t really particularly like taking about this stuff but I found over time I started to like it and her in the process. It started to get to the point where I couldn’t wait to get to school mostly so I could see her and talk to her. I mean we started to really click and have a connection to the point where everyone was saying that we should be together. Well this was the second opportunity I had to get with her but again I said no because it’s not the right thing to do since like I said I had a girlfriend. Well little did I k is my girlfriend was actually cheating on me with two other guys. So that kind of factors into the story a little bit. Since the beginning of year part of the reason I didn’t want to be with her is because she kind of had a smell to her. Well I went on to find out that she smoked weed pretty much daily and that weed was what I was smelling. I found it crazy that one of the reasons why I at first didn’t want to be with her would be one of the reasons I would want to be with her. So one day I came in class and sat down and we spoke like normal, but she all of a sudden raised her hand and asked to move her seat. Which caught me off guard because I don’t see what the problem was. Well a little after that we had a long stretch where we didn’t even talk at all. I didn’t think much about it because as Virgos and Scorpios were the pros at ignoring people. However we eventually started talking again but it seemed we didn’t have the same connection. Well further towards the end of the school year she started talking to other guys, getting in relationships, and kind of being way more social than usual. To which I kind of took it the wrong way and started worrying like Virgos do that she wasn’t interested. It got to the point where one day I saw her talking to this guy somewhere in the back of the hallway. No one was around or looking to until me and someone else walked up. As soon as she noticed me she kind of grabbed his hand and let him over to this corner where she thought we couldn’t see them. She then started talking to him and kissing him like right there. As soon as I saw them it felt like somebody just took the soul of of my body and just laughed while they held it in front of me. I was extremely hurt and felt like I had been played as I was stupid or something. So later on the next day when we got to our last period which was English 1( the class we took together all year). We ended up looking over at each other like we always do and gazing into each other’s eyes. She said that one of my friends had told her that we I had said something about her. To which I said who because have a tight circle so it was only a few people in the circle I didn’t feel I could trust as much. Then she said my neighbors name who went to the sane school and was one of my closest friends. To which I kind of felt dissapointed and betrayed. I assured her that I didn’t say anything bad about her and I would text her after school. I told her what that I had been feeling her ever since the beginning of the year. I didn’t tell her everything but I told her that I regretted not trying to be with her earlier to which she replied” me too”. I felt like the answer was genuine but as a. Virgo I worried that it wasn’t true and she was lying. Soon I found out she was a Scorpio which led me to this website. I’ve been doing research and reading ever since and have figured out that we are pretty much a perfect match. I found out that our imperfections are what makes click more. And no matter how some of my friends say she’s this or she’s that. I can’t help but see more than that. I see deeper than just what she does outside. It’s inside her that I feel makes me so attracted and my drive to find out how she truly is. In the last couple weeks of school I felt I was getting mixed signals. I ended up sitting in front of her and everyday she would always find some way to touch me. But then the next day it’s like she doesn’t even want to talk or act like she sees me. So, one day we were re-auditioning for the music programs we were in. The same dude she was kissing in the hallway unnoticed that she hadn’t been so friendly with and etc. I felt it was because she still felt some way and maybe still wanted to be with me.Well I tend to try and do things for her like by her food help out in whatever fundraising she was doing. I noticed that she was paying attention to it and earlier in the year kind of showed that she appreciated it. So this time when we went to the little store outside the school and back I reminded her that I said that I would tell her the rest of what I was talking about to my friend on the way back to the school. I rushed it and threw it up without much explanation to which I felt she didn’t really believe me completely and I didn’t believe myself. I felt like I wasted that opportunity I had and as a Virgo always is very down on myself. You see I feel she likes those guys who smoke weed, have their pants sagging, and are kind of thuggish which I’m not. As scorpios usually do she has a very high sex drive and on her Facebook profile always has something about how she likes guys to lick and please her. On the last day of school when we were at this rock climbing place which is like the school hang out. Me her and my friends were kind of talking. One of my female friends said that I would be really good husband to somebody one day. To which she replied “ to the right women”. As soon as she said that one of my male friends replied by saying “to you”. When he said that she blushed a little bit, smiled,and said that I was “too holy” for her. One of the biggest miss conceptions is that I’m a super Christian. People because they call me the reverend which was a nickname given to me in 8th grade that I’m holy. If she knew the original story of how I got the nickname she wouldn’t think that. My closest friends know that I don’t even hardly go to church or know any bible scriptures at all. Even though I was raised in a Christian household and church household. Me and my family are more spiritual than anything. We don’t think it makes since to put a certain name on religion. The way we see it mostly everyone believes in the same thing they just worship differently.So when she said that I was thrown off guard cause I she doesn’t know anything about except what I show her. Not even my closet friends know me really. They have no clue what I’ll do. When she said that it really frustrates me because no one even knows me like they think they do. Only I know what I’m thinking and who I truly am. I suprise myself sometimes with what I do. I feel like as Virgos we’re made to understand people but not truly be undeserving ourselves. Anyway now that it’s summer time and we’re out of school I’ll text her and it seems like she’ll just ignore me. It makes me worry because the way I see it I didn’t do anything to you it’s the other way around. I wish she would talk to me and communicate better so if I did do something to her she can help me understand so I’ll make sue not to do it again. I driving myself crazy because I can’t get her out of my head. Everyday I wake up I think about her and how I want express my feelings. But how can I do that when I feel she barely even believes anything I tell her. I need some help understanding this. I’m a young African American Virgo deeply in love with a young African American Scorpio women. I need to know if she feels the same or better yet if she’s evem interested.

  86. I am a Virgo female, through and through. I recently met a Scorpio male with whom I developed an instant connection. But he comes with complications (other women; he dates many to include one he seems to love deeply and another who broke his heart, but who he’s considering taking back). We agreed to keep things platonic, but the attraction was too strong. I’ve tried to keep my distance in an effort to give him space, but without being stand-offish. I’m always very receptive and open to him whenever we talk, text, or see each other in person. No matter how we communicate, it is always deep. And the fireworks when we’re together… OMG! He recently said I am very much in control. When I feel like I could easily lose myself in him, I’m not sure exactly what he meant by that. But he followed the comment with another saying that he wishes he could enter my mind, see what I see, and feel what I feel.

    True to the Virgo sign, I have analyzed every little detail. And I am scared as hell he’ll find someone better or that he is already with someone better. But I won’t let insecurity rule me. I have decided the best course of action is to drop whatever ego I have and simply go with the flow, no matter where it takes me. I have chosen to give him control, to be completely honest with him (I need to be completely honest with myself first), to be completely open – willing to answer all of his questions, and to be willing to accept him for who/what he is. As soon as I did that, things got even deeper. But after getting too close a few days ago, something changed and I immediately felt him pull back. Last night he said he needed space to “think through some things.” I let him know I completely understand and will respect that. I offered to be around when he is willing to reach out, wished him the best, and ended the conversation by saying he’s a beautiful person. He responded with “thank you, you’ve been wonderful, and I appreciate who you are.” (Wow, if only all break-ups could be this beautiful!)

    So now I wait. Oh yes, I immediately teared up, my heart ached, and I felt a huge loss (so strange considering we’ve only been together for a month). It’s way too soon to say he’s everything I’ve been looking for in a man… but he is… everything I’ve been looking for in a man. Given the chance, I could honestly love this guy, I honestly want to, and I’m scared I’ll never have that opportunity. The last thing I would ever do is to push him. The ball is in his court, and that’s exactly where I’ll leave it. Still, I can’t allow this to kill me. I can’t sit by the phone and wait for him to reach out. (What if he never does? Am I prepared for that?) I need to see other men. And I will. But the truth is, I want only him. I can only hope that by having been completely honest and open with him, by giving him space, and by giving him control, it will be enough for him to come back to me. This is one guy I never want to lose. Any advice from Scorpios – especially Scorpio men – is appreciated.

    1. Did he come back? I am also a Virgo woman and had a nearly identical experience with my Scorpio man. I met him in Europe and we had a brief fling, but it was so deep and spiritual…we are hooked. But twice now I apparently said something wrong on the phone (I live in the US), and he very quickly tells me he had a great time but wanted to say goodbye now. As in, no more relationship. I have learned to give him space and wish him well, and then force myself not to reach out. It takes him 2-3 days to realize how much he misses “us” and then he initiates contact and we have the most beautiful conversation. But each time he says goodbye, I really think it is the final end and it breaks my heart. I don’t think he intends to play games, he just gets offended easily and acts impulsively. Good thing I am so loyal and patient….not sure I want to deal with these mood swings forever, but for now, I’ll keep taking him back because I feel a deep soul connection with him like no one else. Good luck.

    2. hi Virgo in waiting, well thisScorpio man tends to like it when his mate or someone he cares about callshim. on the other hand if he don’t answer or talk very long then maybe he is just being nice or something. I have this friend who is calling me to much and she gets upset if I tell her I am busy ,I am blind and I guess she thinks I am on pc looking for a gf,,,well not till latly when a virgo crossed my path again,she is sweet,the virgo has been hurt and is shy.

  87. I ( virgo) become to fall into a “trap” with a Scorpio , this scorpio had their eye on me for a while without me knowing, we bumped into one another when least expected and words were exchanged – she told me what she thought of me , one thing led to another .. she tells me she wants me , but that she can’t .. she thinks about me , she opens up to me , she knows I am good for her .. yet she is running away from it , I haven’t seen her more than twice , maybe three times. And I haven’t seen her for a while , what do I do?

  88. I ( a virgo ) have been seeing a Scorpio, only a few times and when we do we have the deepest connection, indescribable. We open up to eachother , her more than i. However , she runs away from this and refuses to see me, but tells me exactly how she thinks about me and feels towards me . What do I do to get my scorpio ..

  89. To all the scorpio-virgo couples out there…don’t give up!!! I am married to a scorpio and our marriage life has truly been a bliss. We are so naturally and effortless in-sync with each other that we intuitively understand each other, making solving problems so much easier than with other signs. If there is a sign that can make the detached virgo feel…it is a scorpio. And if there is a sign that can ever understand the depth and complexity of scorpios, it is a virgo. What a perfect match made on earth!

  90. I once dated a Virgo and this was very true for our relationship also. It did take us both a while to trust each other and open up completely, but once we did we had a pretty awesome relationship. Even though we both had our own friends group, there’s something about the connection between a Virgo and a Scorpio that made us mostly just want to spend time together alone.
    Thanks for your insights, great article!

  91. I (scorpio) had a relationship with a virgo for 11 months and 6days. We were doing really good. Not until that day she suddenly texted me that she couldn’t manage her time anymore. I know she has been faithful the entire journey of our relationship. I just dunno now. All I want is to have her back.

  92. I’m a virgo woman whose been in love with Scorpio man almost since the day i met him. We’ve had a sexual affair with a scorpio man for well over 16 years. I’m married with 4 children, and he’s married with 3. Up until 2 years ago, our relationship was strictly sexual with almost every encounter. No going out in public, no trips together, no meeting up just to talk-just meeting to have sex. I have for many years tried to understand where I stand in the relationship, but never quite understood. I’ve left iur encounters feeling satisfied, but even more confused about where I stand in his life. I love him so very much, but have always kept it to myself for fear he’d never want to see me again. I think of him all the time and sometime wish my husband and I would just uproot our lives to move and take jobs in another state. But, I don’t see it happening and I don’t see myself without this relationship with my scorpio. Until then, I left wondering what if….

  93. I’m a Virgo woman in a relationship with a Scorpio man. We have a great connection, our conversations flow so well and we can talk for hours, we truly enjoy each other’s company, and it feels right being with him. He’s very smart, quirky, competitive, intense, sweet, dedicated, and an overall good person. He always makes me feel like I’m most beautiful woman on earth without words, and when we make-out or are in the bedroom his passion exceeds any passion I’ve ever felt. I love it! He makes me feel wanted and sexy and really loves to please me as I with him. We definitely like to keep things mysterious and I think that always makes it fun for us. I can go on and on but ultimately, I think the Scorpio-Virgo match is perfect. He has his flaws, but they aren’t deal-breaking, I think the Virgo in me will eventually fix that for him 🙂 He mentioned a few times that most people feel awkward or intimidated by him, but with me, It’s like i’m unbothered and actually want to get closer to him. I think deep down he likes it lol.

  94. I’m a Scorpio female who is very much in love with a male Virgo. Is it normal for them to have a hard time opening up? Are they bad at expressing their feelings? I go by his actions and feel that he loves me, but it would be nice to hear it. Will it happen over time?

  95. I’m a gay Scorpio male…
    On November 11th, I met my Virgo.
    We got to know each other, and in a very short amount of time, we fell for each other.
    On November 16th, he asked me out on Facetime…
    He constantly sends me messages about how much I mean to him & always tells me how much he hates being away from me.
    I mean…I love this guy. He’s absolutely perfect.
    I’ll be seeing him in February and staying with him for a couple months…I honestly can’t wait.

  96. I can’t believe how accurate this is. My husband a scorpio were together for 12 years destiny pull us apart and both of us broke to pieces. He is no longer with me but I miss him so much. i wonder if one day I will see him again because for 12 years we were the happiest ppl alive we were best friends nothing was wrong. I miss my scorpio.

  97. I’m a gay Scorpio male, completely in love with a Virgo from Idaho.
    This couldn’t be more true, but honestly we balance each other out extremely well.
    He’s in Idaho and I live in Florida, so we haven’t met in person yet…but he’s flying down in February and flying me back with him…I can’t wait. Anytime someone mentions him to me I start smiling like an idiot.
    I’ve never felt so protected in all my life.
    He’s absolutely perfect.
    Because I’ve been hurt before I’m terrified of him one day getting tired of me, but he reassures me weekly…(hell, even DAILY if he feels like he has to) that he won’t leave.
    Our star charts are also very similar, we’re both Aquarius Uranus, Pisces Jupiter, Sagittarius Pluto, and Neptune Capricorn…
    His chart is Fire dominant and my chart is Air dominant.
    He’s exactly 57 days older than me, (His birthday’s September 1, mine’s October 28) and our birth times are 37 minutes apart.

    1. Dont worry everything will be alright. Just be free from your worries and tell him al you want to. Let your insecurities go and love fully as you have never before. I wish you goodluck. Give it a try.

  98. Scorpio male fell in love with a Virgo male and idk what happened we were so in love and I guess it was me I definitely have experienced some heartache and all I can remember is him showing me that clingy side which scared the fu#k outta me and me sending him off home I believe I destroyed us tbh and I wanna fix it I know he’s hurt but I never cheated on him he’s all I wanted come to think of it im gonna get his ass back ! I was younger and a lot dumber and I let him know today m feelings because we don’t keep in contact quite often but when we do somehow connect all the emotions come rushing back how we ended was weird I definitely think its a chance for us again I just don’t know whats his stand point on it and if its a no I’d like for us to remain friends because he’s a cool person

  99. Lol..I don’t even know where to begin! Been in love with three girls in my life and they have ALL been virgos..had flings with capricorn, pisces, scorpio, cancer, and taurus, but my interactions with virgos is something else. They understand menas a person and personally Ive been raised by four women in my life where two happen to be virgos and the other two pisces – it’s crazy. I messed up with the first virgo..second virgo (what goes around comes around) and after that for a year I felt numb, did not think I would find love or feel it again but this new virgo in my life changed it all..I feel at home and safe with my virgo, she understands the burning passion beneath me…it sucks as a scorpio we even have difficulties understanding ourselves and then I just feel bad for putting her through my complexities but she sticks around because she herself admits the way I treat and love her, it would be rare to find something like that again.
    To all the scorpio males, hang onto that virgo and DO NOT mess up!! Virgos make us much more grounded, they believe in us, and bring out the better us!! Be patient with them..they love hard but sometimes it’s hard for them to express it..but once theyre gone – no one will make you feel the way a virgo does.
    Male scorpio
    Female Virgo

  100. I am a virgo female who had n capricorn ex. All he wanted from me was sex and nothing. So i broke up with him and its been 11 months. But the pain he gave me,i can never forget,it was really painful relationship. However, after him i was not able to trust anyone and love someone. I never felt worthy of love since he left me. But then in november, scorpio entered my life and i must say that thing called connection is there and i have felt it. He is a really nice guy. But he sometimes talks like he wanna kiss me passionately. And just want to kiss me till i not get oxygen,lol. That turns me on. But i have decided to take it slow. Not that i dont trust men but this time i am cautious. I told him to be friends. But he says,that he will be my friend but he will not give up on me. Today, he told me to voice record my kiss and send it to him. At this point, i think i may have over reacted but i felt like he was using me for sex or something. As i fear that he will use me. Itold him i will not send him voice message. He told that i have to send him voice. I am very shy person. I told him no but he became upset. Sometimes he says me, that he will kiss me very hard. He also tells me some things about his family. I think he told many things lol. But is his intentions real?i feel he loves me very much. But will he just understand how i feel?because i am not person who us open about sexuality. I am very sexual and wanna do kinkiest and dirtiest stuff with my partner. I want to give them all my affections and love and my care and loyalty but only to the right partner. I know this person loves me and i too. But its just friendship and i wanna concentrate on my studies so i told him. Once i finish i will think about it. Because i dont want to assure him that he is in my list. I will say yes to his proposal. But for now i dont wanna let him know that i like him and rush things. He was really innocent but when i got to know him my god i met someone like me. Really sexual but shy. Lol. But still will he leave me? I fear.

  101. Used to be in a scorpio-virgo relationship and it was the most authentic, soulful relationship I have ever had. I didn’t know it then, but I see it now. We were great together. Conversations flowed so seemlessly, we could relate to each other so effortlessly. As corny as this may sound, we were what you would consider soul mates because we were so similar on so many levels, it was unbelievable. I dare say, we looked great together as well lol. We were something really special together, a force that people around you could tell was something that would make other couples look trash. It was something only dreams were made of. The universe was playing havoc at us and at some point in our lives, did a complete 180, turn and everything changed in an instant . The worst that I could imagine, had come. our separation. It was a really devastating moment in my life. I look back and think to myself, what a total waste of us, our relationship. I know I will never be able to find someone exactly like this person on this planet, in this lifetime but I guess it is what it is. I like to think of myself as an optimistic, sometimes even blindly so, but even then, the chances of finding someone who I could connect on that level of deep soul-ness would be very unlikely. It is a shame and I know.

  102. my bestfriend is a virgo. but isn’t my partner. sometimes when my partner and I gets into a heated and petty argument, I retrieve back to my virgo who understands me and calms me down. my partner and I have different energy so we approach life differently and get into arguments or I get annoyed with her childish ways. as I got to know my partner more, i realised my best friend and partner are actually two completely different people. on the surface they look similar but not really. Is it wrong to have a girl best friend by my side for life? my partner gets jealous and moody when she knows I invite my best friend to hang out and overly flirty and touchy with me. I love both. what should I do…

  103. my bestfriend is a virgo. but isn’t my partner. sometimes when my partner and I gets into a heated and petty argument, I retrieve back to my virgo who understands me and calms me down. my partner and I have different energy so we approach life differently and get into arguments or I get annoyed with her childish ways. as I got to know my partner more, i realised my best friend and partner are actually two completely different people. on the surface they look similar but not really. Is it wrong to have a girl best friend by my side for life? my partner gets jealous and moody when she knows I invite my best friend to hang out and overly flirty and touchy with me. I love both. what should I do…

    1. Are you a guy? And whats your partner’s zodiac? Who understands you the most?. Go distance for some time from your partner and best friend and feel who you miss the most. Ask your self if you love your best friend or partner. And please do reply.

  104. I am a Scorpio woman in love with a Virgo man. My guy generally needs a lot of space when we are in different cities (on weekdays coz he works in a different city) and prefers spending time with me only on weekends. I love him deeply but I feel me being emotional bothers him and he hates the fact that I am an emotional person. We fight over pity issues and he phases out whenever we have a fight. What should I do?

    1. Hey there, I’m a Scorpio girl in love with a Virgo guy. He’s 3 years younger than me and seems to be one of the most angelic and pure creatures I’ve ever met (at the same time he’s very masculine, muscular and just beautiful). We were looking at each other for a few years but we’ve never talked and this year it turned out that I became his supervisor. He started to try to get in contact with me immediately and I’m feeling as if we were destined to finally have a chance to talk. It turned out we have common passions and we can talk for long but somehow it doesn’t go further. I know that he stares at me, he starts conversations and doesn’t go further even though I’m really trying to be open and to show him that I treat him differently than others. I’m starting to be obsessed about him, especially because it was HIM who started all this and the funniest thing is for me how we seem to communicate without words. Also, he writes me emails in which he can be quite open about his interest in me but he doesn’t show it in real life. He seems a boy to me, a very divine one, I’m getting more and more fascinated about him but it is already 3 months of I-don’t-know-what. I’ve been in a long relationship with an Aries before who cheated on me and only a few months ago I started to let it all go. I would really love to be with an Earth sign, without this drama I had with my previous boyfriend. Am I doing something wrong or do men-Virgos really need so much time?

  105. Hello, I’m a Scorpio girl in love with a Virgo guy. And I really don’t get what’s going on. We were looking at each other for 3 years now and this year I became his supervisor and we got to know each other. He was very excited when he finally got to talk to me and our talks are always deep, funny, charming and just perfect. As if I knew him forever even though we still don’t know each other well. He always seeks contact with me but only if we can talk alone and nobody sees us. But, well, nothing more is happening and I am really trying to be open and to show him I like him and that I treat him differently than everyone else but he is able to show me something more only in emails (that he writes to me a lot since October). Later, in real life, he seems scared/anxious/shy/ or maybe he’s just not really interested? He’s three years younger than me and he’s the most beautiful man I’ve ever met, he seems divine. We share the same interests and I feel the growing pressure between us two (he always stands very nearby me and he has this amazing blue-eyed sight that just goes through me like knives) but I just really don’t know if maybe I’m missing something. It’s been 3 months now of this I-don’t-know-what and it starts to drive me crazy. I know that men are sometimes afraid of me but really, I’m trying hard not to be this impulsive crazy bitch around him. I was hoping my feelings will go away but the longer I know him the more I want him. I was hurt by an Aries with whom I’ve been together for 4 years, he was older than me, and just this year I finally started feeling that I can let go the past and then… I met this Virgo who seems so down to earth, a bit cold but at the same time a bit mysterious, very beautiful and masculine and just so different than everyone I know. And maybe I’m really naive but he just seems like a MAN, someone I could trust and rely on.

  106. I am a 45 yr old woman that started seeing a 37 year old Scorpio, we met at work. He has a EXTREMELY high sex drive, which I love, but WOW! lol Anyhow, he has been mysterious and a little distant up until he saw me interacting with other men from work and he became extremely jealous. He was not having it. But at the same time I never thought he felt that serious about us. Trying to get a Scorpio to open up is like cracking nuts (no pun intended and mind you-we are both forklift drivers in a warehouse-so I work around men all day everyday) He has let little things about himself trickle in. But I just had to go about my business and let him come to me, I know he was driving by, watching and observing, borderline obsessive! LOL But frankly, as a Virgo, I am NOT having any of that Jealousy! We are both grown and if you want to keep a Scorpio in check, make sure you express your boundaries from the beginning – both sexually, physically, and mentally! Be open and honest! Then let it sit with them. Dont forget to buckle your seatbelt! Your in for a ride!

  107. Hi 🙂 I’m a Virgo female sun with a Scorpio moon and my boyfriend is a Scorpio sun with a Libra moon….Where do I begin? lol. We’ve been together for 7 months and it’s been really great 😌 In the beginning we both felt and admitted that we were moving fast but, it seems like that almost didn’t phase us. I love our connection. When we’re out, it’s like we’re in our own little world and we’re only paying attention to each other.. smh it’s crazy and I’ve honestly never felt that before. I moved out of my apartment to live with him maybe 4 or 5 months into the relationship and, it’s really not bad. I’m still there now and we really enjoy each other’s company but I do feel we need to give each other space at times otherwise, we’re pretty functional. …I do feel my intense Scorpio moon emotions from time to time and I really hate it. Its almost uncontrollable at times but for whatever reason he deals with it. Maybe it’s bc he can understand it sometimes idk or it’s his cool Libra side that comes out . Scorpio men are a little hard to read at times too bc sometimes ik he’s thinking more than what he tells me and idk why he won’t share it with me.Not that he needs to say every single thing on his mind every time but, when his body language is different, that concerns me and makes me curious. We have to work at expressing our feelings more, I usually initiate it but it would be nice to see him do that once in a while. In regards to the article it’s pretty acurate for the most part, I really would like to see where things go and pray that he’s the one that’ll be with in the long run 🙂 *any feedback from Scorpio male would be appreciated!

  108. I lost my virgo woman 🙁

    Even that I am a 30 year old Scorpio I was/are immature but also a very very dark lost soul.
    Since I was nine a hade issues with myself so I thought a lot about death.

    My Virgo woman came from nowhere when I was 27. She saw me, felt in love, I felt in love and love it was.

    But I fucked it all up being jealous, scary, dramatic and evil. Why?
    Well none of us where ever unfaithful or did crazy shit. No no. I was so hooked up that my Virgo had Instagram and “maybe” looked at other guys… Not a big deal right? But for me it was, not only that but also that I was sneaky and took her phone once and saw that there was other guys she had been looking for. Not commenting or something else. Just following and liking pictures.
    I know we live in a “social media” world but I´m not into that so I don’t have any of these things. My Virgo woman was the only woman I wanted to look at. I had my phone and computer with pictures of here. I even tattooed here nickname that I made up on my chest. I really really love my Virgo but as Im telling you folks. I fucked it all up of my extreme jealousy and evilness 🙁

    I repent so so so so much everyday because only now that I have been crying me to death I realise that my Virgo woman always loved me and that this shit “Instagram” does not mean nothing. Its just social media, but hey, for me, back then it was awful. I could not handle it. I just wanted my Virgo woman to look at me and make me feel like here only man. I was here man, I know that.

    Anyway, I love Virgos and I have some of them still in my life.
    My lovely mother is Virgo. My grandmother is Virgo and my sister is Leo/Virgo.

    But I still miss my one and only Virgo and I don’t know if she’s ever coming back.

    Ive been asking the Universe about here. I have been searching in the tarot.
    But there is something that keeps me a little whit hope but I don’t know what to say.

    I keep seeing 11:11 and I keep seeing here name “Lisa”.
    Every movie, documentary, Tv even the first pages of the book “The Secret”……. All is Lisa 🙁

    What does that mean?
    Is there still hope maybe in the future or is this the end?

    Me as a Scorpio have been both this very warm and kind person but I have also been with the dark 🙁
    So a little hint. I was in jail in 2014 for violence for a year… I meet my Virgo in 2017. And she accepted my and loved my no matter what. But I scared here with my demons 🙁
    And she also took some of my demons with here 🙁

    I don’t know nothing from here. I know she’s heartbreaking form me 🙁
    But only know that she left me I realise who I was and what have happened.

    Im a Scorpio born 1989.10,30 (Scorpio Serpent) and my number is “4”

    My Virgo is born 1991.14.11 and has the numer of “7”

    I did my math both astrology and numerology, and I have been trough the mythology “Hades & Persephone” “Isis & Osiris” and this esoteric study about Virgo and Scorpio being a ONE sign in ancient times.

    So what do you people think?
    Is she coming back in the future when Im a more enlighten, stronger, better, mature Scorpio?

    I really love here whit all my heart.

    Im glad you other Scorpios and Virgos are in love.
    Its the most romantic, sexiest and most Powerful couple ever. So I wish you all the best and much love

  109. Me and my scorpio know each other for 5 months. And we both love each other very much. But our destiny is different, we both have our separate ways in future. He told me that he will never get married and never let any girl enter in his life. He will never move on from me and will always love me. But i care about him verry much and worry about him being single. I dont want him ti be alone and dont want him to suffer from any pain. He promised me that he will never get married. And will always be like he is. Is he serious about this? Will he really do this? Any scorpio-virgo couples with the same situation? Like they are separated for years but still love each other? I already know one more couple with same situation. Do any of you have this situation. I heard these signs are soulmates. And they love each other forever.

  110. I lost my virgo 🙁

    I met this virgo guy online (I am a scorpio woman). He chased and chased for so long but I never gave him the time of day, until I finally get my guard down and let him in. Things were great, we would text everyday and flirt all the time, but he lives 4 hours away. We finally wanted to meet up, so I drove to him and met him. We had a fantastic time, he took me to romantic spots around his town, but never made a move, I ended up leaving that night and we said goodbye with an awkward side hug. The next day we discussed it and agreed we were both just nervous and we wanted to see eachother again. We then started to plan a trip for me to go back for the weekend. For a second I got cold feet and asked if he thought it was a bad idea and my VIRGO GUY flipped!!!! He basically ended things with me over it. He said he just wanted to be friends and he couldn’t do distance and didn’t want to hurt me. I said fine and left him alone. I woke up the next day to texts from him saying he dreamt of me and he wishes it were real and that he could see me. I responded and asked him for the address of a place I wanted him to take me to when I went to his town. He was surprised I still wanted to go even though I was going alone. He basically then asked to go with me and proceeded to tell me let’s just keep things going because were in eachothers lives for a reason. I told him fine, but if he decided to be just friends again, I was going to be done. I am no ones yo-yo. He told me okay and we kept it going. I went to see him and we spent time together and it was amazing!!!! He was so sweet and I felt like he really cared about me. I could see it in his eyes when he looked at me. The way he told me things made me feel like the most beautiful and special thing on earth. When I went home after the trip, things were great (we textes everyday, all day, and send selfies everyday). We even started planning another trip and i was so excited. One morning I woke up to beautiful, sweet texts from him so I decided to send some back and thank him for making the effort to meet me for a trip. He responded with “that’s the way it should work in friendships and relationships. It goes two ways”. I freaked out because I thought he was friend zoning me by saying that so I responded with “well, I’m glad to have a friendship like yours” he said you’re welcome and I finally just had the guts to ask what he thought we were and he replied with “friends living in the moment”. I told him I got a different idea because of the vibes he was giving off, but good to know. He then said “a relationship between us wouldn’t work. I dont do long distance”. I told him I wish he would’ve told me sooner, (I should add that I was being sort of petty because I was hurt so I was using lol and smiley emojis). He told me he did and I called him out on the fact that he came back and told me to keep it going and friends dont flirt the way we do or sleep together (forgot to mention we had sex on our weekend together). He said I was right, then text again saying “guess i shouldn’t have came back”, when he sent that, i was devastated so i didn’t respond. Hours later i get a text from him saying “we should cut it off though, before it gets too serious” so I just said “yeah if you want then”, because I refuse to put myself somewhere I’m not wanted. He never responded, so today I text him and told him I was sorry for being petty and I was sorry for getting the wrong idea and thinking he wanted something with me. I told him I was falling for him, but I understand that he cant do long distance. He responded with “its cool, it was my fault too. Thanks for telling him that and have a good day too”. This of course crushed my heart, making me feel like I just poured myself out to him and he never cared about me to begin with. I miss my virgo man :/ were his feelings all lies?? Dod he really just see me as a friend? Friends dont say the things he would tell me nor do I think a “friend” would book a flight to meet me somewhere, right?? What do I do????

  111. Virgo 23 yr old girl, I met this fine Scorpio last winter when I was 22..
    I’m petite with an athletic body and long black hair and he’s taller and sooo adorably handsome.
    He’s so cautious around his environment and you can see that there is so much going on inside it’s so beautiful I wish I could pry his head open and not just stare at him from far away:(
    I started feeling his stares, and glances on me from far, and I feel like I mentally just floated towards him but still keeping my ground, acting cool and calm on the outside.
    And at first we were both sooooo shy to talk to each other lord, I sound like an idiot having to make the first conversation but when he talks it’s so sweet and like a waterboy.
    I can six sense a lot of hot energy when where at a safe distance from each other talking, but we’re always around a crazy environment to actually talk 🙁 I would slide into the bar where he worked at and I worked for the same company just at another location, and when he talked to me his eyes were mine and my body was his. My friend next to me was like “idk if you guys know each other but I could totally feel that, he didnt even look at me only you”
    I did sometimes to his favorite pool bar (again acting awkward)
    Moving fwd, one night we actually got to talk and enjoy our company thanks to one of our mutual friends who helped and I just wanted to be so close to him and next to his side all night🥺 afterwards we talked for a couple hours and I was hesitant to do anything physically and teased a kiss, and lord when he asked for one, I MELTED.
    After that I’ve been so shy and tried to shoot my shot but it might of been too much bc of them he said he only likes me as a friend…
    I saw him kissing another girl at a pool bar that same night and my heart y’all. 💔 *sigh*
    Honestly when he said that, my intuition told me it’s bc there’s someone else
    what’s new, i still can’t make sense of it
    I see him from now and then and can feel a little his anxiety but I have anxiety too, don’t think he’s in a relationship but who knows… and now I just do not know what to do, or if I should wait or If I blew it.
    It kind of hurts me a little because I just do not know what to do around him and I feel misunderstood, and I know he kind of comes off cautious and cold in protection of his own energy and it only went from hanging out one night and one kiss to being liked as a friend 😔

  112. All this is true except when the virgo is used to being a lying and cheating man. When his ex who stalks him and won’t let him go no matter how many times he tells her he is with someone else and his weak ass falls for it. Yet, he begs for forgiveness and continues to lie and say he has nothing to do with her, just for you to find out they are together 2 days later, going on a birthday vacation that she paid for, while he lies to me (scorpio, supposedly the woman he loves) and says he is going out of town with family (the whole time he is calling me and saying how he wish I was the one there with him etc.) Fucked up. We were on a trial at that time, initiated by me because of previous lies he told about this girl. I loved him so much but I am done for good, didn’t block him (because that would mean I care and he got to me) just ignore his calls and texts. I did nothing but love him and ask for honesty and got shitted on so my heart is cold and I am done. It’s true there is a thin line between love and hate (or being completely done). I’m done but can’t believe or understand why he would do this to me?

  113. I think about a specific Scorpio female frequently , I am aware that she endured a lot of pain and heartache, and I know this will make her stronger. I felt a strong connection with her. I know one day she will scroll across this website, and she will see this and know that it’s me. Know that I Hope she’s okay, she’s well and she’s living her life..

    ( something told me to write this today, I don’t know why but it’ll soon reveal)

  114. Just recently met a virgo. Just a small background on myself I have 4 planets in scorpio all in 4th house. I am super emotional no doubt. We’ve been together now just a couple weeks and it’s been super passionate he already gave me a promise ring. But I was scared half to death and told him I couldn’t accept it. Even though everything in me wanted to grab that ring put it on my finger and laugh all the way to the alter. I couldn’t just take it out of fear we dont know each other well enough. Anyways we ended up getting into a fight and I cried (it was my birthday) ugh I almost feel I’m doomed forever in relationships. We are still seekng eachother. I’m just worried it might not work out. I really really want it to. I want to be loved and to love him. I want to be happy. 😭 I’ve been heart broken so many times. I dont know why it says scorpios very forgive. I always forgive I will absolutely never forget and will remind you forever but it kills me everyday that I dont have someone. I hope it works out with him. He has 3 planets in virgo and in 9/10 house. Hes a chef and I am a makeup artist. I’m praying 😥

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