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Scorpio & Scorpio

Scorpio is a Fixed Water sign, and when two Scorpios enter a relationship, it is either heaven or hell, no in-between. These two were drawn together because of their undeniable magnetism. There is an electric current which seems to link two Scorpios together, and the passion they both have is undeniable. The potential downfall with a Scorpio-Scorpio relationship is that they are too similar, so the mind games they usually play with another signs won’t fly with their Scorpio partner. They both have the ability to see right through each other, down to each other’s soul. This fact either makes them either uncomfortable or very intrigued.

It is almost guaranteed that two Scorpios can become obsessed with one another and the way they make each other feel. Upon meeting, they probably felt like it was the first time someone understood them and could empathize with their feelings so well. They share a telepathic bond, and when one of either of them are not feeling well, the other immediately senses those frustrated feelings and will do anything to make them go away.

Scorpio is an all-or-nothing sign, so when these two love, they love with all of their hearts. And when they hate, they hate just as fiercely. This is why it is incredibly important for them both to beware during their arguments. They can both be very destructive with their words and may end up saying something they regret. As Scorpios, they are both very sensitive and do not forgive or forget easily, so if one or either of them harm each other verbally or emotionally, it may take a long time for them to get over such a setback.

The more positive these two are in this relationship, the greater of a chance that it will succeed. They feed off of each other’s energy, so they should keep it upbeat and transformative. There is a high chance that this relationship could become a lifelong commitment, such as marriage, because they both are not the type to engage in casual or short-term relationships. They both are in it for the long-haul. If they both decide to break down their tough walls and trust each other with their deep, dark secrets, their link will strengthen and deepen even more.

This is a relationship that will stand out for the rest. It will be memorable both for your stormy arguments and your passionate make-up sessions. They will challenge, push, and pressure one another to be the best they possibly can. They both want to be number 1 in all that they do, and that includes having the number 1 relationship. If these two choose to let their positive attributes (strong intuition, empathy for those in need, passionate and determined nature, loyalty, faithfulness, and their depth of character) overcome their negative attributes, then this placement will be one of the strongest pillars for a long-lasting and joyful partnership.

48 responses to “Scorpio & Scorpio

  1. Scorpio Mystique, I’ve been struggling to find any information on matching sun sign and rising sign relationships. My significant other and I are both Scorpios and our rising signs are both in Aquarius. I was wondering if this is rare, especially since there’s a 17 year age difference? I know our compatibility as Scorpios alone is rough, but does matching ascendant signs mean anything in conjunction?
    I figured you might have a bit more insight since you are the Scorpio expert.
    Thank you in advance.
    -Marie

    1. I’d have to see both of your entire natal charts to best analyze, but yes, I think that Rising signs have a large impact on compatibility, and it seems that you two having the same Sun and same Rising signs can have a positive effect, but it will also increase the inflexibility and stubbornness. You two get each other really well, so use that knowledge to enhance your relationship and avoid playing mind games or trying to manipulate one another. Since there is an age difference, you two have different generational planets and this can help you learn from one another.

    2. That’s crazy. I am in this long distance relationship with a Scorpio male who is 13 years older than me! His birthday is Nov 20th mine is 19th. We are super similar down to even the most simplest of things. We finish each other’s sentences, although I’m the talker and he is more of the listener. He is attentive,compassionate, and gentle natured. We met at a show he was playing on his birthday and we haven’t stopped texting,talking etc since. Every. Single. Day. And there’s always that sex aspect in there somehow 😉 haha ! Duh!
      He is coming back at the end of this month to see me which is amazing but I don’t know how to anticipate it. I have read 2017 is supposed to be our year but I’ve had so many bad things happen and heartbreak in 2016 I don’t wanna get my hopes up. He lives in Sweden … I go to school here and have some other legal things I have to do but we are so determined to do this it’s crazy. I just don’t know about Scorpio males and what to expect because I know it’s a little different from Scorpio girls.ugh!

  2. Scorpio Mystique. Just recently was broken up with by my male Scorpio. Our birthday was five days apart. What went wrong and how can I obtain a couple birth chart readin? I’d like to know if it’s possible to mend this or if I should give up entirely. As you said, our connection was strong, but something went wrong at some point. I don’t have closure.

  3. My lover and I are both Scorps, and there’s a 16-year age difference between us. In the time we’ve known each other, he has not been able to free himself of his less-than-sparkling past. How can I help him learn to forgive himself so that we can both move forward in positiive ways? Thanks

    1. This is my exact situation, he thinks I judge him for it and then creates a destructive self hate and story. The only thing that really helped him was to tell him everything is from now on, that we were now and forever and that’s all I cared about

  4. i met a Scorpio man when i was 18 and we had a a whirlwind of a time. just recently we hook back up both a little older and wiser. i’m trying to figure out if any other Scorpio relationships are as intense as ours.

    we argue like cats and dogs over petty things but kiss and make up seconds later
    every time we go out people always comment how we are an “attractive couple”
    he’s the most passionate lover I’ve ever had in my life, and simple kiss me to turn me on
    he’ll bite my neck in public and say some explicit stuff and then as soon a we get in the car his hand is up my skirt

    its stuff like that, that makes me wonder if any other Scorpio woman has a Scorpio man who does the same

    1. Yes! I know what you mean. I’m a Scorpio cusp and so is he.. And we generally get along very well, we both have the steamiest time together and he does simple things that turn me on too that not just anyone can do. We can’t stop fucking. Lol.

    2. We are both Scorpios. This has been the most intense 11 years of our lives. We have put each other through hell and back but the passion is exactly the same but better than when we met…

    3. I experience the same thing with my Scorpio love. I’m a Scorpio as well. My heart and soul seem like its connected to him

    4. Yes. A very similar story. We met when we were younger. I have always describes our sexual relationship that everyone should have at least once. We lost connection but recently reconnected. We have gone out dates, but the adult relationship was more laid back and without sex, but flirtatiously. We both recognized we were interested in furthering our relationship, but not willing to risk our friendship for sex. We were both involved in other relationships. I told him to let me know when he was out of his current relationship and we could explore something more serious. Over a year later, he called and blatantly stated his relationship was over for about two months and he was interested in my offer. We have dated about a month and a half now with sex added. We get along very well. There seems to be a mutual respect for our invisible boundaries, not that they are truly hidden boundaries…more like we feel them and act instinctually not to provoke issues. I was looking up Scorpio-Scorpio relationships, we share the same birthday with him being older by 5years. We found that Nick and Vanessa Lachey share the same birthdays as we have.

    5. Oh my u described me and my Scorpio man to a T ! The heat the passion the intensity it’s intoxicating , we can’t get enough of each other , cuddling all night regardless if it’s too warm and lovemaking doesn’t just start in the bedroom , it starts as soon as he calls me , in the car , in the driveway working our way up to the bedroom or pretty much anywhere we end up in the house lol, we have the same birthday too November 11 , wow everything about us is intense , intense feelings and we can read each other , we got each other’s back , you have more respect of one another I think especially with me since I sommuch understand him and where he is coming from as if he is me and I am him because he is so much like me that if we have disagreements and arguments I always try to put my feet in his shoes on what would I do then BAM it’s clear to me he’s just the same as I am and therefore I need to understand him and trust him as much as I trust myself . There’s no relationship I ever had that came close to this none , it’s like out of this world and that’s not even an exaggeration , I’m sure Scorpio to Scorpio can attest to this

    6. Yes ok what your talking about I’m a Scorpio women with a scorpio men there’s a 9 year dif between us and he’s the same way he’s always rubbing my butt or kissing all over me or sticking his hands down places when we’re alone or no ones watching when we’re alone he will even pick me up and just start kissing me out of no where we rarely argue or fight and when we do next thing I’ll know is I’m being picked up and token off to the bed room Lmfao we are soon to be married and I absolutely love him couldn’t image my life with out him!

  5. I’ve dated several Scorpio men it seems like I’m a magnet for them…as you said. I love Scorpio men and am still friends with the guys that I dated til this day and that was twenty or more years ago. The emotional bond is life long. Lately I’ve experienced an emotional relationship with a Scorpio man that has a strong telepathic connection with me.

  6. Dear scorpio mystique as you are an expert in the case of scorpios I would like to ask my question from you.
    I am an scorpio man and I was born on 17 november 1993 and I am in love with a scorpio woman born on 25 october 1984 I wanted to know what is our situation in the chart and what should we do to make our relationship much more successful.

      1. No way because my saturn squares her moon extreamly.
        So!Dear rose why do you think that she would treat me like a baby ?

        1. We have the exact same birthday as well as the year, khnb.
          I think what rose meant was that since she is older and when arguments come up, she will think she knows best because she has more experience than you do since you are younger. And we all know we like to be in control whether we admit it or not.

          1. You really love your sister dear.
            Angela
            Thats the reason you always use her name 🙂
            I can feel your heartbeat from thousands of miles.Wish I could be with you at this moment darling.
            Yeah My Saturn Squares my Sun and Pluto and respectively your moon !
            But your moon will help the Sun and Pluto eager to come and catch you at the right moment.
            Plus,Doesn’t Matter ! you can be the boss 😀

    1. I have to disagree, I’m in almost the same situation, husband is November 3, 1988 and I am November 1, 1980 amd we have a very balanced and successful relationship. We rarely fight and never seriously. We respect eachother and are equal partners and each persons feelings and opinions are taken into consideration.

  7. Im a scorpio woman dated a Scorp guy for two years I now understand why a Scorp man should mate for life Once hurt they just N.E.V.E.R let go of the past and you will be paying forever for what somebody else did to them! They just never let go or move on…They wil make your life hell Scorp men can burn down a whole forest with the passion they carry inside For sure ! Great fun to start a relationship with unfortuanatly that fire is killed before it reaches the first tree by mindgames, EMOTIONAL DRAMA, manupilation, being negative, the list goes on forever!! Scorp + Hurt Scorp = HELL ON EARTH!!

  8. I am a scorpio man and she is as am I. She had many secrets but why i ask her she just keeps me saying i will telĺ you later.Does she do becAuse she didnt trust me as i do? Its make me f**king annoyed

  9. He is Ismail from Istanbul born on 1/11/1978 and I m Tiamis born on 1/11/1977, Tirana, Albania. It was a big big love and also lots of fights…but after every fight was like we loved each other more. We did fight on 12 th of February:(. I m trying to make up. But he doesn’t want… he said me I love you very much but… my heart is broken

  10. so much love, so much pain… When two scorpios don’t have great relationship with themselves, they can’t be together even if they know they’ve found their soul sister… Together they have so much power that no other zodiac combination can create.

  11. My partner and I are both scorpios, we are on a LDR, but when we are together the connection is very strong. When we have sex it is like something out of this world. I’ve never experience anything like this with anyone. We are so connected. We never argue, we have important conversations. We are very similar to one another, neither of us like to be clingy. We talk a couple of times per month, and see each other six times per year. I don’t have any questions, I just want to tell you how connected we are. I think our connection is stronger because we are both scorpios. We talk about our sexual experiences, we feel the same way about the strong feeling with get with each other.

  12. Scorpio and Scorpio is the most intense relationship ever. I am now married to my scorpio man after meeting 7 years ago and marrying 2 years ago.. We probably broke up 30+ times. I agree with all the comments about it being heaven or hell. We are both extremely stubborn and fighting for control of our environment and the relationship itself. We are cosmically tangled, feeling similar emotions when we were states apart. It’s like the smallest scent of him, gaze or smile will just cause a rush of emotions and memories that pull me closer to him-it’s really hard to explain unless you’ve been there. Careful though, when a Scorpio man feels deceived he will internalize his emotions and they will burst out periodically leaving the Scorpio woman confused and unable to respond rationally and effectively. I have never said such mean things to someone I care for so deeply and I’m sure it’s the same for him. We’ve been happily married for almost 2 years. However now things from the past are haunting us and it’s really hard to move past our mistakes and remorse. These past mistakes or misunderstandings are from our break up and make up period of 3 years, I thought we were past it but I guess not. How do you patch up the trust when you can’t pin point where it went wrong because it’s an ongoing feeling someone has of you? It’s extremely possessive, I can’t even look at another guy in the eyes too long or else he thinks I’m flirting and I’m not even a big flirt. HELP!

  13. Hello hope this thread still works.was martied to nov.2 scorpio for 23 years, divorced now.Met another scorpio male, 2nd November too!I am October 24 female.although i hardly know this man i am pursuing him.He may come visit me as he moved out of area.I think he may be soulmate.Your thoughts?
    Thank you.

  14. I have had lots of relationships but this one is diffrent we are both Scorpios
    11-15-03. This is his
    11-18-03. This is mine
    We love each other with all of our heart’s and refuse to let each other go. We have been through our ups and downs, but what couple hasent? People keep saying we are not going to be together forever….but we have faith and won’t back down. From what I’ve reserched Scorpios never give up no matter what happens. So we keep standing beside each other no matter what happens, and other people should to.

  15. I am a Scorpio girl and I’ve met this Scorpio guy since freshman year in high school, he always followed me around and tell me that he likes me. I didn’t like it at all at first but for some reason he was the only one that understood me as a friend. I shared many secrets with him and we were extremely close. But occasionally I would be annoyed by him and say hurtful things to him and ignore him for long periods of time. Yet, he was still always there for me. I am confused to this day as to why he had always been there for me because I was a crazy bitch. Now a university student, he continued to be there for me but his presence changed, he became more attractive to me. At first I doubted myself that I really like him but eventually figured out that I do like him. We are happily dating now~!

  16. Ive also had lots of relationships…none as intense as this one….felt like we were a mirror image of eachother…we are broken up at the moment..but id give anything to have him in my arms right now…his birthday is October 26th 1973…mine is November 13th 1973…18 days apart…i love him with all my heart and soul….we still talk…we still get together from time to time…i cant let go of him…BUT HE PLAYS WITH MY MIND…what do i do??? He absolutely drives me crazy….is our bond stronger than a normal relationship cause were so close in birthdays????

  17. I met my scorpio girl in jr high. We stayed together for two years broke up for six months because parents said we to young. We got back together for two more years. I graduated making plans for college and marriage. She broke it off so she could have a relationship her sr. Year. We ran into each other one reunion. We pickup like it was yesterday. I walked away. We met others and married. Forty years later I still love her. This is crazy right no one else knows this but me. Love hate control relationships.

  18. Dear scorpio mystique,
    I am an scorpio woman and I was born on 11 November 1998 and I am in love with a scorpio man was born also on 11 November 1995 I wanted to know what is our situation in the chart.
    Thank you in advance

  19. I am in love with a Scorpio man. We shared the same birthday November 9. I’m 21 years old and he is 23. My star sign is a acquaries and his star sign is a Taurus. Are we meant to be? This guy was my first and I love him so much . No matter what we go through we always find a way to come back together. Please help I need answer!

  20. Hello scorpios !!
    We are both scorpios I am born on the 8th November 1963 and he’s born on 07th November 1990 huge age difference 26 years but he tells me that he doesn’t feel that there is a difference and it is surprising for me. our connection is very intense and I guess when the souls are connected the age fades away universal love , I love him dearly and I am setting him free when we meet we enjoy each other and live the moment .all I care about is seeing him happy with or without me.
    In life worries shouldn’t exist make of every moment your last moment who cares about the past and why should we worry about the future if you do then you will never enjoy the moment. Let go open the universe door and see what it brings and take every chance to experience all moments this is what makes you who you are.always think what is next for me to live .we are not here in this planet to be with only one person. Any one who comes in your life will teach you something till you reach the maturity and wisdom
    Enjoy life.if there was no sadness how can we enjoy happiness
    God created everything with its opposite
    Night/day
    Light/dark
    Happ/sad …….and the list goes on
    We are here to play so play life and the most important thing is to love your self first to be able to love everyone and everything
    LOVE is the key to happiness

  21. Forty plus years ago I said ‘I love you’ to my other Scorpio half but I exploded like a yellow sun when she said she wanted to leave. Yes then Scorpios go to the depths grieving their loss.

    ‘And when I go away
    I know my heart can stay with my love
    It’s understood, it’s in the hands of my love
    And my love does it good

    And when the cupboard’s bare
    I’ll still find somethin’ there with my love
    It’s understood, it’s everywhere with my love
    And my love does it good’

    How so after all the years. I hope she has got on. I wonder where she is. What she’s doing. How is her life? Does she remember ‘my love? I wonder if she keeps looking in the ‘cupboard’ as I do after all the years.

  22. I am female Scorpio born November 10, 1979. I have dated several Scorpio men over the years. One of the most passionate and intense relationships I’ve experienced was with a Scorpio man born November 2, 1983. I never felt so in love we fell hard and fast I thought he was my forever. After proposing marriage and getting me pregnant he cheated on me and left me three months pregnant. I haven’t seen his face since he packed his stuff and left I was 4 months along at the time. He has never even seen his son (by his own choice) and our baby is 14 months old. He was all of the negative traits of a Scorpio not evolved one bit. In turn I stared seeing another Scorpio man about 11 months ago and our relationship is long distance. He is polar opposite of my X. His bday is November 17, 1983. He is so loving selfless and kind. We talk every day several times a day and have never had an argument just minor disagreements. He has shown me how wonderful a Scorpio man can be after I experienced the worst of the worst. I say this where a Scorpio is in their evolution process and what decan they are born under makes a huge difference in their behavior and personality.

  23. About “Telepathic bond”: is it for sure both! or it can be in single side?
    I’ve had many situations for her pain. Last one i got heart attack. Doc got puzzled there wasn’t any reason behind my heart attack! it’s her trouble reflected on me again. She knows I feel whenever she get something “wrong”. She never told me before she got that “hyper sensitive feelings”.
    I reached death for someone else situation. Is it fair not to tell her that “telepathic bond” is impacting someone else life? Does she feel the same thing?!

  24. im a pisces woman in love with a scorpio man that fell in love with me when i was fresh out of a bad relationship.
    I told him it was too soon for me to commit but I would like to remain friends and lovers and we had.
    Then he met a scorpio woman and now they are dating and “in love” but he still fools around with me until I finally said no more.

    I want to wait for them to implode. Then I would like a chance with the Scorpio man again.

    Who would be better for a Scorpio male? A pisces or a scorpio female?

  25. Venus, both r perfect for scorpion. u may need to check Chinese compatibility between you & her with him.
    Age range plays its main role: 27 – 33 is maturing experiences, 41 – 50 ~~
    Less than 25 ain’t influential unless relation continues for couple of yrs

  26. Ive enjoyed reading everyone’s experiences, so I guess Ill add mine 🙂
    I’ve been married 1 year to a Scorpio man (dated total 11yrs now though) and we are only 21hrs age difference! Our birth chart is literally everything the same. (Risings are Aquarius and Moons are Aries)
    Our relationship is totally all or nothing. He does have a flip opposite personality too (ISTJ/ENFP) and it makes for a lot of frustration because we are hardly on the same page or energy level at the same time. BUT! We have so much common, especially interests so no matter what we do, we can find enjoyment in it. He is very sexually powered, but somehow Im not? I thought Scorpios were supposed to be intense in that way. I mean, I guess we are. We bring a lot of stubborn emotion into play time and arguments. We REALLY have to be careful about the things we say. But, our loyalty and lifetimr promises are strong. Our desire to better ourselves for each other (although never changes) is the drive that keeps us together and in love. 🙂

  27. I am a Scorpio and have fell for a Scorpio woman but she has a boyfriend who is also a Scorpio.They recently broke up but before I could tell her how I felt they where back together again.We work together so we see each other a lot and have become like best friends but I no there’s something more with the way she looks at me and how we act around each other and it’s plain obviously to the other people we work with too.I am told her boyfriend doesn’t treat her right and is controlling but they are both the same age and have been together for four years where as I am ten years older.I don’t want to break them up but I want to no if there’s any chance I mean most people say they will change then go back to the the way they where before so are they likely to break up again? She broke up with him before they got back together.

  28. My birthday is 11-18-1981 and his is 11-20-1982 the bond is so strong but still I do want to know if our dates is compatible. Scorpio is scorpio loyalty is undeniable, but still there are some factors. Can you check on us please, thank you.

  29. I’ve just recently started talking to a Scorpio male and we instantly wooed over each other and blasted off talking like we’ve known each other for years we are both born the same year but he was born the 8 and I the 12 do you believe it could work?

  30. My relationship is going not so great. He’s distant and shows no emotion. As a Scorpio I only get like this when I’m not interested. He tells me I need to be patient. Patience what is that? I can’t tell if I’m wasting my time or not. When we’re apart I hate it because I have no idea what’s going on with him. It drives my emotional ass mad. When physically together he’s still distant but telepathically I know he’s there. This relationship is confusing. I can’t tell if he’s truly down, playing a game, or bored. I don’t like giving up and that maybe the only reason I’m still around (excluding the astonishing sex and arousment from his intellect).

  31. Recently started new flame we are both Scorpios his is November, 10th and im the 11th I have no questions.
    I’m just in love with him the connection is great and the vibes are phenomenal

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