Scorpio is a Fixed Water sign, and when two Scorpios enter a relationship, it is either heaven or hell, no in-between. These two were drawn together because of their undeniable magnetism. There is an electric current that seems to link two Scorpios together, and the passion they both have is undeniable. The potential downfall with a Scorpio-Scorpio relationship is that they are too similar, so the mind games they usually play with other signs won’t fly with their Scorpio partner. They both have the ability to see right through each other, down to each other’s soul. This fact either makes them either uncomfortable or very intrigued.
It is almost guaranteed that two Scorpios can become obsessed with one another and the way they make each other feel. Upon meeting, they probably felt like it was the first time someone understood them and could empathize with their feelings so well. They share a telepathic bond, and when either of them is not feeling well, the other immediately senses those frustrating feelings and will do anything to make them go away.
Scorpio is an all-or-nothing sign, so when these two love, they love with all of their hearts. And when they hate, they hate just as fiercely. This is why it is incredibly important for them both to beware in the midst of their arguments. They can both be very destructive with their words and may end up saying something they regret. As Scorpios, they are both very sensitive and do not forgive or forget easily, so if one or either of them harms each other verbally or emotionally, it may take a long time for them to get over such a setback.
The more positive these two are in this relationship, the greater of a chance that it will succeed. They feed off of each other’s energy, so they should keep it upbeat and transformative. There is a high chance that this relationship could become a lifelong commitment, such as marriage because they both are not the type to engage in casual or short-term relationships. They both are in it for the long-haul. If they both decide to break down their tough walls and trust each other with their deep, dark secrets, their link will strengthen and deepen even more.
This is a relationship that will stand out for the rest. It will be memorable both for your stormy arguments and your passionate make-up sessions. They will challenge, push, and pressure one another to be the best they possibly can. They both want to be number one in all that they do, and that includes having the number one relationship. If these two choose to let their positive attributes (strong intuition, empathy for those in need, passionate and determined nature, loyalty, faithfulness, and their depth of character) overcome their negative attributes, then this placement will be one of the strongest pillars for a long-lasting and joyful partnership.
Scorpio Mystique, I’ve been struggling to find any information on matching sun sign and rising sign relationships. My significant other and I are both Scorpios and our rising signs are both in Aquarius. I was wondering if this is rare, especially since there’s a 17 year age difference? I know our compatibility as Scorpios alone is rough, but does matching ascendant signs mean anything in conjunction?
I figured you might have a bit more insight since you are the Scorpio expert.
Thank you in advance.
-Marie
I’d have to see both of your entire natal charts to best analyze, but yes, I think that Rising signs have a large impact on compatibility, and it seems that you two having the same Sun and same Rising signs can have a positive effect, but it will also increase the inflexibility and stubbornness. You two get each other really well, so use that knowledge to enhance your relationship and avoid playing mind games or trying to manipulate one another. Since there is an age difference, you two have different generational planets and this can help you learn from one another.
Ok me I am keeping secrets and I still get over my male counterpart I and he is not Scorpios 2 days apart know each other for 11 years. Broke up we regret it and we still talk Even though.
Typo can’t get over. And are both Scorpio. My phone is almost broken.
um hi …in my relationship we are both scorpio’s and from what I have just read to be honest its all true and its really happening right now between us…like the part that said we must watch what we are saying I wish I have done that because it’s like I can’t get back what I had between us…We are still together but the link is kind of a set back…To what I said to him I don’t know how to fix it …I cry day and night due to how I feel towards him….I really love my bf only God alone can tell how my love for him; We have our up’s and down’s but we have never yet been like this and I’m here to say that a scorpio and scorpio relationship is very strong that u might even think of giving up your life for that person….I need help on how to re-gain back my relationship please!!!
That’s crazy. I am in this long distance relationship with a Scorpio male who is 13 years older than me! His birthday is Nov 20th mine is 19th. We are super similar down to even the most simplest of things. We finish each other’s sentences, although I’m the talker and he is more of the listener. He is attentive,compassionate, and gentle natured. We met at a show he was playing on his birthday and we haven’t stopped texting,talking etc since. Every. Single. Day. And there’s always that sex aspect in there somehow 😉 haha ! Duh!
He is coming back at the end of this month to see me which is amazing but I don’t know how to anticipate it. I have read 2017 is supposed to be our year but I’ve had so many bad things happen and heartbreak in 2016 I don’t wanna get my hopes up. He lives in Sweden … I go to school here and have some other legal things I have to do but we are so determined to do this it’s crazy. I just don’t know about Scorpio males and what to expect because I know it’s a little different from Scorpio girls.ugh!
YOU HAVE TO LEAVE HIM. HE IS JUST USING YOU. IM HIS SOULMATE SORRY DOLLLFACE!
AND STAY AWAY OR DIE LOL- IM A DEADLY SCORPIO
The best relationship I have ever had, we were both born in November 20, my rising ascending star is Gemini and he was Aquarius, we were in long distance for 6 years until he passed away suddenly 💔 last September, we were 29 years apart but I can never forget how I felt with him, even conversations with him sometimes feel like orgasms🙈 may he rest in peace forever i still haven’t heal from his passing he was really my soul mate I doubt I will ever find someone like him ever again
I have a question, I am an scorpio date of 26 of October and interested in an scorpio also date of 27 of October. Do you think is a good idea for us to get involved! I can’t get satisfaction from so far relationships I had and I need a bit of storm in my life as I don’t mind it and I know how to balance it when it does happen. The reason I’m asking is that I want to know the Pacific’s to do with our personality as I’m not sure from what I’ve been told each scorpio has a different planet and I still can’t seem to understand it well and I have done many research and yet so confused some say mars and Pluto and Venus and some say Pluto I don’t really know what planet is in our dates of birth chart if that makes seance.
Many thanks,
Elham
Scorpio Mystique. Just recently was broken up with by my male Scorpio. Our birthday was five days apart. What went wrong and how can I obtain a couple birth chart readin? I’d like to know if it’s possible to mend this or if I should give up entirely. As you said, our connection was strong, but something went wrong at some point. I don’t have closure.
My lover and I are both Scorps, and there’s a 16-year age difference between us. In the time we’ve known each other, he has not been able to free himself of his less-than-sparkling past. How can I help him learn to forgive himself so that we can both move forward in positiive ways? Thanks
This is my exact situation, he thinks I judge him for it and then creates a destructive self hate and story. The only thing that really helped him was to tell him everything is from now on, that we were now and forever and that’s all I cared about
i met a Scorpio man when i was 18 and we had a a whirlwind of a time. just recently we hook back up both a little older and wiser. i’m trying to figure out if any other Scorpio relationships are as intense as ours.
we argue like cats and dogs over petty things but kiss and make up seconds later
every time we go out people always comment how we are an “attractive couple”
he’s the most passionate lover I’ve ever had in my life, and simple kiss me to turn me on
he’ll bite my neck in public and say some explicit stuff and then as soon a we get in the car his hand is up my skirt
its stuff like that, that makes me wonder if any other Scorpio woman has a Scorpio man who does the same
Yes! I know what you mean. I’m a Scorpio cusp and so is he.. And we generally get along very well, we both have the steamiest time together and he does simple things that turn me on too that not just anyone can do. We can’t stop fucking. Lol.
We are both Scorpios. This has been the most intense 11 years of our lives. We have put each other through hell and back but the passion is exactly the same but better than when we met…
This one over here !!!!!!;) this Scorpio women loves her Scorpio man!
I experience the same thing with my Scorpio love. I’m a Scorpio as well. My heart and soul seem like its connected to him
Yes. A very similar story. We met when we were younger. I have always describes our sexual relationship that everyone should have at least once. We lost connection but recently reconnected. We have gone out dates, but the adult relationship was more laid back and without sex, but flirtatiously. We both recognized we were interested in furthering our relationship, but not willing to risk our friendship for sex. We were both involved in other relationships. I told him to let me know when he was out of his current relationship and we could explore something more serious. Over a year later, he called and blatantly stated his relationship was over for about two months and he was interested in my offer. We have dated about a month and a half now with sex added. We get along very well. There seems to be a mutual respect for our invisible boundaries, not that they are truly hidden boundaries…more like we feel them and act instinctually not to provoke issues. I was looking up Scorpio-Scorpio relationships, we share the same birthday with him being older by 5years. We found that Nick and Vanessa Lachey share the same birthdays as we have.
Oh my u described me and my Scorpio man to a T ! The heat the passion the intensity it’s intoxicating , we can’t get enough of each other , cuddling all night regardless if it’s too warm and lovemaking doesn’t just start in the bedroom , it starts as soon as he calls me , in the car , in the driveway working our way up to the bedroom or pretty much anywhere we end up in the house lol, we have the same birthday too November 11 , wow everything about us is intense , intense feelings and we can read each other , we got each other’s back , you have more respect of one another I think especially with me since I sommuch understand him and where he is coming from as if he is me and I am him because he is so much like me that if we have disagreements and arguments I always try to put my feet in his shoes on what would I do then BAM it’s clear to me he’s just the same as I am and therefore I need to understand him and trust him as much as I trust myself . There’s no relationship I ever had that came close to this none , it’s like out of this world and that’s not even an exaggeration , I’m sure Scorpio to Scorpio can attest to this
OMG. YES YES AND JUST YESSSS!!!! Our birthdays are November 17th. (my sister’s birthday is the 11th lol) but..I’ve had a crush on this guy for 1.5yrs now, the entire time he’s had the same feelings for me. Part of the way through we found out that we shared the same birthday, but since I was in a committed relationship at the time (that was slowly falling apart) we never spoke to each other about our feelings and kept things professional.
After the relationship ended…we both came clean to one another. And when he touches me it feels like an electrical current runs through my entire body. He’s mentioned that for him it feels like he wants to become part of me, almost as though touching me isn’t enough, like mending our minds in one is closer to describing the urge. It’s the most intense physical connection we have EVER experienced in our lives thus far.
And it’s true, it can start with just a message…or a phone call or if we’re in the same room I can smell him from numerous feet away. Our heads get fuzzy when we’re around each other and cuddling never seems like long enough. He’s never enjoyed sleeping up against someone at night, but together it feels..perfect. Everything feels so incredibly right- there’s no other way to describe it. It’s not just physical. Our brains line up well, he knows what I’m thinking without me even speaking and vice versa. We just..understand each other to an extent that neither of us have experienced before.
Normally there’s a seedling of doubt or a running thought in my head when I’m with someone, with him there’s nothing. It’s as though we’re two pieces from a puzzle, it feels..so right.
Yes ok what your talking about I’m a Scorpio women with a scorpio men there’s a 9 year dif between us and he’s the same way he’s always rubbing my butt or kissing all over me or sticking his hands down places when we’re alone or no ones watching when we’re alone he will even pick me up and just start kissing me out of no where we rarely argue or fight and when we do next thing I’ll know is I’m being picked up and token off to the bed room Lmfao we are soon to be married and I absolutely love him couldn’t image my life with out him!
Typical scorpio/ scorpio relationship we’re arguing like we will kill each other for 1 minute and then we make out like nothing happened the minute after and sex and passion is volcanoes eruption
Enjoy every second hun
I’ve dated several Scorpio men it seems like I’m a magnet for them…as you said. I love Scorpio men and am still friends with the guys that I dated til this day and that was twenty or more years ago. The emotional bond is life long. Lately I’ve experienced an emotional relationship with a Scorpio man that has a strong telepathic connection with me.
Dear scorpio mystique as you are an expert in the case of scorpios I would like to ask my question from you.
I am an scorpio man and I was born on 17 november 1993 and I am in love with a scorpio woman born on 25 october 1984 I wanted to know what is our situation in the chart and what should we do to make our relationship much more successful.
Not going to work, she will treat you like a baby. She will always be in control.
No way because my saturn squares her moon extreamly.
So!Dear rose why do you think that she would treat me like a baby ?
We have the exact same birthday as well as the year, khnb.
I think what rose meant was that since she is older and when arguments come up, she will think she knows best because she has more experience than you do since you are younger. And we all know we like to be in control whether we admit it or not.
You really love your sister dear.
Angela
Thats the reason you always use her name 🙂
I can feel your heartbeat from thousands of miles.Wish I could be with you at this moment darling.
Yeah My Saturn Squares my Sun and Pluto and respectively your moon !
But your moon will help the Sun and Pluto eager to come and catch you at the right moment.
Plus,Doesn’t Matter ! you can be the boss 😀
I have to disagree, I’m in almost the same situation, husband is November 3, 1988 and I am November 1, 1980 amd we have a very balanced and successful relationship. We rarely fight and never seriously. We respect eachother and are equal partners and each persons feelings and opinions are taken into consideration.
Well our natal charts are very aligned.
And Thats the reason I Know that we belong to each others.
I’m 1994 November 17th, on the verge of dating a guy who is 1991 November 17th! Eeee, how did it go for you?
Im a scorpio woman dated a Scorp guy for two years I now understand why a Scorp man should mate for life Once hurt they just N.E.V.E.R let go of the past and you will be paying forever for what somebody else did to them! They just never let go or move on…They wil make your life hell Scorp men can burn down a whole forest with the passion they carry inside For sure ! Great fun to start a relationship with unfortuanatly that fire is killed before it reaches the first tree by mindgames, EMOTIONAL DRAMA, manupilation, being negative, the list goes on forever!! Scorp + Hurt Scorp = HELL ON EARTH!!
I am a scorpio man and she is as am I. She had many secrets but why i ask her she just keeps me saying i will telĺ you later.Does she do becAuse she didnt trust me as i do? Its make me f**king annoyed
He is Ismail from Istanbul born on 1/11/1978 and I m Tiamis born on 1/11/1977, Tirana, Albania. It was a big big love and also lots of fights…but after every fight was like we loved each other more. We did fight on 12 th of February:(. I m trying to make up. But he doesn’t want… he said me I love you very much but… my heart is broken
so much love, so much pain… When two scorpios don’t have great relationship with themselves, they can’t be together even if they know they’ve found their soul sister… Together they have so much power that no other zodiac combination can create.
I agree with you 100%
My partner and I are both scorpios, we are on a LDR, but when we are together the connection is very strong. When we have sex it is like something out of this world. I’ve never experience anything like this with anyone. We are so connected. We never argue, we have important conversations. We are very similar to one another, neither of us like to be clingy. We talk a couple of times per month, and see each other six times per year. I don’t have any questions, I just want to tell you how connected we are. I think our connection is stronger because we are both scorpios. We talk about our sexual experiences, we feel the same way about the strong feeling with get with each other.
Scorpio and Scorpio is the most intense relationship ever. I am now married to my scorpio man after meeting 7 years ago and marrying 2 years ago.. We probably broke up 30+ times. I agree with all the comments about it being heaven or hell. We are both extremely stubborn and fighting for control of our environment and the relationship itself. We are cosmically tangled, feeling similar emotions when we were states apart. It’s like the smallest scent of him, gaze or smile will just cause a rush of emotions and memories that pull me closer to him-it’s really hard to explain unless you’ve been there. Careful though, when a Scorpio man feels deceived he will internalize his emotions and they will burst out periodically leaving the Scorpio woman confused and unable to respond rationally and effectively. I have never said such mean things to someone I care for so deeply and I’m sure it’s the same for him. We’ve been happily married for almost 2 years. However now things from the past are haunting us and it’s really hard to move past our mistakes and remorse. These past mistakes or misunderstandings are from our break up and make up period of 3 years, I thought we were past it but I guess not. How do you patch up the trust when you can’t pin point where it went wrong because it’s an ongoing feeling someone has of you? It’s extremely possessive, I can’t even look at another guy in the eyes too long or else he thinks I’m flirting and I’m not even a big flirt. HELP!
Hello hope this thread still works.was martied to nov.2 scorpio for 23 years, divorced now.Met another scorpio male, 2nd November too!I am October 24 female.although i hardly know this man i am pursuing him.He may come visit me as he moved out of area.I think he may be soulmate.Your thoughts?
Thank you.
I have had lots of relationships but this one is diffrent we are both Scorpios
11-15-03. This is his
11-18-03. This is mine
We love each other with all of our heart’s and refuse to let each other go. We have been through our ups and downs, but what couple hasent? People keep saying we are not going to be together forever….but we have faith and won’t back down. From what I’ve reserched Scorpios never give up no matter what happens. So we keep standing beside each other no matter what happens, and other people should to.
I am a Scorpio girl and I’ve met this Scorpio guy since freshman year in high school, he always followed me around and tell me that he likes me. I didn’t like it at all at first but for some reason he was the only one that understood me as a friend. I shared many secrets with him and we were extremely close. But occasionally I would be annoyed by him and say hurtful things to him and ignore him for long periods of time. Yet, he was still always there for me. I am confused to this day as to why he had always been there for me because I was a crazy bitch. Now a university student, he continued to be there for me but his presence changed, he became more attractive to me. At first I doubted myself that I really like him but eventually figured out that I do like him. We are happily dating now~!
Ive also had lots of relationships…none as intense as this one….felt like we were a mirror image of eachother…we are broken up at the moment..but id give anything to have him in my arms right now…his birthday is October 26th 1973…mine is November 13th 1973…18 days apart…i love him with all my heart and soul….we still talk…we still get together from time to time…i cant let go of him…BUT HE PLAYS WITH MY MIND…what do i do??? He absolutely drives me crazy….is our bond stronger than a normal relationship cause were so close in birthdays????
I met my scorpio girl in jr high. We stayed together for two years broke up for six months because parents said we to young. We got back together for two more years. I graduated making plans for college and marriage. She broke it off so she could have a relationship her sr. Year. We ran into each other one reunion. We pickup like it was yesterday. I walked away. We met others and married. Forty years later I still love her. This is crazy right no one else knows this but me. Love hate control relationships.
Dear scorpio mystique,
I am an scorpio woman and I was born on 11 November 1998 and I am in love with a scorpio man was born also on 11 November 1995 I wanted to know what is our situation in the chart.
Thank you in advance
I am in love with a Scorpio man. We shared the same birthday November 9. I’m 21 years old and he is 23. My star sign is a acquaries and his star sign is a Taurus. Are we meant to be? This guy was my first and I love him so much . No matter what we go through we always find a way to come back together. Please help I need answer!
Hello scorpios !!
We are both scorpios I am born on the 8th November 1963 and he’s born on 07th November 1990 huge age difference 26 years but he tells me that he doesn’t feel that there is a difference and it is surprising for me. our connection is very intense and I guess when the souls are connected the age fades away universal love , I love him dearly and I am setting him free when we meet we enjoy each other and live the moment .all I care about is seeing him happy with or without me.
In life worries shouldn’t exist make of every moment your last moment who cares about the past and why should we worry about the future if you do then you will never enjoy the moment. Let go open the universe door and see what it brings and take every chance to experience all moments this is what makes you who you are.always think what is next for me to live .we are not here in this planet to be with only one person. Any one who comes in your life will teach you something till you reach the maturity and wisdom
Enjoy life.if there was no sadness how can we enjoy happiness
God created everything with its opposite
Night/day
Light/dark
Happ/sad …….and the list goes on
We are here to play so play life and the most important thing is to love your self first to be able to love everyone and everything
LOVE is the key to happiness
lol I am the 7th of november n he’s the 3rd
Forty plus years ago I said ‘I love you’ to my other Scorpio half but I exploded like a yellow sun when she said she wanted to leave. Yes then Scorpios go to the depths grieving their loss.
‘And when I go away
I know my heart can stay with my love
It’s understood, it’s in the hands of my love
And my love does it good
And when the cupboard’s bare
I’ll still find somethin’ there with my love
It’s understood, it’s everywhere with my love
And my love does it good’
How so after all the years. I hope she has got on. I wonder where she is. What she’s doing. How is her life? Does she remember ‘my love? I wonder if she keeps looking in the ‘cupboard’ as I do after all the years.
I am female Scorpio born November 10, 1979. I have dated several Scorpio men over the years. One of the most passionate and intense relationships I’ve experienced was with a Scorpio man born November 2, 1983. I never felt so in love we fell hard and fast I thought he was my forever. After proposing marriage and getting me pregnant he cheated on me and left me three months pregnant. I haven’t seen his face since he packed his stuff and left I was 4 months along at the time. He has never even seen his son (by his own choice) and our baby is 14 months old. He was all of the negative traits of a Scorpio not evolved one bit. In turn I stared seeing another Scorpio man about 11 months ago and our relationship is long distance. He is polar opposite of my X. His bday is November 17, 1983. He is so loving selfless and kind. We talk every day several times a day and have never had an argument just minor disagreements. He has shown me how wonderful a Scorpio man can be after I experienced the worst of the worst. I say this where a Scorpio is in their evolution process and what decan they are born under makes a huge difference in their behavior and personality.
About “Telepathic bond”: is it for sure both! or it can be in single side?
I’ve had many situations for her pain. Last one i got heart attack. Doc got puzzled there wasn’t any reason behind my heart attack! it’s her trouble reflected on me again. She knows I feel whenever she get something “wrong”. She never told me before she got that “hyper sensitive feelings”.
I reached death for someone else situation. Is it fair not to tell her that “telepathic bond” is impacting someone else life? Does she feel the same thing?!
im a pisces woman in love with a scorpio man that fell in love with me when i was fresh out of a bad relationship.
I told him it was too soon for me to commit but I would like to remain friends and lovers and we had.
Then he met a scorpio woman and now they are dating and “in love” but he still fools around with me until I finally said no more.
I want to wait for them to implode. Then I would like a chance with the Scorpio man again.
Who would be better for a Scorpio male? A pisces or a scorpio female?
Venus, both r perfect for scorpion. u may need to check Chinese compatibility between you & her with him.
Age range plays its main role: 27 – 33 is maturing experiences, 41 – 50 ~~
Less than 25 ain’t influential unless relation continues for couple of yrs
Ive enjoyed reading everyone’s experiences, so I guess Ill add mine 🙂
I’ve been married 1 year to a Scorpio man (dated total 11yrs now though) and we are only 21hrs age difference! Our birth chart is literally everything the same. (Risings are Aquarius and Moons are Aries)
Our relationship is totally all or nothing. He does have a flip opposite personality too (ISTJ/ENFP) and it makes for a lot of frustration because we are hardly on the same page or energy level at the same time. BUT! We have so much common, especially interests so no matter what we do, we can find enjoyment in it. He is very sexually powered, but somehow Im not? I thought Scorpios were supposed to be intense in that way. I mean, I guess we are. We bring a lot of stubborn emotion into play time and arguments. We REALLY have to be careful about the things we say. But, our loyalty and lifetimr promises are strong. Our desire to better ourselves for each other (although never changes) is the drive that keeps us together and in love. 🙂
I am a Scorpio and have fell for a Scorpio woman but she has a boyfriend who is also a Scorpio.They recently broke up but before I could tell her how I felt they where back together again.We work together so we see each other a lot and have become like best friends but I no there’s something more with the way she looks at me and how we act around each other and it’s plain obviously to the other people we work with too.I am told her boyfriend doesn’t treat her right and is controlling but they are both the same age and have been together for four years where as I am ten years older.I don’t want to break them up but I want to no if there’s any chance I mean most people say they will change then go back to the the way they where before so are they likely to break up again? She broke up with him before they got back together.
My birthday is 11-18-1981 and his is 11-20-1982 the bond is so strong but still I do want to know if our dates is compatible. Scorpio is scorpio loyalty is undeniable, but still there are some factors. Can you check on us please, thank you.
I’ve just recently started talking to a Scorpio male and we instantly wooed over each other and blasted off talking like we’ve known each other for years we are both born the same year but he was born the 8 and I the 12 do you believe it could work?
My relationship is going not so great. He’s distant and shows no emotion. As a Scorpio I only get like this when I’m not interested. He tells me I need to be patient. Patience what is that? I can’t tell if I’m wasting my time or not. When we’re apart I hate it because I have no idea what’s going on with him. It drives my emotional ass mad. When physically together he’s still distant but telepathically I know he’s there. This relationship is confusing. I can’t tell if he’s truly down, playing a game, or bored. I don’t like giving up and that maybe the only reason I’m still around (excluding the astonishing sex and arousment from his intellect).
Recently started new flame we are both Scorpios his is November, 10th and im the 11th I have no questions.
I’m just in love with him the connection is great and the vibes are phenomenal
I fell in love with a Scorpio girl when I was 16. Our birthdays are six days and one year apart. I broke her heart and we went in different directions. Over the years I felt like she wasn’t over me as I wasn’t over her. I tried many times to reach out to her, to let her know how I felt about her. I thought about her everyday even when i tried not to. 23 years go by and I find a three year old unchecked message and find out she’s still had feelings for me but she ( like me) was trapped in a bad marriage. We talked for a while but we frustrated each other with problems from our marriages and decided not to talk till we were free. We lost contact. I started thinking that she wouldn’t let him go. I didn’t want to be responsible for ruining her marriage so I backed off and boom I get into another bad relationship. Come to find out she left him and has had two bad relationships and is still with the second. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about her. I am 43 now, ive had two marriages and two bad relationships, I’ve never had a relationship that comes close to what I had with her. There has been times when ive forced myself to give up, but just as sure as I wake up she crosses my mind. I don’t know what to do about all of this, I do know that she is a part of me, we share a deep connection, and we let our fears get in our way.
I am a scorpio, 10/31/1993 and the guy im interested in is a scorpio 11/01/1990. Can you tell me what it says about us in the charts?
Ok so I’m a Scorpio 10/31/1993 and my first love is a Scorpio 11/15/1993. We met when I was a junior in high school and things just have been a rollercoaster ever since I found out I was pregnant. Before that we were madly in love constantly loving each other no matter where we were or who was around. When I found out I was pregnant everything turned bad he started cheating on me physically mentally and emotionally fighting me. These past years we had our ups and downs where we would be the best of friends and just like that the worst of enemies. Lately we have been coming to good terms for the sake of our son and all of a sudden his and my sexual vibes are starting to rub off each other like when we first met. I will always have love for him because I seen his good and bad side and I stuck through it as long as I could just couldn’t take getting hurt by the only person that mattered to me. There was a few times we tried to get our family back together but I wasn’t sure if he was the same as when we was younger so I got scared and eloped. Now we’re back to talking and flirting around with each other and I kind of want this to play out to see what happens but at the same time I’m scared to get my heart ripped out for a second time. With us being older now could this be a good thing or a bad thing? What does the charts say about us!? Please help me I’m at a crossroads
You have a child together so he will always be there which does not mean you have to be with him, to be with him.
If you are truly meant to be it will happen in it’s own time so do not force it, especially if you have not forgiven him; because all you will do is make yourself miserable with worry.
I am a scorpio, 10/31/1993 and the guy im interested in is a scorpio 11/01/1990. Can you tell me what it says about us in the charts?
I’m a Scorpio with a Scorpio and we’ve been together 9years as best friends and lovers, I would say our bond is 99% golden, as intimidated as people are by a Scorpio being with Scorpio, it can work magically when you get eachother. We have a really healthy balance that I just don’t have trying other signs. Other signs may have intense sexual passion but no emotional, or emotional but no sexual, or I may find partners who are either too needy for me to handle or I become needy out of insecurity (scorpions like to be reminded they are loved this is true for me) so with another Scorpio, it just is the right blend. We have minor issues and they rarely ever come up. We’ve been competitive but it can be healthy, we also both can be a bit stubborn but over many years we just get eachother. We are strong and supportive of eachothers ambitions. Both goofy, sensitive, ridiculously goal driven but love sentimental time reassuring eachother and snacking and cuddling (hilarious) we have onesies. We sound needy but we also have such independence with work and work so hard. We DEFINITELY aren’t quitters. That’s what makes our relationship so strong and as we’ve worked through tough times our bond is MUCH more rewarding each level through life. We do honestly I think take pride at how commited we are to each other and we are both ridiculously goofy. We are loyalt to one another. We are sensitive and guiding with one another. I think Scorpio and Scorpio bond can be very strong when both are able to cool any heat and be open, listen and love. I also think we will make great parents one day when we are ready because we are both so excited about life and supportive of anything and everything that a child could want to be passionate about! we’re very sensitive and loving by nature so I feel we will intuitively know what our children need and be able to listen and nurture them to be confident and open. Anyways that’s a lot, but it’s an inside look at a successful long term Scorpio Scorpio vibe!
My parents are both Scorpio s and it’s true that they have an undying love for each other and their fights were nothing short of brutal. At the end of the day they would always make up and live a loving life together.
As for being the child of two Scorpios, sure they provided me everything I wanted to learn and what they want me to learn but it was always on their terms. If anything was not to their liking or satisfaction including what I wear, eat, buy, when I sleep or wake up, where I go, what I do or how it’s done, my opinions, etc, my life was a living hell. It caused a lot of emotional and mental instability and years of therapy has yet to fix. For the Scorpios loving Scorpios, please love your children unconditionally and allow them to grow with your guidance in a nurturing environment in their own way and live the lives they so choose.
Just only now catching up on these Comments!! Wow.. we are all some kind of batshit crazy intense stingers…
i noticed one comment from Sarah.. who has the same birthdate as me (18/11). Love to connect with you Sarah as ive never met another sister with the same birthday.
I’m currently in the most complicated relationship with yes a Scorpio man (06/11) who is the first and only other relationship since my husband of 19 years took his own life over 2 years ago. I have two teenage daughters and swam through an ocean of unecessary hate & blame directed at me. I’m full on and loud about suicide prevention & awarness.. calling those out on their own ugliness & lies told. Still can’t believe he has gone.. yet this man who came into my life & has become obsessed with me (maybe me too).
How can I possibly love again??
So soon?? Ever at all??
The guilt and confliction i feel is pulling me so hard in all directions. I want him so badly yet know it will seem as tho I’ve stopped grieving or missing my husband. A shitshow of mind blowing actions & experiences after that horrendously shocking night I found my best friend hanging in our backyard, concealed from view & after he had gone missing – we argued the last time I saw him – over the most stupid thing… he was on his way back to work for 4 weeks in a isolated location, after one week off. I’m riddled with deep guilt over these things., sometimes it’s hard to even breathe with the physical pain i feel in my chest. The tears flow on days I’m able to be alone. Now even I can’t see this screen from the leakage.
I’m mad as hell with my husband
Mad as hell with the new man for lying & deceiving me about the most stupidest little things – i discovered he is a compulsive liar!! My worst nightmare and the reality of being the man i feel so much for.
Far out… I’ll stop now before writing a novel..!
Love to you all out there from Australia ❤️
Do two scorpios in an extramarital relationship ever end up together?
I have fallen head over heels for a Scorpio who started very passionately with me, and then returned home and became distant. I don’t know how to handle this as a Scorpio and I am trying to figure out if this is worth pursuing.
December 2nd I met a scorpio man. We share the same birthday, even the same year. I felt drawn to him straight away we couldn’t stop staring at each other. We talked for hours about our lives and struggles. I felt like I’d known him forever. It’s like I’ve found a piece of me that I never knew I was missing.
We have the most incredible mental connection to each other it’s indescribable.
Hey Scorpio mystique,
I’ve was wondering about the compatibility with a October 31st Scorpio and a November 11th Scorpio???
How you all get Scorpios? I had like just one ex and he was not an evolved one, so dying to get an evolved Scorpio in my life like crazy. No one can get us like Scorpios do.. it’s an infinite love n lust along with understanding.. the kind of love a Scorpio craves.. the one that sucks the soul out.. forming a sultry union..
Dear Scorpio Mystique,
I just read your piece and I was wondering how this scheme may interact with rising signs. My love and I (a straight couple) are both Scorpio AND Scorpio rising. Does this amplify the type of intensity you depict here?
Thank you a lot for all your advice. Best,
Airo
Hi,
Im a Scorpio born on November 3rd,1991. I’ve met a Scorpio guy 5 years ago.. we dated for a year but it was a strange relationship, we didn’t talk much but were very emotional every time we met. We broke up many times and went back again but in the end i decided to break up because i wasn’t feeling comfortable … then after long time we talked again.. tried to make ot work but again … we dont try to be lovers we just meet and then i ruin everything… now we decided to give it another shot.. not dating yet but we’re talking .. i hope it’ll work but im also afraid. He was born on November 12th , 1981.
Can you tell me if we fit?
I am scorpio man and have had two two marriages with Sagittarius women (incidentally both lawyers) – uff these MOODS needed a LOT of patience and understanding from my side, and at some point I gave up explaining myself because I felt there was no serious interaction possible any more!
Now I have found a Scorpio girl 23 years younger than me! We have very different backgrounds, come from different cultures and also social classes! But it is MAGIC! We talk all night, having sex all 3-4 hours. These sleepless nights did not stop over the last months. I love the way she thinks, she is direct to the extent of hurtful.
I am experienced in relationships with expressive women and I know when to exercise patience with some radical words and behavior. After all, a look into her eyes clears up a lot of the spite in her words, often her radical words and her feelings are quiet different! And I can see it in her eyes, feel it in her touch.
I love the intensity of that girl! But I am sure that I would have not managed this relationship when I was younger, I would have reacted too sensitive and would not have had enough patience with her. Learning to be patient with a woman was probably the most difficult thing over the last 25 years of my love life! But it is worth it! Only when you forgive and are kind, you can really conquer the heart of a woman!
Now this is the first relationship of this kind for me, I had younger women as partners but never more then 10-12 years. A quarter of a century is actually a different generation. But it works! She appreciates my experience, being settled as man in my life, and the patience and understanding I have for her fears or anxieties. I love her youthful power and her intensity! Her intelligent way of understanding a world that she knows much less than I do.
I know I have to be forgiving with my lovely scorpio girl, she sometimes tries to test my love and commitment to her. But I trust her! And that’s a good base!
Now wish me luck that this wonderful, sexually and mentally so powerful relation will hold! We are just in the sixth months of it!
And just to clarify: she is 29, so an age difference of 23 years between an adult woman and and adult man!
Thats gud man !!
Older men and then there is something like too old, get a life !!
hi i am a 27 yr old female and my husband is 36 we met thru a friend something like arrange they asked me if i wanted to marry and i said yes afraid i will hurt ppl i hate to hurt people feelings so i just said yes anyway we are married for 5 yrs now and have a 2 yr old son. but the thing is i dont feel that love anymore i did like him alot but the strong feelings is not there… first of all he dont speak much for d day we only talk when he leave for wrk i just make his coffee n bye n thats it and i use to call him alot when he at work but he say i was disturbing him and he dosent like talk much so i stop calling him after our son born, what i can never forget n have doubts abt is if he really loves me cause 3 months after we married we had a little argument coz he wasnt giving me attention like i said he keep to himself he said we can divorce i was scared n started crying coz marriage for me i slife long. for a day if we talk 10 – 20 sentences to each other thats it and i am always d 1 to do d talking and he just ans…. i feel lost and i am not happy but i cant leave even if i am not happy i cant i have a son still we hardly communicate he is always on his computer or fone since day 1 into our marriage for 5 yrs.. i mean he treats me nice i have heart problem i found out after i got married i feel like a burden to him he treats me nice im not short of non but still the love and attention i crave for is missing… how long more till we fall apart? his birthday is 18-11-1981 mine is 02-11-1990 ANY ADVICE,? im still holding on for my son and cause im scared to hurt people feelings like my family his family etc…he is there for me health wise and so buti feel like a burden just yesterday i told him i love u and didnt get a response i make an angry face and still no response where as before he use to tell me he love me n give me morning kiss now its all gone d feelings and spark is not there everytime i try to talk kinky or so he say he busy with work n d sex oh my gosh dont get me started if we have sec twice a month thats too much… i love sex and passionate to but he is not like that just sex and thats it just we r done he leave n gone n do something like work or on his phone i sometimes feel horrible like he just wants sex n thats it…
I’m a Scorpio 21 year old woman born November 12 and “my” Scorpio man born November 8, he is 24 years old. When we met there was no doubt there was a magnetic connection there. But, he was a person who I am no longer friends with boyfriend. After they broke up we got in touch and we gave it try as we were attracted to each other. Great connection, bond, friendship, and the sex drive was crazy. As far as the relationship aspect for me being a Scorpio woman it was hard to get over the fact that he defended his previous relationship ex over me. I forgave him but ended breaking it off because I felt like he was trying to hide what he had because “it was too soon to go public” after his previous relationship with whom I was once friends with. I dont think he was ready for me or us. This happened about one year ago and now he is back and wants to make his girlfriend again, he says he needs to take action even if he ends up being rejected. I still have feelings for him, I am attracted to him, the problem is the history we have. I am scared that it’ll be repetitive and/or that Im wasting my time. Also, its hard for me to fully trust him and what he said about really wanting me back in his life. We talk about how intense our connection was and the impact I had in his life (in a good way) and how grateful I was for him being there when I needed him. For now Im taking it slow and easy I do have hopes of it working out in the near future. Im just not sure what to do. Any advice?
I am a Scorpio Dragon 11/3/76, my significant other is a Scorpio Dragon, 11/21/76. We have been together for a little over two years and it has been a rocky road. I think I’ve had enough. I’ve given him enough chances to try to make this relationship right again. I always seem to be the one that caves in. I’m at a different stage in my life and unfortunately I don’t think I can continue to cater to him. I feel like I give too much and he doesn’t give enough. We’ve had a world wind of A Love Affair and I think it’s time for me to draft a new chapter. I’m calling it quits. I’m done bending over backwards for someone who doesn’t put in the effort to maintain a successful relationship.
Dear Scorpio Mystique
I am a scorpio female born on 28 Oct 1989 and my love who is a scorpio man was born on 3 Nov 1989. We talk several times a day and understand each other well both feel we are twinning at times from past 2 months. Sometimes both wake up in the middle of sleep and message each other and find the other one is also awake at the same time and keep chatting. We share everything and make time for each other even when we are busy. We both never experienced this earlier once we sleep.
Could you please tell what is our situation in the chart.
Me and my boyfriend are both Scorpios born 1 day and 1year apart. He’s the first I’m the 2nd both 80’s babies.When we started he was very much a Scorpio like me I felt that we where very similar but in good similarities. NOW I’m starting to notice a lot of disloyalty in his character that was apparently going on in the beginning of our relationship. Should I give up on having a forever relationship with him. Will he ever change his disloyalty and dishonest ways as he says he’s working on his character every day is that a real true statement from a Scorpio who can be very secretive. Its hard to take any of what he says to consideration as the truth. Truthfully I just wanna trust my intuition of him cause I swear I see a liar but we have a child involved and if he has the capability to be better than I wanna be better at my mental thought process of listening and doubting or am I waisting time. I don’t want to hate him intensely for wasting my time.
I recently met a man who is 9 years older but share the same birthday(11/06) as me. It’s very hard to put into words exactly how he makes me feel. Theres surely something in his eyes that sets me on fire!
Hi! My partner and I both got out of relationships . He got out of a very serious one and I got out of a relationship that was just not working out for me. We met when we were teenagers and have been best friends ever since. We have both known we had feelings for each other and now that we’re both finally free we decided to give it a shot. What can you tell me about us? His birthday is November 7 1996 and mines is November 12 1996.
being a Scorpio i am amazed by the comments here as how easily people are able to find another Scorpio as a mate ..its been ages 41 years already fr me to see that miracle happen 🙁 though i have struggled with fickle Geminis, unfathomable waters of Aquariuses, stubborn Taurus, and most painful Aries, and show off stuff and dominating Leo ………………
i am in a relationship with a girl and we are both Scorpios! same year, less than a month apart. we’ve been dating for almost a year now, and a lot of people don’t believe that we’ll last. we don’t usually argue badly, and when we do, we’re just being a bit sensitive. anyone else have a similar experience?
I’m a scorpio woman in love with a scorpio man, he’s born nov 15 and im nov 1we’ve had ups and downs but my issue is he’s distant most of the time ,I don’t know where it’s going we’ve been dating almost a year now my gut feeling tells me he’s seing someone else probably before me but having issue and got me involve feel like im wastung my time however i don’t want to leave him on speculation , what do you think?
Hi, I’ve been in love with a Scorpio man since January of 2018, so over 1 year now. He was born November 13th and I was born October 25th. We’ve been inseparable ever since. Almost every single day. Because it’s so easy and natural. Being away literally feels unnatural. However, I start to feel claustrophobic like once a month, then I start realizing I’m physically Unattracted to him. In my head, he will never ever ever leave. Which is why I don’t care about anything. But I want to care, I want to get jealous over him. But it’s nearly impossible because we now are not separate beings, were 1 in the same. We both are losing senses of idenities I feel like and I feel lost in that aspect. I also noticed it’s mainly PMS/ Period/ OCD that affects this. When none of those things are happening, it seems to be good. Let me know if you guys have any comments!
This is so great to read! It’s a step in the right direction as I’m trying to find more information about the dynamics between me and my partner.
I’m female and my partner is male and we both have Scorpio sun and Scorpio rising. I’m wondering if you have anything quick to say about this duo? This article hits the nail on the head more than it doesn’t. We seem to be on the heaven side of things despite our intensity. Thank you in advance!
I’m a Scorpio woman and married to an Aquarius (has been great!)
However it seems like coworkers especially that are Scorpio men have been some of the meanest and nastiest people! Some of us just clash. How do I get past this, especially if the coworker is a superior? I feel like they have said the most hurtful things whether they realize it or not! Some just want to fight.
Hello , im currently attracted to a scorpio man born in october 29, 1991 while me November 22, 199) what can you say about this connection between us.
I’m an older female
Scorpio who has met a younger male Scorpio. We are not in a relationship. I wondered is it normal to have a really strong telepathic bond with another male Scorpio you like or are attracted to ? I find it really weird that he seems to know what I’m thinking without looking at me ?