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Scorpio & Aries

Scorpio is a Water sign, and Aries is a Fire sign. These two may appear to be opposites, but they have far more in common than they initially think. Both Aries and Scorpio share a common ruler: Mars, the Planet of Action. Mars imbues you both with tremendous passion, inner strength, courage, vitality, energy, and enthusiasm for life. When these two are together, they motivate each other to excel, they push each other past each other’s comfort zones, they support each other and encourage each other. However, they can also be extremely competitive with one another, because they both seek to win above all else. If they are both in the same career path or share the same hobby, things can get ugly if they are aiming for the same prize.

The differences between Aries and Scorpio are significant. Although both of them have a short temper and you lose your patience easily, Aries tends to forgive and forget much more easily than Scorpio. When hurt or deceived, Scorpio tends to hold on to that hurt and will remember it forever. Scorpio has a tendency to hold a grudge and seek revenge. That’s why Aries has to be very careful with the words they use when talking to Scorpio. Both Aries and Scorpio have a tendency to say things they do not mean when they are angry, but that could lead to dreadful explosions.

Scorpio is likely to be more emotionally invested into the relationship than Aries first appears to be. Scorpio bonds deeply and intensely to the one they love, and Scorpio shows their devotion and appreciation for their partner by paying attention to the little things. Scorpio seeks the same care and affection in return, but because Aries is more action-oriented, they may not be as sentimental and emotional as Scorpio is, which could lead to a conflict in the way they both express their love. When Scorpio and Aries get in a fight, it becomes stormy, fiery, and explosive. It is advised for them both to partake in physical activities together to unleash their intensity and propensity to go to extremes.

Although Scorpio and Aries have somewhat contrasting approaches on life and love, they both share a love of passion, freedom, independence, adventure, and romance. If they are able to accept each other for who they are and not try to manipulate one another into changing, then they have great chances of experiencing a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

31 responses to “Scorpio & Aries

  1. This is so true for me and my Aries. We have been together for 8 years on and off and are finally getting married. We both had to learn to understand how each of us show and express love.

  2. I’m an Aries that’s head over heels for my Scorpio… we are on our second tour after a hiatus. The break included many transitions in life along with revealing gaps that could only be filled with a reconciliation…so here’s to round two… #playingforkeeps

    1. Round 2 for my Aries and I as well! We had a 6 month break and had zero expectation for even rekindling a friendship. I’m a typical Scorpio when it comes to not easily forgiving but as soon as we grabbed coffee, BOOM! SPARKS! We live in 2 different states and we have agreed to do our own things for the next 5 months until we decide whether or not we want each other intimately. If that is the case then that’s it! We’re done looking because our love is strong enough. Man I live my Aries and to think that I had such disdain for him 6 months prior.

  3. I’m just wondering if being a november 19th baby (first day of the cusp) makes a real difference on a romantic relationship? How does someone on the cusp really figure out when and where our characters cross the line from one sign to the other? Would a scorpio-sag get along more with an aries than a full breed (lol) scorpio?

    Thank you in advance! 🙂

    1. The cusps do not exist. That is just a gimmick from astrology sites. The sun cannot be in two signs at the same time. Is either one sign or the other but NOT both. The other reason that some astrology sites have dates overlapping as to when the sun leaves or enters one sign into the other is because some years the sun leaves a sign early in 20th of each month and other years it does it on the 21st. I’m a Gemini sun and Aries moon (June 20th) last degree Gemini so I understand the confusion. Lol the reason I’m here is because in Draconic Astrology I am a Scorpio sun, Virgo moon with Scorpio Venus…and my lover in DA is Aries sun, Capricorn moon, Aries venus.

      1. One of the firsts (and most intense and deep) love of my life was a Scorpio, and his birthday was the 19th. It was pretty textbook Aries/Scorpio, so I don’t think the cusp makes that much difference in this pairing. 🙂

  4. Me(scorpion) and my aries friend whenever we get into fight or debate or anything it is the aries who always takes down..he loses everytime with me…i nevr give up…so even he has accepted the fact to deal with scorpion is not an easy task! Bt he his my frnd and i care for him so i usualy try to keep my mouth shut and not getting in any disturbive conversation…bt then he starts and then u knw he always losses to me. 😀

  5. My kids father is a Aries and hell and fireworks was the words during an argument lol literally break out in fights because both are so head strong but the sex is amazing and the good times count but the bad out ways the good with this couple and that’s bad

  6. Break ups, other people/other relationships and jealousy is what marked my relationship with this man…and he was often look me and tell me that I deserves someone else,when I moved on he was so bitter and ugly to me. He even got another women pregnant to upset me and resentit, he had a nervous breakdown because I gave up on him. We even have a daughter together

    1. I’m a Scorpio I’m seeing an Aries. It’s fairly new, but it’s like I don’t know weather he hates me. Because one minute we’re speaking everything is OK and in a flash he won’t even say hello to me. I feel like I’m here for his benefit. I’m ready to get off this rollercoaster but something is pulling me towards him. What should I do

  7. Never knew where I stood with Scorpio man. Did not communicate, would say opposite of what he really felt. Lied many times answering sex ads behind my back. And today he is wondering why I walked away
    Obsessed with sex

    It has been 6 weeks and not one word from him. Don’t think he was sincere with all the sweet talk. Not even trying to get me back. That’s how cold he is.

  8. Never knew where I stood with Scorpio man. Did not communicate, would say opposite of what he really felt. Lied many times answering sex ads behind my back. And today he is wondering why I walked away
    Obsessed with sex

    It has been 6 weeks and not one word from him. Don’t think he was sincere with all the sweet talk. Not even trying to get me back. That’s how cold he is.

  9. So obviously it’s normal for this pair to break up and make up. From hiatus to on. I love my Aries so much and his actions show that he loves me too. But the part about different expressions of love is so true. The jealousy and suspicions run deep between us and causes conflict. We both unconsciously play games trying to protect our own feelings and egos. I just want this to work because for the first time I honestly feel like this is a soul attachment. Mind and heart.

  10. I’m a lesbian Hi….. I’m an ARIES mii girl is a scorpio… Our relationship started off crazy but we never gave up on each other… We learned over the months how to deal wit each other… I love her n trust her to the fullest because I no she’s loyal… We talk n txt all day… She super sensitive but I can deal, I can b kinda controlling but she let me be sometimes… She’s manipulated n demanding this I no but sometimes I let her have her way depending on the situation… We argue all couples do I argue back but I never let her gt under mii skin… To be honest it’s a turn on to me…. She’s mii headache n I love her bipolar ASS even tho she hit them nerves sometime LOL… (To me communicate,loyalty an space is the key to our relationship)

  11. True. I’m in love with an Aries and he hates to be tied down all he does is come in and tell me so many promises of how we can make this relationship work only to leave me time and time again. I guess I am the fool for sticking around waiting for him to prove what he once said to me will come to be. So now he doesn’t want me to bring up our relationship or have a talk about how I feel anymore…..I just need to let go but how do you let go when you love someone so much…………..

    1. Thanks for your comment Ashley. It helped me feel not so alone. I’ve been on/off with an aries guy for almost 8 years. He told me two weeks ago he didn’t want to make things work between us anymore. I know I deserve better than this and should move on. We both left eachother in the past and have resentments. I thought we’ve been through so much, I should wait for him to come back like I have in the past. The truth is, It’s really hard for scorpios to accept that their passionate, undying love is not recpriocated and move on. It only makes you want them more.
      Everyone deserves someone who loves them

    2. I’m a younger Aries female she’s a Scorpio almost doubled in my age. We’ve dated years ago, finding me again and we have rekindled. Scorpios will express how they feel but action is a little slow. Aries dont have time for games and those Scorpio secrets because we will move on. One minute we are really close and the next there is space between. One minute she’s falling hard and the next she is silent.

      1. I am an Aries female and my friend is a female Scorpio. She is older than me and I agree with you! I met my Scorpio years ago and just admired her from a far. I ran across her pic on a friends page and decided to reach out and let her know how attractive she was to me. 4 months later she hits me up and we began conversing from there. We hit it off instantly! My Scorpio was such a GENTLEWOMAN to me. She was sweet, romantic, attentive…had me head over heels for her….and then out of the blue… BOOM! She tells me she doesnt want to be more than friends b/c of unresolved issues with in her self and other secrets she didnt care to share with me. I cant lie..my heart was broken. She got me wide open and then dropped that bomb on me. Now, we agreed to be friends, but are still physically attracted to each other. But one thing ARIES does not have time for is the GAMES and WISHY-WASHY ways of Scorpio. When we are together, we have a FANTASTIC time together. When she is being moody or feeling standoffish, its okay for her but not for me. Its not fair! None the less, I am so drawn to her, but i feel like Im going to cut her off bc I dont have time for games. One minute she adores the shyt out of me…loving all up on me and the next she is missing in action. Silent. I won’t hear from her…

        1. Yea I wrote the comment above yours
          Yes games is what we don’t have time for. I’m Aries she’s a older Scorpio who obsessively found me. When we are together it’s great otherwise the communication is awful. i really like her but I don’t have time for the slow process I meet people and will move on quick.

  12. I think this Scorpio female that’s been in my life for about 5-6 years. Me and my close friend like a brother to me always talked to the same women. We would always talk to the same women, this Scorpio female we would both get at and kiss and do all kind of shit when we were younger. I really liked her but I liked multiple women at that time, and my brother only wanted this Scorpio woman, he just got out of a relationship so I stopped talking to her. And talked to other woman, until I went to 5150 and got out they ended up breaking up, so she called me as soon as they broke up the day I got out of 5150 so I hang out with her. And she was the only person I felt truly cared for me, I always had deep passionate feelings for her but I didn’t want to push my issue when she dated my brother, but me and this Scorpio chick started dating and she was one of my favorite females I ever hung out with in my life.

  13. As a Scorpions man I was in relationship with Aries girl for 6 years. I agree that as ascorpio I was more involved and would expect more from her.eventually she cheated me for another guy.since then I never called her to win back. I only said if you willing to destroy our 6 year relationship you better don’t cheat on him. Fuck man I wanted to destroy her but I acted so cold that she was nothing to me when I got to know she cheated on me.

  14. I’m an Aries and me and my fwb are not speaking after we had an argument and I dont want to, because right now I’m planning for revenge I hold grudges but it depends on who u are,but with him I’ve had ENOUGH!!
    I’m slashing tires tonight and won’t regret it😡

  15. we have meet with my aries girl now 4 months and today again we separete.biggest problem is that she want everything now and fast and i(scorpios) dont do things like that.so should i give her some space and just wait?

  16. Aries here. Scorpios are manipulative, liars, most of them unable to express their emotions, unwilling to compromise, cheaters. The list goes on. I happened to have been involved with a scorpio on and off for the last 3 years. Aside from the unbelieveable sex.. theres not much else to say between these 2 signs. Stear clear my fellow rams!

  17. Me and my Aries have been together 4 years. We’ve had a few short breaks in our relationship including one 7 month long breakup where I had moved on. It seemed though the more I tried to move on the more I kept thinking about him. After 7 months I finally decided to talk to him again and see if we could be friends. Well a month later we were living together and now 8months later of being back together we just hit our 4 year anniversary. Unfortunately I haven’t told him that I cheated on him recently. I know Aries can be forgiving but I don’t think I can tell him and I don’t want to lose him just yet. In the mean time I’ve been trying to figure out how to either make it work or move on. Because with him it seems like we always come back to eachother and he says the same. We have a very strong bond.

  18. Sag lack loyalty and commitment too much freedom gives them too many options and quickly find themselves in adulterous affairs and cheating..they bore easy because they are addicted to adventure always seeking the next high and when you’ve done all you can its never enough..this is the most self centered non communicative cheating weak sign there is..there loyalty is short term always hunting..addicted to the thrill of hunting..even when happy its never enough..I will never date or marry a sag again..lacks remorse and insensitive and lacks gratitude..married to one for 20 years..Scorpios are not clingy they just expect an equal amount of time invested in a relationship back..why short change any relationship regardless of your sign..

  19. Ive been married to an Aries man for almost a decade. Beautiful, passionate, full of life and love but soon turned sour. Battle after battle, power struggles, refusal to compromise, lying, betrayal, words that cut like knives and leave deep lasting wounds. It was a bloody war. And after that what is left? Sex? There is too much pain on both ends for that. Just silence for now until we can figure out whether or not this is still worth fighting for. Do I hate him? No. Do I regret my marriage? Never, i learned a lot from it. And despite everything I still wish him happiness even if we decide its not going to be with each other.

  20. I am an Aries. I know scorpion people are grudge holding people. But their minds can always be the playful nature of Aries. In short, turning the battle into friendship. This is the unique quality of an Aries. They may fight harder, but are also the initiators, the creators. Scorpios are mysterious, but the Aries are creative people.

    Sometimes being playful has its own advantages. The Aries know it the best.

  21. Deeply connected!
    They love life, fun, happiness, humanity, compassion, goodness and love.
    When together can be fun but major pain in each other’s arse. If separated, can not be ok with that, no matter what. Their love for each can never die no matter how far they are. If only they can be taught how to chanalise, appreciate and enjoy each other’s energy together fulfilling their own goals. They will bloom!!! Together forever!!

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