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Scorpio & Virgo

Scorpio and Virgo are likely to be on the same page for most aspects of their lives. They will feel eerily connected, as though they were meant to be find each other. Some of their favorite activities will take place in nature, and they will both have a practical touch which can enable them to create meaningful, long-lasting work. Scorpio and Virgo feel most at peace when it is simply them both, isolated from the outside world, on their own intellectual getaway.

Both Virgo and Scorpio are extremely guarded and reserved in love. Scorpio demonstrates more depth of emotion, but for this same reason they will test Virgo before opening up to them. Because Scorpio has been deeply hurt in the past, they will do anything possible to avoid further pain. Virgo can relate to Scorpio’s cautious behavior. They too are naturally suspicious, and they can also be insecure in love. Virgo may undervalue their own qualities and believe that Scorpio may find someone better. Virgo benefits from reassurance that Scorpio is as invested as they are.

Scorpio and Virgo are likely to have a solid friendship before all else. Because it takes much time for them both to feel each other out and admit their feelings, they may first enjoy a platonic relationship before delving into a more serious one. This actually benefits them greatly in the long-run, because it deepens the bond they both share. When they two are together, and as time goes on, the trust between them is impenetrable. There are few people in the world that they feel this degree of openness with.

The potential downfall of a Scorpio-Virgo placement is that these two can be overly dependent on each other. They may bond so closely that they do not feel complete when they are apart. They may also not feel the need to make new friends or invite new people into their lives because they are so comfortable with each other, and even possessive of one another. This can be an unhealthy attachment, but for the most part it is a sign of their true devotion to one another.

Nevertheless, Scorpio and Virgo should both should make a conscious effort to have some space in the relationship and to spend some time apart in order to add stimulation to their bond. Virgo and Scorpio are very deep, pensive, introverted, and spiritual beings. They learn a lot from being in each other’s presence, and often they communicate with each other without the need for words. Their intuitive understanding of one another and loyal support is their strongest link.

95 responses to “Scorpio & Virgo

  1. I (scorpio) am currently dating a virgo and this can’t be more true. I love how deeply detailed you are in explaining each signs deeper meanings.

    1. I havebeen married to a Virgo for 26 years. The unhealthy attachment mentioned in the fourth paragraph is too true. This assessment is spot on.

    2. I recently just ended with a Scorpio, me being a Virgo she was the love of my life and all this is true we lasted a year and 2 months. But I miss my scorpio and it seems like she’s doing mighty fine. It sucks I want her back but she ignores me, any options on what to do???? Or do I just leave it until she comes back???

      1. Depending on the reason why she left, unlikely she will come back, especially if she was hurt. She won’t come back no matter how much the Virgo may still love you. However, if you come back, she may give you a chance, but she will probably need answers first before forgiving, and it better be a good 1.

      2. You have to give her all of you in exchange for her heart. It doesn’t matter that she ignores you because your efforts to get her back are not going unseen. Us scorpios just like to act like we don’t care for fear of being humiliated.

  2. This is freaky accurate… I truly believe the only sign that can handle a scorpio while keeping the flame lit is a Virgo. I love my Virgo!

  3. I’m in the beginning stages of this Scorpio Virgo love. She (Virgo) loves me and I her. I’ve noticed we need space because as a Scorpio i can become deeply attached. She is a tad shy and I do get nervous that my deep feelings will scare her. She has been hurt so have i. This is too accurate but helpful

  4. Well….it is quite true but my virgo love has proved to be unfaithful and i think that a scorpio-virgo relationship is certainly not that perfect pair…

  5. That damn 4th paragraph!!!! So spot on. My being the Scorpio I am impressed that finally someone gets it! It seems as if we always had to explain our ‘relationship’ with others who didn’t. More often than not, their jealousy would try to tear it apart. Always to utter failure. Enough for us to laugh about later. Then, there are times when years go by without speaking to one another, when that one out of the blue moment happens of running into each other, we usually pick up the conversation right where we left off as if no time has passed. I am still trying to decide if that’s a good thing or not.

  6. This is bang on! I have a virgo best friend from past 3 years and lately we have started feeling for each other but quite skeptical as to take it forward or not because we don’t want to ruin the friendship.This horoscope helped a lot to get some clarity but we are still indecisive.
    Anyway Love this website.Please keep posting.

    1. As you’ve been enjoying his/her company, I know exactly how much you value the unique connection. Take a deep breath and go for it. You both know how to fix the connection even after breakup. Your pride doesn’t matter for this connection. I’m Scorpio.

  7. I, a Virgo woman, prefer women so you can imagine my surprise when I found myself falling for a Scorpio man. It’s like we communicate without words, we agree almost on everything, and when we disagree on something we argument so passionately that we enjoy ourselves. And sexual attraction at least for me is unlike anything I have ever experienced. He’s married, I’m in a relationship with a woman and I have no idea what to do with strong emotions that are boiling up inside of me.

    1. I’m not in a relationship with a woman anymore, he is still married, I still want him, I now know that he wants me, too, yet, nothing’s happening… We are both too shy to make a first move!!!

      1. I am curious how do you know you both want each other? Curious because I want a virgo woman who shows all the signs of attraction but I refuse to make the first move. I am attracted to her fully to the point she is the first and last person on my mind. I will never make the first move. If she doesn’t this one gets filed away into “what if”. Relationships are just better when the women are too overcome with passion that they need to make a move. I hate the technique because she is driving me crazy.

        I am curious how you know he wants you. What if it is all in your head? What if your just another woman and those flirty signals you interpret are just platonic interactions? I have to control myself when I talk to this woman because my body wants her and will gravitate toward her. Just a question. I don’t mean to belittle your inappropriate crush.

        1. Eye contact and body language, a few things said to someone within ear shot of your virgo may help. Don’t start too close to her. Virgos are very cautious when it comes to being rejected. Little things will capture her attention we notice everything. Remember, we analize everything to pieces so she is probably going crazy herself. Speaking for myself, I prefer to be dominated. I have never been the one to make the first move. Not that there wouldn’t be exceptions for other virgos. I have always had a very eerie telepathic connection with even my scorpio friends. The deepest and sexiest relationships I have ever had have been with scorpio. Sure doesn’t hurt that its my venus sign as well. Good luck to you. I am dealing with a secret crush myself. shhhh……….

          1. I’m completely smitten with a Virgo woman. Is there likely to be some truth in a Virgo jokingly telling you they would date you? Is this a sign I should make a move? Or just a simple remark without meaning? How do you flirt? Do you give subtle hints or simply tell someone you like them? Some context: Virgo woman made a point of telling out of the blue that there were some in our friendship group that thought she flirted with me. An hour or so later she joked that she would totally date me. We get on really well and she’s tactile with me. This is unusual for Virgo’s, right? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

  8. This is so true. I am a lesbian and my ex gf is a virgo, she helped me come out and taught me to b open about my sexuality. Even tho we’re not together anymore we are still good friends. But its kinda hard for me to get into relationships with other women because of our friendship. My ex doesn’t like seeing me with new girls. And the new girls talk shit about my ex when they don’t even know her. The new girls end up leaving and never talk to me again Cuz Im still good friends with my ex.

  9. I am in love with a virgo. But I have no idea how he feels. It’s so weird I’m sad when he’s not around. I told him how I feel about him. But he has yet to let me know what he’s feeling. But its something in his,eyes that makes me feel like he does have feelings for me but can’t say it. Idk. I just feel like he’s suppose to be in my life. I hope its forever

  10. I love my Scorpio soooooo much!!!!! I have never felt such a strong connection to anyone else. I(virgo woman) hate that fact that he can just detach himself and not speak to me for a long time. I’m assuming its the stuff mentioned above. I know he loves me too.

  11. While my best friend and I are not in a relationship, this post is scarily accurate in regards to our friendship. If you didn’t know one of us were straight, you’d mistake is for a married couple. We know when somethings wrong without even speaking to each other. Almost like a soul connection. The downfall paragraph is true as well, but honestly I wouldn’t have it any other way; it’s hard to find real people in this world.. Even harder to find ones you connect with. Love you Phooker! :3

  12. My love is a Virgo we got back together after 2.5 years.. He cheated on me in the worst way possible but ever since a 1.5 years ago when he seen me happy and in love with my new man he tried to get back with me ever since. Me being aScorpio woman if you mess up there is no return. But I gave him another chance after some years and I’m genuinely happy he’s like my best friend and lover and his intelligence turns me on. He’s like a walking encyclopedia lol. Knowing everything and having such a great drive. This is the love of my life and I’m glad I forgave him and I’m glad he never stopped trying to be back in my life. He reassures me everyday how much he cares. I can live without the emotional part because I know we live differently and we appreciate each other. Also the first month we got back together he asked me to marry him. I said yes BC this is my soul mate

    1. Awww that’she beautiful I’m a virgo women myself and u i feel the same way about my Scorpio man .. congrats

  13. This article is so true…. My best friend is a Scorpio and I am a Virgo. When we both are together we are inseparable. Everything mentioned in this article about friendship is ALL true. We are very possessive of each other and my Scorpio does not express herself through words but she definitely shows it with her body language. My BFF and I have known each other for more than 10 years and it took her about 5 years to be completely open with me now. She can still be mysterious at times but I love her just the same. She always lets me know that she loves her Virgo =) Also, do give your Scorpio some alone time, I do. We see each other every 6 mos and when we do, we always gain stronger feelings for each other and we become more inseparable.

  14. I was in a 7yr same sex relationship with a scorpio girl whom I cared so much for that I put my own needs aside just so I can make her happy (i now realize the unhealthy nature of this). Although the beginning of our relationship felt very distant and cold since we had yet to build a bond between one another, over time, we became this amazing duo that nothing and no one could break. She was everything my eyes could see and I could picture my entire life and future in her eyes. I really thought we wanted the same things but its been about 3 months since out break up and its tough. It was her voice and text msgs I woke up to every single day, it was her face that I stared at next to me while I was driving us and it was her laughter that brought out the funny and humorous side of me that has calmed down ever since the break up. Of course we had fights but I think we spent so much time together and closing ourselves off from friends and outsiders really affected everything at the end. She wanted to be single and felt that she needs to free herself from us in order to pursue an independent life where nothing and no one close to her mattered and should could do anything without feeling guilty. Well, I of course didn’t argue and accepted her wishes and haven’t spoken to her since that day nor seen her. I am trying to move on with my life and by this I mean trying not to dwell on what use to be and what we use to share. Nevertheless, I struggle every single day with thoughts of her in my head and it continues into my dreams every single night.

    Anyways, I’m ranting here but it helps to get my feelings out. Although I hold no hope for the future just so I can move on in a healthy way, I do hope that one day her and I can meet again and perhaps build a new relationship with the past behind and the future ahead.

  15. Mine was not as long as yours but I do understand what you are going through. It has been over a month since and it is not easy. Being a Virgo your constantly going over what happened and replaying events over and over in your head. Sometimes we have to just understand that in life things happen for no reason. The connection was intense and like nothing I ever had but the lesson from this is that a Virgo was able to feel emotions…

  16. This is so spot on! I love my Scorpio. What we have is beautiful. She’s the best thing to ever happen to me. Someone told me Virgo and Scorpio were not compatible. I beg to differ. Glad I found this post. Even gladder we found each other.

  17. This is all very true. I’m a young scorpio woman and I have been dating a Virgo man. We met a year ago and hung out a few times and I cut it off because I felt he was moving too fast and wasn’t close to ready for what he wanted from me. A year later I contacted him and we’ve been together almost two months now. He’s still wanting to move fast in his actions but he has yet to really open up to me. It hasn’t been long but I feel myself becoming attached to him and falling deeply in love with him and that is a scary realization for me due to the fact that I’ve been hurt badly. I’ve made a conscious decision to be with him whole heartedly and I’m just hoping for the best.

  18. This is all very true. I’m a young scorpio woman and I have been dating a Virgo man. We met a year ago and hung out a few times and I cut it off because I felt he was moving too fast and wasn’t close to ready for what he wanted from me. A year later I contacted him and we’ve been together almost two months now. He’s still wanting to move fast in his actions but he has yet to really open up to me. It hasn’t been long but I feel myself becoming attached to him and falling deeply in love with him and that is a scary realization for me due to the fact that I’ve been hurt badly. I’ve made a conscious decision to be with him whole heartedly and I’m just hoping for the best.

  19. OMG!!!!! THIS CAN’T BE MORE TRUE MY BOYFRIEND IS VIRGO AND I AM EXTREMELY GOING THROUGH ALL THAT O HAVE READ I

  20. I am virgo an my lover is scorpio. Its the most intense relationship i have ever encountered. I have no idea where this will go as i have fallen for him BIG time an well he just goes quiet on me all the time. He says i mean alot to him but for 4 days there he went away an never contacted me or even told me he had gone. Says it all really.
    When we r together its explosive in the best way.

  21. i miss my virgo man so much. but he wasnt true to me, betrayed my love for him and went with someone else. it hurts but im glad its all over. i just miss the connection though. ive never felt such a strong bond with someone before and i discovered so much about myself in our time together. i just wish things had worked out and he had been the man he had promised he would be for me.. but its ok. things happen and im happier now that the truth is out and i couldnt feel any better.

    -scorpio whose heart was broken by a virgo

  22. Hey im in a friends with beneffits with a virgo girl .. im scorpio be have all those things that the article said ,,, the thing is im deeply in love with her and she does not feel the same thing as me, we are seeing eachother for over 5 months and im still w8-ing for her to feel the same and commite to a relationsheep … What can it be that she does not want this to hapen, why cant she make this decision now because i am fully loyal and i tell her everything that i fell for her and she knows all of this things she obviously likes me if we are having a FWB relationsheep and she is quite ok with me she likes me but cant get pass this …. Any virgo woman out there that can give me an advice pls im starting to be desperate.. 🙁

    1. be a little aloof , that’s what my Scorpio did to have me .. Try to have best friends with someone else .. Don’t date them but just that they are friends (girls only 😉 be hot and cold! Just have something else to do from time to time

  23. im a scorpio and wanna date this girl she is a virgo. im tryin hard to play my cards well. praying what i have read here helps. thanks.

  24. Virgo woman, scorpio man. He’s my best friend and just professed his deep love for me. I told him not to entertain the idea. We are both in our 30’s, divorced, with one teenager each. Mine is coming to live with me. And so is my scorpio best friend who is in love with me. Deeply, the love letters could be sold they are so beautiful. I just can’t except it. Ive been in one bad relationship after another. Will my scorpio give me time. I mean years. I want to be his friend forever. I promised him I would. I said we could never cross that line or we could destroy our friendship. Will he be able to go slow, or will he dip out. He’s so very precious to me. But kinda addicted to relationships. I guess I have been too. I’m so sick of it all, but I won’t turn my back on my friend. I know that is most important. Reading this is scary accurate, and has helped Thank you for letting me vent!!!

  25. Thank you so much for the article I’m s virgo in a relationship with a scorpion woman.we have been datein for 6 years now.now he/she need sometimes apart.but reading some of the stuff on here I hope everything go good n better for us I love her I want to married her grow n still we get old together forever. Thank you so real

  26. Where can I start… I love my Scorpio man to death. He’s so passionate, creative, charming but selfish.. Very spiritual.. I’m caring, sensitive, affectionate and critical. Only because I see the potential in him and want him to do better. I support him in whatevrer he likes and what’s is mine is his.. He’s makes me feel safe and loved. Very reassuring.. But I know I can’t fulfill his emotional needs and its killing me.. It makes me insecure. I know I can’t.. Idk what that means.. Idk what it feels like to make desicions off of emotions. I try to feel and understand but I can’t.. He told me this before but he try to act like he didn’t say it but I heard him and will never forget it.. He know I have emotions where he can feel them, I’m not a cold person. I’m just very logical and I deal with emotions last.. He have Pisces and cancer female friends.. He use them for emotional excitement.. I know they’re friends, nothing sexual.. But I’m still jealous. I sometimes wish he wasn’t so emotional but I love it too because he make me feel emotions I never felt before.. Now our sex life is something else.. Like on some spiritual soul touching.. Lost for words.. I think it made us really possessive and jealous. He’s becoming abusive and I’m fueling the fire.. We won’t break up. Try but always come back together. All I know my heart is saying yes and I have to follow that.

  27. I have a friendship with a Scorpio man and as a Virgo woman agree with this article. It is accurate to the T. However our relationship started as lovers and well ended as friends. Seemingly the friendship has blossomed and for the life of me I couldn’t ask for anything more! We’ve been friends for almost 7 years now and never touched each other romantically again. It is to say that I still love him deeply but he did hurt me and I him. Granted this was long ago and we’ve healed together, sometimes I wonder how it would be to try it again. I don’t want to ruin what we have now but I’m so attracted to his person and just want so much more , it’s almost compelling!! Anyway just thought I’d share that since you all seem to agree to the same degree of passion and devotion as I have experienced with this wonderful man Scorpio. ❤️

  28. I am a Virgo man who has a female Scorpio best friend. When we first met in high school I was drawn to her…her energy was something else…it was alluring. I also had a deep crush for her, but I was way too shy to let her know back then. We had a brief moment in time where we lost contact for a few years, but I missed her terribly. It hurt, even.

    When we reconnected it felt like no time passed. I then confessed my feelings for her, and I understood that she was in a relationship and I had zero intention of interfering. It did feel cathartic letting her know how I felt about her. Thankfully she appreciated what I had to say. Fast-forward to now and she’s in another relationship, and I feel like I’m closer with her than ever. To the point of even calling it love. We’ve been through hell and back together. We enjoy silence together. We enjoy doing things together. When it’s just me and her I feel like I’m home, with my intellectual and spiritual equal. We are both so similar in terms of our worldviews it’s mind-boggling. I honestly mean this from the bottom of my heart: I love that quiet, snarky, intelligent, conscientious girl. My Scorpio muse.

  29. Very true. I am a Virgo woman who has fallen deeply in love with a Scorpio man and it has been going on for a very long time. What scares me is that I don’t think I’ll ever truly get over him.. I miss him so much it tears me apart.

    1. I Virgo woman an my spouse Scorpio man have been together for 14 years.Theres lots of strong feelings between us.At the same time I feel that he can manipulate my decisions and he hides things from me an me being a know it all must know every thing and that can be quit difficult for me and he says I don’t listen with I remember every single thing like an elephant so I find I’m confused lots of times an when I’m giving him advice he gets to find me in wrong of doing so continues!

  30. This… >>> “Both Virgo and Scorpio are extremely guarded and reserved in love. Scorpio demonstrates more depth of emotion, but for this same reason they will test Virgo before opening up to them. Because Scorpio has been deeply hurt in the past, they will do anything possible to avoid further pain. Virgo can relate to Scorpio’s cautious behavior. They too are naturally suspicious, and they can also be insecure in love. Virgo may undervalue their own qualities and believe that Scorpio may find someone better. Virgo benefits from reassurance that Scorpio is as invested as they are.”

    Should not make it ok for him to be out on a date tonight while professing to me just hours ago that he has feelings for me. Literally his words, “It’s a date. I’m not sleeping with anyone.”

    What the……

    I’m hurt Scorp… Your feelings for me are as transparent as the morning mist.

  31. I’m completely smitten with a Virgo woman. For the Virgo’s: Can the Virgo women (or men) of this group tell me if you’re ever shy and hesitant to make a move? Also, if you play hard to get sometimes? Or games to test how someone feels about you? Also, what are some of the things you do to flirt or show interest in someone? What signs should I be looking for? And whats with the push/pull thing? Sometimes I feel like I’m getting signals, then other times no signals. I’m terribly shy and tend to give mixed signals as I don’t like to be too vulnerable. She definitely laughs and jokes around and I do often find our eyes meeting across the room… When I do catch her looking at me she immediately looks away. Very early on she asked me about my preferences (type) for women but she reveals so little. She does compliment me but mainly relating to my intelligence and humor. She also seeks my advice and opinion on many things. But then she’s strange with the communication. Sometimes responds and then nothing for days, even ignoring a simple question. Then if I don’t text she will initiate. Also, we might chat on social media throughout the day then she seems really shy when I see her that evening. Even cold and detached. One weird thing: Following a match, we had a group conversation and were discussing how some women wear really short shorts when playing soccer. Like the REALLY short shorts – like underwear! I joked that “maybe some prefer air-conditioned comfort”. The Virgo does wear short shorts but not the REALLY short shorts. The Virgo must have overheard because she sent me a message saying she had a surprise for me and then arrived to play soccer in longer shorts. Is this a sign she is keen on me? Confused Scorpio here!

    1. I know for me (Virgo) the push pull thing you mentioned in rooted in fear. I’m so afraid of the intensity of my own feelings sometimes that it freaks me out so I’ll pull away from the person causing them so I can feel safe using the logical side of my brain.

    2. As a Virgo, this definitely sounds like a Virgo with a crush. I am terribly nervous to make a first move and always hope that the other person will do it. There’s a dominance to a Scorpio personality that is really attractive and I’m always hoping that my Scorpio crush will do something first because it seems like that’s a Scorp thing to do.

      The push and pull that you’re describing is something that I go through as well because sometimes I’ll feel brave and flirt a little bit and other times I am scared of showing my true feelings so I’ll pull back because it’s safer.

      I can give compliments like saying I’m proud of them but saying they look beautiful/handsome is incredibly hard because it feels like I’m going to reveal all of my feelings. So it comes across as a friendship compliment instead of flirting.

      I can’t speak for other Virgos but I’m not a touchy-feely person unless it’s with someone who I have romantic feelings for. So if she’s touching your arm when you’re talking or laughing that’s probably a really good sign.

      Good luck!

    3. As a virgo woman, I’m afraid to make the first move when I don’t see if the feelings between me and my scorpio crush are mutual. It’s because scorpios often give me extremely intense feelings that I don’t have the confidence in handling on my own. If I like someone, I wouldn’t dare to make the first move but if I do, it’s usually due to impulsiveness and after that I’ll feel super embarrassed about it and I’ll hide in my shell again. If she’s looking at you across the room, she might be thinking of you and she might be missing you. I do that too and if sometimes the scorpio guy I like stares bacl, I’ll quickly look elsewhere as my heart skipped so many beats it scares me. Scorpio’s stares are so intense, I don’t have the courage to handle it alone.

  32. I am a bisexual Scorpio man interested in my Virgo male best friend. He’s intelligent, funny as hell, almost frustratingly mysterious at times and then warm and vulnerable at times. I know that he’s an adult and that he’s not innocent but there’s this strange almost…pure aura that he gives off that makes me want to protect him. I’ve grown very possessive over him over the years and although I usually display that protectiveness in a brotherly way, I’ve grown to want more. He recently came out as gay which was a relief because for the past 2 years, I’ve been growing more interested in taking our friendship to the next level- and now he’s open about his sexuality (which I knew about all along) and I can make a move, but it’s hard to tell if he’s interested in me. Yet I feel like he knows – he usually can read me like a book, unlike other people who don’t know me well. But he hasn’t said anything, but there’s something in his eyes that makes me think he’s shy and doesn’t want to make the first move because he’s afraid I might not feel the same way…

  33. I just recently got out of a 8 month relationship with a Virgo man. Your article is dead on and sadly his over attachment and need for my attention was what caused our doom. I hope the rest of you Virgo/Scorps work out well better then we did.

  34. Virgo woman just left. She told me that she doesn’t trust me any more. I told her that I will try to change and she said “I gave you many oppurtunities, you didn’t change and then you won’t do it now”.
    I tried to push her and she told me to not stop contacting her.
    If I let some time and space, will she let her guard down? Does time help for them? She’s stubborn…

    1. It might take a long time. If this is about your behavior and if some trust was broken, you’ll need to show through your actions that you’ve changed. But do it from a distance. Do it slowly over time. She’s protective of her heart and won’t let her guard down easily.

  35. Virgo woman who’s fallen for a Scorpio man. We have a friend with benefits thing going on, but I want more. He knows I like him, but says we’re just close friends at the moment. I would do anything for him. I wish he would give me the chance to show him the inner me, but I think he’s already assumed who I am. We are really close though. We talk about everything, and though he has secrets I respect that. Its like ive been hypnotized. Want him so much it hurts, yet I’m so scared of having my heart broken again.

  36. You want more, then stop having sex with him. Why would he give you more when you’re already giving him everything anyway. Pull back.

  37. I’m a scorpio girl. Im still young but I have eyes on this person, I don’t know why but their presence seems to overpower everyone’s and I’m really sad coz all I think about is that person. I keep looking at them when their not looking but they don’t seem to notice me or acknowledge me but when we’re alone at a point and make eye contact it’s like a million words were spoken. I feel so deep about them but can’t tell if they are intrested which hurts like hell and when their with someone else It feels like someone stabbed me and the sad thing is I feel like there’s a bond for sure but them not reacting makes me think other wise.

  38. Have to say out of every relationship I have ever had. The one with a Virgo was the very best. No man has ever cared for and loved me so much. He cried so hard when I broke up with him and I will never forget I felt about him. I only hope to find that kind of love again no matter what sign he may be. We just got along so well we could spend every moment together. I loved his friends, he was hardworking, amazing sex, he always knew when something was wrong and knew how to fix it. I’ll never forget him.

  39. Its been 8 days with my scorpio.

    We had our first date and she and i where so attracted we couldn’t help0 but explore each other’s body.

    I am a androgynous person and im happy she fully accepts that

    I like her support and we both agreed we met in another life. We knew each other’s body so well and the mental connection made things More intense.

    Now I’m reading and totally understand why i feel so deeply. So fast!

    Im 23 Virgo and she is 28.

    She is stable and I’m getting my life together. This makes her worry because she wants someone to build with not build up.

    Instantly! I took all the knowledge I’ve been accumulating and i believe the universe gave me her to give me a bigger push of motivation to GROW UP.

    I want to be her safety net. She is well off but i want to spoil her and take care of certain things for her to have more time for her grow and collaborate our skills and make big moves.

    I found myself getting clingy i apologized and fell back. I don’t want to scare her at all. Im just a little devoted and it scares me more because its such little time.

    I am ready to let things grow at a natural pace!

  40. My husband and I just read this tonight I am a Virgo and he is a Scorpio we felt as if you were reading our story every bit of it was spot-on

  41. Im a Virgo and my One and Only is a Scorpio. He is by far the warmest, sweetest and most loving man I have ever known. By the way to those who claim Cancer and Pisces are the more sensitive I claim bullshit! Scorpios have the tenderest hearts of all!

    1. Wow Cleopatra that was the most beautiful description of a relatiomship ever. It’s weird because I am always telling my friends that the exact feelings you described is how I want
      to feel about someone else. I am virgo woman and my friends signed me up to an online dating site because I’m so reserved when it comes to love. I have NEVER taken it seriously but I ended up chatting with someone who I felt a strong connection with (and this is just theough text) and we have been in contact for 4 months. I kept trying to figure out what it is about him that has kept my attention for this long. He is intelligent as hell which is such a turn on, hilarious, respectful and kind. I recently found out that he was a Scorpio and reading these articles makes sense. He wants
      to meet in person and I’m being really shy about it because I’m scared that the spark we have might die. The possibility of one of us not liking each other makes me quite sad yet I’m also scared of the intensity of our connection. This has caused him to feel like I am rejecting him and he has pulled away. Jeez this zodiac pair is so confusing but it seems that if we let our reservations and fears go, there is potential
      for something amazing and out of this world!!

  42. I am a Virgo and I am madly in love with a Scorpio. This post is very enlightening, as I didn’t realize the energy that exists between Scorpios and Virgos. But, this makes complete sense now given my experience which has been magnetic. Ever since I first saw him, it was like this electric burst that shot through my soul. He just connects to me at the core, without saying a word- it is like some electric field moving through my entire body. Just one look, one blink of his eyes, a slight gesture or body movement – that is all it takes. I knew right away, and I have never felt anything like it. He moves me spiritually and physically without a word or a touch- there is just this amazing energy transfer between the two of us. It is the most beautiful think I have experienced. I was very shocked and frightened in the beginning, which I totally regret as I think it really put him off and confused him. I wasn’t sure how to respond, and my delay may have really hurt him. That is the last think I want. I love him dearly and hope this is forever. I feel his heart pounding when we are not even together. He is present everywhere I go because it feels like he has become a part of my soul. Although we are spiritually connected which is amazing and transcends anything physical, I do want more. I also want to be present for him so that I can provide the love and support he needs. If he is confused about who I am as a Virgo, I’d like a chance to explain and reassure him that it is not what he is thinking. I just want him to know that he is the love of my life and I feel like I can’t live without him.

  43. I was dating a Scorpio who was the most amazing soul, full of creative spirit, passion and insight into all heart related matters. He has a significant other and they are still together, although I don’t know if he still loves her and whether he ever told her about us. In some ways it didn’t matter to me, what we had was so true and pure, the conventions in life and what others thought just didn’t seem to make a difference. It was powerful and painful at the same time. Sometimes I did not understand him, not that it mattered to me really, because that is how it is with true love. I am still crazy about him and think of him always, but right now we are apart although in my heart he is always with me. I just found out it is his birthday in a little over a week. It hurts we are apart, and I wish I could be there during this special time. It just reminds me how hard it is to be away from him. I just hope he is happy, and if not hope the universe will let him know that he is still the most amazing person to me, and the greatest inspiration in my life. In my dreams we will find a way to be together. While I’m happy thinking of him, there is still so much pain. I do hope he has a wonderful birthday, and that there is someone in his life that feels he is as special as I do.

  44. Fascinating story, I was dating a Scorpio woman and she also had a significant other. It was very intense, and I couldn’t even bring myself to ask her what she really wanted and whether this other guy (far inferior to me from my perspective) was someone she was really serious about or just a bad habit (likely the later). Either way if she is with him, then I can’t be with her. In the beginning I didn’t deal with it because of the need/ want for the intense connection. But when things developed and we were considering moving to the next level, it was impossible to ignore. I guess I’m still in limbo, and need to understand more about Scorpios their sensitivities, and tendencies in love. .Maybe it is not too late and there might be hope for us. Like you I’m pretty hung up on this Scorpio- they must be pretty amazing sensitive spiritual beings that just grab on to your heart and don’t let go. I wonder if they are aware of their heart powers.

  45. Dear Sisi-
    I am just reading your response to my email posted on April 27th. That is exciting that you seem some similarities. Just curious, what has happened with your online relationship? Did you ever meet in person, has the attraction continued, or has the spark faded? I hope there is still potential for your relationship.
    Please keep me posted. Would be a shame for fear to stand in the way.

  46. As a Virgo woman, I’d say, if she says something to you, believe it! We are generally guarded with our thoughts and emotions and prefer to drop “subtle” hints. We want to be chased rather than to chase. …I hope this helps!

  47. As a Virgo woman, I’d say, if she says something to you, believe it! We are generally guarded with our thoughts and emotions and prefer to drop “subtle” hints. We want to be chased rather than to chase. …I hope this helps!

  48. I am man Scorpio and I fell head over heels in love with my virgo female….she amazingly beautiful. In my eyes I see her heart and soul expressing itself in her smile.im completely overwhelming her with a love very few people know more less know if….shes seems to be unfaithful or inconsiderate of my loyalty.. I need assurance I’m not playing a game with her this is my life I’m investing into her..

  49. Very true on ALL accounts! My Virgo and I both enjoy nature and being outside and find that we have more of a connection when it’s simply JUST us. We’re starting again at building a solid friendship – something we didn’t do the first time around and we both understand that this will build a bond that will be unbreakable. I am very emotional, she is very empathetic and I feel that we have this odd connection that I can’t really explain. The only thing that makes sense to me is that are made for each other. I can feel and tell that she has very deep feelings for me and she knows that I truly do love her. It’s great because we really can tell each other anything. I <3 her SO much.
    Thank you Dossé

  50. born on october 26 me being belonging to scorpio.
    i love her the best as the most best part of my life . she belongs to virgo. she never come to understand how much i love her . 4 years of our relationship is still going but every tym now her action hurts my deep feelings and she never care about it. ya. she might love but the way she does totally make me think that i am no more anything for her. i wanna live with her my whole life. but always feeling insecure since 1 year that she might move on.. i m extremely loyal to her. what to do to be happy with her?

  51. I have been in a relationship with a Virgo for the last 7 years. I’m a Scorpio. She says she wants to leave in 4 months. We live together and had plans to get married. But she tells me it’s not me it’s her. I don’t know what that means. She doesn’t want to work anything out anymore. What should I do? My first gf was a Taurus April 21st. Used to say in some horoscopes that we were compatible but not anymore? We have recently talked and it’s been 16 years but still feel like she was the one? So is this all just Mumbo jumbo? Or have I just fell into a dark place?

  52. All 4 my ex’s been Taurus nd it didn’t end up well . Hopefully my soulmate is the Virgo man I always dreamed of.

  53. I’m a virgo girl and OMG I recently fell for this Scorpio guy at work. He’s 8 years older and unfortunately, I’m only a temp. He’s really friendly and cool and I really like it when he just stares into my eyes when he finds me looking at him. But sometimes I get REALLY SHY AND SCARED that he will realize that I have a deep intense feeling towards him SO I JUST GIVE AN AWKWARD SMILE AND LOOK AWAY *PULLS HAIR*. He did try to be friendly towards me by asking me a few personal questions e.g. age & why i changed my image. He did try a sick joke but apparently I was too slow in getting it so i just gave him a blur/innocent (huh??) reaction – BUT once I got it i think i blushed?? so he apologized AWKWARDLY. Honestly, I don’t know if he’s just friendly by nature. I also don’t know why, but I told him that he was weird and there was just awkward laughter between us but he was quite curious on why I said that. I don’t know if he’s even straight SOMEONE SAVE ME *CRIES*. I’m gonna quit soon.. should test the water by telling him bout that? any scorpio guys who can advice on what I should do??

  54. Reading this, I actually find it did not match up to my relationship at all. I’m a female Scorpio and my partner was a male Virgo. When things started, it was intense and heated and we fell head over heels; we couldn’t get enough of eachother. But when we lived together, it was quite the opposite. All the Scorpio traits hold true to me, I can dive all in if I feel the trust, I’m loyal to fault, etc. but catch me on a bad day and we have problems. However, this Virgo does not maintain any traits whatsoever that I’ve read; maybe initially. He was messy, independent, more hot/cold than myself and lacked loyalty (he cheated). True to nature, I turned to ice and fell into depression (I’m ok), and a year later, he’s still begging for me back. Best relationship to start, but ended as one of the worst! Though I will say, our emotional connection is still definitely there, but I haven’t looked back due to lack of trust. Onward Scorpio! 😉

  55. i am best friends with a virgo guy, we have a very very strong bond most of what you wrote it is true and the others im not sure, is there a higher chance that me and him might date in the future

  56. I am a female Scorpio and have become very attached to a male Virgo co-worker. We have known each other for over 5 years. I am married ( not happily….my husband pices was having an affair). At first I just felt a friendship bond with him, I felt good in his presence, he made me feel good about myself almost as if he knew I needed some positive affirmations. He was the first person i told about my husbands lack of discretion. Then as time is passed I felt this deep rooted need to be around him. He seems to know without me saying a word when I am down and need comforting. It amazes me that he just seems to turn my whole demeanor around like a flick of a switch. He makes me feel amazing, and beautiful, and intellegent. Well, now I am having romantic feelings for him (at least I think…not sure if maybe it is just a Florence Nightengale effect), problem being he has a girlfriend….well actually just recently became his fiance…..ugh! It’s weird I have always felt as though he had feelings for me too. Long, deep gazes into each other’s eyes…you know the kind that last just a second or two longer than most! Even as i type those word, i breath i a breathless sigh of ecstasy just thinking about him. he is very logical….and when you put the two of us down on paper…we dont make sense…. there is a 14 year age difference between us (me being the elder) we work together ( ok..that chsnged a little …same company not in the same department anymore….i cant even begin to explain my heartache when that happened) and well…i am married and he has a girlfriend..ooops, i mean fiance! But everything in this post rings so true to heart. I want to tell him how i feel but have multiple reservations…as I am a Scorpio I fear being vulnerable and putting my heart out there for fear of rejection ( and Yes, Lord knows I have been hurt). As I was cheated on by my husband I feel apprehensive of telling him because I feel it is not right to do to his fiancee ( I have nothing against her…i have met her multiple times, and she is a nice girl) and I don’t want to do to her what was dine to me. and I most of all fear losing our friendship if i tell him because mybe he does not feel the same and it would make things awkward and beyond anything that I could not bare!!!

  57. I totally agree with this post. I am a lesbian scorpio and there is this virgo woman that is so amazing that I can’t resist. Regardless what kind of negativity that I can see her, yea sometimes I am so annoyed at the same time, I can’t take my eyes off from her.

    It is already been 11 years that she found me when we were in highschool but that time our love wasn’t given a chance cause I am still taken on that time with a cancer woman. Years gone by and for some reasons, our destiny keeps us linked even we are already in distance. After years, she will come again into my life and to the 2nd time around, I am taken by a capricorn woman that time. She always finding her way to me and I don’t know what makes her attracted to me that much that she is willing to love me in distance, even I am with someone else until she got tired and loved by a capricorn man but on that time, my life is on the rocks with the capricorn woman until we broke up.

    after 4 years and we meet again. Everything is so magical that at last, it is our time. It didn’t work with her capricorn guy at all. Time tested us on how strong our love is. I am so into her and nothing has changed. I am glad that I found the one for me. After 11 years.

  58. I am a scorpio female 11/04 that is dating a virgo male 08/31 for over a year now.
    We were friends when we were teenagers but lost touch after we started different high schools. As kids I felt a bond with him, I wanted to protect him since he was so shy and quiet but even then I knew he had a crush on me. Fast forward 20 years later and here we are, he found me and we started talking again. I dont know what it is about this guy that has me smiling as I type this. He is unlike any one I have ever dated. One thing that drives me crazy is the costant pull/push he does. Lord knows there are times he tests my patience but the connection I feel with him is strong. He says the wrong things at the wrong time, is brutally honest and very critical and lets not forget the mood swings. He told me he has been hurt before so he is very careful with his heart and guarded with his emotions, I on the other hand feel ready to show him true love, if only he would let it be. Im crazy right? Why would I want to give my heart to a man like that? Someone who seems to be emotionally unavaible. Well he has some amazing qualities that keep me interested, he is very intelligent, communicates well as long its not about his feelings, he is talented, funny, kind and generous. He brings me this calm when we are together that I dont find anywhere else. He can soothe my emotional storms when they do arise. He has slipped up a few times and told me that he does care for me deeply and wants me in his life. He has even said he feels very lucky to have found me after so many years. I think he is falling for me in his quiet and reserved way. I can look into his eyes and feel his emotions when we touch, no words are needed. I just hope he has the courage to allow me to love him and help him forget all past heartache.
    Its a funny thing how life works, I can still see that quiet shy boy I knew when he smiles from time to time. Life is beautiful

  59. Sandy, sounds like you have an amazing condition with your Virgo man. I totally get your statement about the cal. You get when you are with him and you are spot on about the whole push pull thing! I think that is part of the draw we have to the Virgo male being Scorpio women we seem to love the intrigue and the challenge. If they made it too easy for us, Well, let’s face it……we would lose interest! Ha, we are our own worst enemies. I wish you and your emotionally complicated Virgo man the best of luck. Hang in there Scorpio Sister!!!

  60. My relationship was a total bust! I dated a September 17th Virgo and at first he seemed convincing but then he became rude! He had a tendency to get wishy-washy which is a total turn off for me. But of course, I wasn’t going to let that ruin our newly founded relationship. But as time went on, he just became more and more rigid. I have an open sexuality while he was very demanding. Our relationship lasted for about 10 months total. He was just too stuck up for me. He was your typical Virgo man, well in this case, all the typical negative traits. I’m a November 8th Scorpion with a Scorpio Venus and Virgo Mars. I wanted something more easy going, while he was just exhausting. Our energies probably didn’t mix well anyway. Now I’m kind of searching for a more compassionate partner.

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