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Scorpio & Aries

Scorpio is a Water sign, and Aries is a Fire sign. These two may appear to be opposites, but they have far more in common than they initially think. Both Aries and Scorpio share a common ruler: Mars, the Planet of Action. Mars imbues you both with tremendous passion, inner strength, courage, vitality, energy, and enthusiasm for life. When these two are together, they motivate each other to excel, they push each other past each other’s comfort zones, they support each other and encourage each other. However, they can also be extremely competitive with one another, because they both seek to win above all else. If they are both in the same career path or share the same hobby, things can get ugly if they are aiming for the same prize.

The differences between Aries and Scorpio are significant. Although both of them have a short temper and you lose your patience easily, Aries tends to forgive and forget much more easily than Scorpio. When hurt or deceived, Scorpio tends to hold on to that hurt and will remember it forever. Scorpio has a tendency to hold a grudge and seek revenge. That’s why Aries has to be very careful with the words they use when talking to Scorpio. Both Aries and Scorpio have a tendency to say things they do not mean when they are angry, but that could lead to dreadful explosions.

Scorpio is likely to be more emotionally invested into the relationship than Aries first appears to be. Scorpio bonds deeply and intensely to the one they love, and Scorpio shows their devotion and appreciation for their partner by paying attention to the little things. Scorpio seeks the same care and affection in return, but because Aries is more action-oriented, they may not be as sentimental and emotional as Scorpio is, which could lead to a conflict in the way they both express their love. When Scorpio and Aries get in a fight, it becomes stormy, fiery, and explosive. It is advised for them both to partake in physical activities together to unleash their intensity and propensity to go to extremes.

Although Scorpio and Aries have somewhat contrasting approaches on life and love, they both share a love of passion, freedom, independence, adventure, and romance. If they are able to accept each other for who they are and not try to manipulate one another into changing, then they have great chances of experiencing a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

58 responses to “Scorpio & Aries

  1. This is so true for me and my Aries. We have been together for 8 years on and off and are finally getting married. We both had to learn to understand how each of us show and express love.

  2. I’m an Aries that’s head over heels for my Scorpio… we are on our second tour after a hiatus. The break included many transitions in life along with revealing gaps that could only be filled with a reconciliation…so here’s to round two… #playingforkeeps

    1. Round 2 for my Aries and I as well! We had a 6 month break and had zero expectation for even rekindling a friendship. I’m a typical Scorpio when it comes to not easily forgiving but as soon as we grabbed coffee, BOOM! SPARKS! We live in 2 different states and we have agreed to do our own things for the next 5 months until we decide whether or not we want each other intimately. If that is the case then that’s it! We’re done looking because our love is strong enough. Man I live my Aries and to think that I had such disdain for him 6 months prior.

  3. I’m just wondering if being a november 19th baby (first day of the cusp) makes a real difference on a romantic relationship? How does someone on the cusp really figure out when and where our characters cross the line from one sign to the other? Would a scorpio-sag get along more with an aries than a full breed (lol) scorpio?

    Thank you in advance! 🙂

    1. The cusps do not exist. That is just a gimmick from astrology sites. The sun cannot be in two signs at the same time. Is either one sign or the other but NOT both. The other reason that some astrology sites have dates overlapping as to when the sun leaves or enters one sign into the other is because some years the sun leaves a sign early in 20th of each month and other years it does it on the 21st. I’m a Gemini sun and Aries moon (June 20th) last degree Gemini so I understand the confusion. Lol the reason I’m here is because in Draconic Astrology I am a Scorpio sun, Virgo moon with Scorpio Venus…and my lover in DA is Aries sun, Capricorn moon, Aries venus.

      1. One of the firsts (and most intense and deep) love of my life was a Scorpio, and his birthday was the 19th. It was pretty textbook Aries/Scorpio, so I don’t think the cusp makes that much difference in this pairing. 🙂

  4. Me(scorpion) and my aries friend whenever we get into fight or debate or anything it is the aries who always takes down..he loses everytime with me…i nevr give up…so even he has accepted the fact to deal with scorpion is not an easy task! Bt he his my frnd and i care for him so i usualy try to keep my mouth shut and not getting in any disturbive conversation…bt then he starts and then u knw he always losses to me. 😀

  5. My kids father is a Aries and hell and fireworks was the words during an argument lol literally break out in fights because both are so head strong but the sex is amazing and the good times count but the bad out ways the good with this couple and that’s bad

  6. Break ups, other people/other relationships and jealousy is what marked my relationship with this man…and he was often look me and tell me that I deserves someone else,when I moved on he was so bitter and ugly to me. He even got another women pregnant to upset me and resentit, he had a nervous breakdown because I gave up on him. We even have a daughter together

    1. I’m a Scorpio I’m seeing an Aries. It’s fairly new, but it’s like I don’t know weather he hates me. Because one minute we’re speaking everything is OK and in a flash he won’t even say hello to me. I feel like I’m here for his benefit. I’m ready to get off this rollercoaster but something is pulling me towards him. What should I do

      1. I’m a Scorpio female and dating an Aries male. The relationship is also fairly new( 3months In) we live in different states and actually haven’t introduced ourselves yet in person. We have talked on phone,FaceTime,and through texts. I feel like we’re very much drawn and into each other with an question.He recently told me he loved me and yes I said it back with all smiles. We been talking about kids well as moving to whatever state or country together. I feel like you can fall in love with a person from many miles away but what happens when all of a sudden my love, my friend, my Arise man is nowhere to be found!!after talking with him on a Saturday night the next morning it’s a complete mystery.. No calls, No texts?No Nothing….just voice mail!!! it’s so weird but I truely miss him. I’m still waiting to hear from him it’s been 2weeks now and don’t know what to do.

      2. Don’t worry about it he/she might be going through their own rough patch in life where he or she might be confused about something and doesn’t want to drag you in it or make you feel any type of way because he/she probably really cares about you .??‍♀️You never know ,so don’t even stress if

  7. Never knew where I stood with Scorpio man. Did not communicate, would say opposite of what he really felt. Lied many times answering sex ads behind my back. And today he is wondering why I walked away
    Obsessed with sex

    It has been 6 weeks and not one word from him. Don’t think he was sincere with all the sweet talk. Not even trying to get me back. That’s how cold he is.

  8. Never knew where I stood with Scorpio man. Did not communicate, would say opposite of what he really felt. Lied many times answering sex ads behind my back. And today he is wondering why I walked away
    Obsessed with sex

    It has been 6 weeks and not one word from him. Don’t think he was sincere with all the sweet talk. Not even trying to get me back. That’s how cold he is.

  9. So obviously it’s normal for this pair to break up and make up. From hiatus to on. I love my Aries so much and his actions show that he loves me too. But the part about different expressions of love is so true. The jealousy and suspicions run deep between us and causes conflict. We both unconsciously play games trying to protect our own feelings and egos. I just want this to work because for the first time I honestly feel like this is a soul attachment. Mind and heart.

  10. I’m a lesbian Hi….. I’m an ARIES mii girl is a scorpio… Our relationship started off crazy but we never gave up on each other… We learned over the months how to deal wit each other… I love her n trust her to the fullest because I no she’s loyal… We talk n txt all day… She super sensitive but I can deal, I can b kinda controlling but she let me be sometimes… She’s manipulated n demanding this I no but sometimes I let her have her way depending on the situation… We argue all couples do I argue back but I never let her gt under mii skin… To be honest it’s a turn on to me…. She’s mii headache n I love her bipolar ASS even tho she hit them nerves sometime LOL… (To me communicate,loyalty an space is the key to our relationship)

  11. True. I’m in love with an Aries and he hates to be tied down all he does is come in and tell me so many promises of how we can make this relationship work only to leave me time and time again. I guess I am the fool for sticking around waiting for him to prove what he once said to me will come to be. So now he doesn’t want me to bring up our relationship or have a talk about how I feel anymore…..I just need to let go but how do you let go when you love someone so much…………..

    1. Thanks for your comment Ashley. It helped me feel not so alone. I’ve been on/off with an aries guy for almost 8 years. He told me two weeks ago he didn’t want to make things work between us anymore. I know I deserve better than this and should move on. We both left eachother in the past and have resentments. I thought we’ve been through so much, I should wait for him to come back like I have in the past. The truth is, It’s really hard for scorpios to accept that their passionate, undying love is not recpriocated and move on. It only makes you want them more.
      Everyone deserves someone who loves them

      1. I’ve been in a relationship with an Aries man for 3 years now. I understand the feeling of not feeling desired or loved as much. I honestly believe if I weren’t still so in love with him I would never ever date an Aries again. The love will never be matched because Scorpios love so intensely and Aries are just so cavalier.

    2. I’m a younger Aries female she’s a Scorpio almost doubled in my age. We’ve dated years ago, finding me again and we have rekindled. Scorpios will express how they feel but action is a little slow. Aries dont have time for games and those Scorpio secrets because we will move on. One minute we are really close and the next there is space between. One minute she’s falling hard and the next she is silent.

      1. I am an Aries female and my friend is a female Scorpio. She is older than me and I agree with you! I met my Scorpio years ago and just admired her from a far. I ran across her pic on a friends page and decided to reach out and let her know how attractive she was to me. 4 months later she hits me up and we began conversing from there. We hit it off instantly! My Scorpio was such a GENTLEWOMAN to me. She was sweet, romantic, attentive…had me head over heels for her….and then out of the blue… BOOM! She tells me she doesnt want to be more than friends b/c of unresolved issues with in her self and other secrets she didnt care to share with me. I cant heart was broken. She got me wide open and then dropped that bomb on me. Now, we agreed to be friends, but are still physically attracted to each other. But one thing ARIES does not have time for is the GAMES and WISHY-WASHY ways of Scorpio. When we are together, we have a FANTASTIC time together. When she is being moody or feeling standoffish, its okay for her but not for me. Its not fair! None the less, I am so drawn to her, but i feel like Im going to cut her off bc I dont have time for games. One minute she adores the shyt out of me…loving all up on me and the next she is missing in action. Silent. I won’t hear from her…

        1. Yea I wrote the comment above yours
          Yes games is what we don’t have time for. I’m Aries she’s a older Scorpio who obsessively found me. When we are together it’s great otherwise the communication is awful. i really like her but I don’t have time for the slow process I meet people and will move on quick.

          1. So move on then. Aries love to say we will just go but here we are reading this. Scorpio invades your heart before you even know it..

          2. Exact situation I have an older Scorpio whom saw me and found me. Didn’t have to steal my heart it was already hers when I saw her too. LDR and the communication is really damned but each time we meet I met like butter. Can’t let go of her and don’t know how.

  12. I think this Scorpio female that’s been in my life for about 5-6 years. Me and my close friend like a brother to me always talked to the same women. We would always talk to the same women, this Scorpio female we would both get at and kiss and do all kind of shit when we were younger. I really liked her but I liked multiple women at that time, and my brother only wanted this Scorpio woman, he just got out of a relationship so I stopped talking to her. And talked to other woman, until I went to 5150 and got out they ended up breaking up, so she called me as soon as they broke up the day I got out of 5150 so I hang out with her. And she was the only person I felt truly cared for me, I always had deep passionate feelings for her but I didn’t want to push my issue when she dated my brother, but me and this Scorpio chick started dating and she was one of my favorite females I ever hung out with in my life.

  13. As a Scorpions man I was in relationship with Aries girl for 6 years. I agree that as ascorpio I was more involved and would expect more from her.eventually she cheated me for another guy.since then I never called her to win back. I only said if you willing to destroy our 6 year relationship you better don’t cheat on him. Fuck man I wanted to destroy her but I acted so cold that she was nothing to me when I got to know she cheated on me.

  14. I’m an Aries and me and my fwb are not speaking after we had an argument and I dont want to, because right now I’m planning for revenge I hold grudges but it depends on who u are,but with him I’ve had ENOUGH!!
    I’m slashing tires tonight and won’t regret it?

  15. we have meet with my aries girl now 4 months and today again we separete.biggest problem is that she want everything now and fast and i(scorpios) dont do things like should i give her some space and just wait?

  16. Aries here. Scorpios are manipulative, liars, most of them unable to express their emotions, unwilling to compromise, cheaters. The list goes on. I happened to have been involved with a scorpio on and off for the last 3 years. Aside from the unbelieveable sex.. theres not much else to say between these 2 signs. Stear clear my fellow rams!

  17. Me and my Aries have been together 4 years. We’ve had a few short breaks in our relationship including one 7 month long breakup where I had moved on. It seemed though the more I tried to move on the more I kept thinking about him. After 7 months I finally decided to talk to him again and see if we could be friends. Well a month later we were living together and now 8months later of being back together we just hit our 4 year anniversary. Unfortunately I haven’t told him that I cheated on him recently. I know Aries can be forgiving but I don’t think I can tell him and I don’t want to lose him just yet. In the mean time I’ve been trying to figure out how to either make it work or move on. Because with him it seems like we always come back to eachother and he says the same. We have a very strong bond.

  18. Sag lack loyalty and commitment too much freedom gives them too many options and quickly find themselves in adulterous affairs and cheating..they bore easy because they are addicted to adventure always seeking the next high and when you’ve done all you can its never enough..this is the most self centered non communicative cheating weak sign there is..there loyalty is short term always hunting..addicted to the thrill of hunting..even when happy its never enough..I will never date or marry a sag again..lacks remorse and insensitive and lacks gratitude..married to one for 20 years..Scorpios are not clingy they just expect an equal amount of time invested in a relationship back..why short change any relationship regardless of your sign..

  19. Ive been married to an Aries man for almost a decade. Beautiful, passionate, full of life and love but soon turned sour. Battle after battle, power struggles, refusal to compromise, lying, betrayal, words that cut like knives and leave deep lasting wounds. It was a bloody war. And after that what is left? Sex? There is too much pain on both ends for that. Just silence for now until we can figure out whether or not this is still worth fighting for. Do I hate him? No. Do I regret my marriage? Never, i learned a lot from it. And despite everything I still wish him happiness even if we decide its not going to be with each other.

  20. I am an Aries. I know scorpion people are grudge holding people. But their minds can always be the playful nature of Aries. In short, turning the battle into friendship. This is the unique quality of an Aries. They may fight harder, but are also the initiators, the creators. Scorpios are mysterious, but the Aries are creative people.

    Sometimes being playful has its own advantages. The Aries know it the best.

  21. Deeply connected!
    They love life, fun, happiness, humanity, compassion, goodness and love.
    When together can be fun but major pain in each other’s arse. If separated, can not be ok with that, no matter what. Their love for each can never die no matter how far they are. If only they can be taught how to chanalise, appreciate and enjoy each other’s energy together fulfilling their own goals. They will bloom!!! Together forever!!

  22. I’m a Scorpion Queen dating an Aries King. We’ve been together for 2 yrs and it still feels new. We met on fb and after about 2 months of chatting, we decided to meet in person. Once we met face to face we knew it was a perfect fit. We have so much in common until it’s scary. We’ve been inseparable ever since. We don’t even know when we actually started dating because it just all fell into place, so we celebrate the day we met because we don’t have a relationship date. I think that you have to evolve to your Phoenix as a Scorpio in order to deal with your jealous, controlling side, especially when dealing with an Aries Man who knows what he wants out of life. I’ve never met a man so honest and genuine about his feelings. He’s the one… The only one who’s ever understood me and loves me for who I am and my psychotic ways!

  23. Aries Man here. I wish I had read this article and the comments before losing my spectacular Scorpio girlfriend – so much truth to both character types.

    I had to leave for a job for eight days…the longest we had ever been apart. Our communication slipped (no phone calls, boring text messages) and I ended up having flirtatious and inappropriate text messages with another girl. When I finally returned, we had a great night together – like usual, a completely awesome drunken time. Well, at 5am she woke up and went through my phone, found the messages, and kicked my a$$ out. Not the first time she’s kicked me out at 5am either.

    Like everyone has mentioned, the magnetism is unreal. It’s driving me crazy, in fact. It’s been 3 months since we have spoken and she is all I think about. The comments certainly gave me hope that she will contact me one day.

  24. I’m a Nov. 6 Scorpio male, just started with an Aries girl. I see the difficulties we might have but I can compromise. She compromises for me so… But yeah… Great sex! Really great sex.

  25. Hi I’m a Scorpio female, dating an Aries male! Our first two years were very temperous, our arguments involved a lot of dramatics. ( I would storm out and expect him to chase me which he often did, we’d end up making up in the rain.) I truly think moon and ascendant signs have a part to play in my relationship which is why I think our relationship lasts, that and a lot of patience and a little negotiation! I love the passion in my relationship but I do truly believe I bagged a sensitive Aries so we don’t squabble that much.

  26. Im a Scorpio woman and I have been with an Aries man for about 4 months now. From the very beginning we knew we were incredibly in love. The passion in this relationship is insane, unlike anything I’ve ever seen in real life. It truly is a relationship like those in the movies. I don’t feel that we fight too often but when we do it gets pretty dramatic. We tend to really only fight about jealousy and trust. We both have each others passwords on each others phones and we track each other. Its strange because we both say we trust each other but we wind up going through each others phones and checking where the other one is a lot. I want to believe he trusts me and I feel I trust him but maybe there is just a deep seed in both of us that has issues with trust. Other times we fight about things that happened in our past, just because we are both incredibly jealous and don’t like to think about the fact that the other one has been with anyone else. I know distrust and jealousy are common aries and scorpio traita, Im just wondering if anyone has experienced the same thing and knows of any ways to help resolve this? The good thing is, unlike other relationships, I never feel as though our relationship is threatened when we do fight. I know we can always work through things because I know we both love each other more than we could ever put into words. Aries-Scorpio relationship, especially ours, really is based in passion. We often describe our relationship as a “Mr. and Mrs. Smith” relationship. Intensely fighting one minute and then having amazing, passionate sex the next. I would never give up my Aries man for anything.

    1. I’m s Scorpio woman dating an Aries man. We met 10 months ago and have been inseparable since. Reading your post was like reading about my relationship. I definitely understand where you come from when you talk about the trust issues. I couldn’t describe it any other better way. I wish I could help you resolve this but I’m on the same boat. The only thing that keeps me sane is knowing that everything happens for a reason.

  27. Me and my scorpio were together for 3 months long distance. It was intense and I felt her love through the phone. I love her deeply, I thought she loved me too. We talked frequently about marriage and life together. I flew out to visit her, 5 days of total bliss and then she started to become distant. Her distance made me uneasy which created a couple arguments which in my opinion weren’t the end of the world, but I left feeling still uneasy. While back in my hometown, she quit reaching out and our dynamic quickly shifted. I was still very uneasy, and felt the end was coming. Sure enough she dumped me over text a week after I was home. I love her so much and miss her. I hope she will reconcile with me, but it doesn’t seem very likely.

  28. I’m a Scorpio female,‘talking’ to an Aries man & honestly this is so confusing , I have a pull towards him and idk why. We talked for about 1 month then he ghosted me for 2 weeks and randomly hit me up saying he couldn’t stop thinking about me , then we do the FWB thing , I cut it off cus lol idek & he hits me up again like 2 days later saying he misses me like crazy and was gonna come see me tomorrow since i was busy …. then doesn’t text me at all the next day ….. like what the fuck and I have too much of a pride to text him , I’m at a loss my brain doesn’t work anymore , I need so help from the internet lol

  29. I am an aries chick all the way. But I’ve lied to my my Scorpio man for the first month of us dating. He does trust me and thinks that I will cheat on him (which will not happen) I’m so confused because he finds every which way to try and catch me me lying to him. We fight and argue from the time we get up til we go to sleep. I hate it but I have no clue on how to fix this with my actions. I need help

  30. I’m an Aries female that have strong feelings for a Scorpio male. We bond, we click, so easily it’s like nothing I’ve ever experienced. I’m actually addicted to what we have. Yes we are only friends and it’ll probably stay that way since I don’t know how he feels exactly but I’ll never bother to ask since I already understand that being direct about those kinds of things create a setback. I do enjoy when he randomly hits me up and says sweet things without me expecting it so, that’s cool. Anyways, I don’t think we would ever date but I do think about what it’d be like. Our friendship is beautiful and sometimes I wish he would tell me how he feels just so I don’t have to ask. I’m scared to because of the possible setbacks it’ll create between us or rejection (lol). Our bond is magic. I am very open around him and there’s something about him that makes me vulnerable. He gets me choked up sometimes but I come off as playing it cool and not letting anything phase me, little does he know he’s got me thinking about him all the time. He tells me little things like he misses me and appreciates me so much or would start to do a little harmless flirting and it gets me. We factimed for the first time the other night and the way I caught him staring at me a few times…. *sigh* it’s just great. I do get jealous when he mentions other girls or affairs with other girls idk I’m crazy (lol) but sometimes I wonder if he feels the same too? If so, he’s good at hiding it.
    Either way, I’m happy I have him in my life regardless. To all my fellow Aries out there, if you have a scorp friend that makes you feel this way, just go for it already!

    1. Moonbaby’s a lil cutie and we’re actually in the midst of setting up some dates. Shes deadass the best and so so understanding and everything clicks so perfectly. Couldnt ask for anything more, i love how things are going.

  31. I’m a scorpio female with an aries male. We’ve been together 4 years with one 6 month break. Our relationship has reached an ultimatum because he is wanting comittment towards future marriage and family. He has everything going for him, yet somehow I’m filled with doubt. I seem unable to make a decision. I love him dearly, but am also 6 years younger than him and not preoccupied with a need for marriage. From my experience scorio female and aries male are a fantastic match but life is complicated and timing is a thing in itself.

  32. Wow… this is surprising. I have been reading lots about scorpio and aries and it has made me feel the exact opposite of understood. Everybody keeps talking about how competitive we can be, but its more supportive then competitive. At this point I dont care if they win, I just want to be with them. Aries beinv less invested at first is true, but what sets my aries apart is that they are super soft and just want to be loved and held… that part of our connection can’t be ignored. But so many people don’t seem to see it. Despite being opposites pretty much on our charts, I have never felt more understood then with this person and being with them is home. I was wondering if you had any thoughts on why we feel this? I checked our moon signs too, mine is in aquarius and theirs in saggitarius (pretty sure) so they don’t really line up either. I’m so confused…

  33. I am an Aries female with a Scorpio ex-boyfriend. Let me just say, that relationship went down in flames. We broke up over five years ago and he’s still trying to get back with me anytime he breaks up with another girl. We only dated for about a year, but were on and off the entire time. He was definitely more devoted to the relationship than I was and wanted my complete devotion, but I wasn’t ready to be that serious with him so early on, which ultimately led to our break up. We were constantly having issues with him being jealous and constantly accusing me of things, while I had a tendency to not take him seriously enough while fueled the fire even more. And the arguments were on a whole other level. When things were good they were great, but when they were bad they were completely terrifying. I think with the right people and the right understanding, a Scorpio and an Aries can have a beautiful, fun, and passionate relationship but all I can say is be careful.

  34. I am a scorpio female and my partner is Aries.We have a unhealthy relationship which can break anytime.My Aries Partner is so self centered and doesn’t really care about my emotions.Most of the times he gives me Silent Treatment if I dn’t do what he wants.It is an awful match.I would never recommend to anyone.

  35. I love my aries female to death. We had a serious break in the beginning over stupid things and it severely affected certain things but we’ve been working very diligently to preserve the obvious love.. i truly cant see myself with anyone else and i feel as though my energy has married to hers. Moonbaby is truly a gem.. one i will nurture and cherish for life

    1. lil scorp and I have our ups and downs but overall we are going very good and I really do cherish this relationship. We… tend to clash and it can get bad or nasty but… we both end up gravitating back towards each other. I’m not sure what it is but I genuinely enjoy being with this sign. Wouldn’t trade it for anything else

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