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Scorpio & Sagittarius

Scorpio lives in a world of black and white and does not see the middle ground in most situations. Sagittarius on the other hand, is as free as a bird, always up to something new. Sagittarius is the adventurer, an optimist, an idealist, and a philosopher. Sagittarius is attracted to Scorpio’s passionate and extreme personality, and this may be a strong base for their initial friendship. However over time, Sagittarius may find Scorpio to be too overbearing or intense for their light-hearted, go-with-the-flow nature.

Scorpio views Sagittarius as a bit of a weird mystery, because they are so used to figuring everyone out upon the first few seconds of meeting them. As Scorpio gets to know Sagittarius more, Scorpio realizes that they are extremely radical, progressive, fun-loving, and spontaneous. Sagittarius is not always the most dependable person, however, because they do not feel like following time restraints or set schedules. However, Scorpio can always rely on Sagittarius to make them laugh when they are feeling down. Sagittarius tends to view the glass as half full, and they have a highly contagious sense of humor. Sagittarius helps Scorpio take things more lightly.

Sagittarius is often perplexed by Scorpio’s critical, discriminating, suspicious and selective personality. Sagittarius is intrigued by how Scorpio is able to focus their attention on one project at a time, while Sagittarius is always distracted, searching for something or someone new. Scorpio is someone who takes loyalty very seriously, in both love and friendship. Scorpio does not have a huge amount of friends, but rather a few select close ones whom they share their life. Therefore, Scorpio may feel frustrated when they make Sagittarius a priority and Sagittarius chooses to mingle with some of their many other friends. This can be very disheartening and disappointing for Scorpio, as Scorpio seems to always be the one giving more in the relationship. This may not actually be the case, but this is the impression Scorpio may receive from Sagittarius — as though they are the most emotionally invested. Sagittarius prefers to show their commitment to the relationship through spontaneous acts of kindness and by taking Scorpio on fun and spontaneous outings.

The key to overcoming this obstacle is to have an open and respectful communication on this topic. Sagittarius will likely say that having freedom is their utmost priority, and even if it seems like they are off somewhere, Sagittarius will always come back to Scorpio if she trusts him. But Scorpio can sometimes be tired of waiting. The solution for Scorpio would be to learn the art of detachment and not attempt to always get Sagittarius to stick by their side, but to simply express their desire for Sagittarius’ presence and patiently observe their response.

The greatest threat to a successful partnership is if either of you fail to be truthful with one another, and/or if you impose on one another’s freedom. Sagittarius in particular dislikes clingy people, and Scorpio dislikes people who are too nosey. You must build trust between both of you, and learn to appreciate distance and time apart, because it will make you appreciate the bond you have rather than become resentful. Despite your differences, you have so much to learn from each other if you’re willing to compromise & accept what makes you both so unique.

88 responses to “Scorpio & Sagittarius

  1. So on point for my committed but not so committed relationship with a Sag! Truly impressed with everything here..keep up the good work as you never cease to amaze me.

  2. I am going through this now with my twinflame…im trying to learn the art of detachment but it can be very difficult at times & sometimes I feel that my intensity can ruin everything along with my trust issues..

  3. I’ve been dreaming bout a Sagittarius I use to date & by all means I want him back but I dont know if we a great match since im a Scorpio

    1. i have this problem too. just try not to look interested but my yourself look sexy. they can get charmed. be at some distance. this will teach them not to mess wit us. 😉

  4. Couldn’t agree with this more. So on point! I love my Sag so much but he can be a handful sometimes (: Trust and communication are definitely key to this Duo (:

    1. @Labella , I’m on the same boat as you…I miss him a lot and he’s kinda 50/50 talking to someone so I’m just stuck.. but only time will tell. try to be there for him as much as you can just don’t push it :). that’s what I’m doing. then again in life you don’t get things easily you have to work hard to get it.

  5. I’m going through all of this. Our egos clash and we break up for 2 weeks or so and pick up the pieces. Definitely have to work on having a better attitude and trusting him more

  6. This is soooo true.. My Sag is so social and adaptive to any environment and I’m more of the mean girl.. you can’t sit with us lol but he teaches me to be more open and I teach him to be more discrete and less predictable as a Sag really isn’t that predictable but you can bout guess there on the move looking for adventure.. Lol trust and communication is definitely key but distance helps this relationship.. I had the hardest time creating distance because I always wanted him there.. But when he’s not with me his mind is and that’s what keeps the Scorpio and Sag a interesting couple.. He may be somewhere else but wanna be with you and that’s why he will always be back

    1. I currently have been with “my” sag for a little over 2 years. We almost married. Its been intense. We broke up bc i (scorpio) felt smothered by him the sag! Twist of fate. We are back seeing each other (no labels like bf) bc we are still really in love with each other. But im realizing how i need to let go of my need for control. We are polyamorous. Which im ok with but i still get so jealous and controlling! I let it go and communicate my feelings and i grow deeply. Hes learning communication and honesty and follow thru bc i need it to feel safe. I also am an aries rising gemini mars moon taurus and his moon is in cancer and venus is libra. So it can work!

      I dont know how long we’ll be in this but i guarantee itll be full of passion excitement and growth if we are flexible and give each other space to grow and love.

      1. He’s moon in cancer n mars in Libra, tell me more, I am thinking abt a sag guy with these two traits, don’t know if I should try or not, can u elaborate how he s?? I am a Scorpio with Libra moon, mars in Libra as well, I need some advice

  7. I been with my Sagittarius for 15 years and it’s an ongoing struggle. I’m ready to let go and move on being with someone that is not compatable is way too much work.

  8. Do. Not. Waste. Your. Time…

    Scorpio male here…

    Saggatarious is too much work for Scorpio. Although extremely attracted; Saggatarious and Scorpio just don’t mix long term.

    Saggatarious is high mainetance, added to the light heartedness, and restlessness; you will feel that your time and effort is meaningless. With devotion and attention being our key traits; you will feel that Saggatarious takes you for granted.

    Whether or not that is true is whether you choose to invest that energy.

    That energy is better off spent with someone that connects with you emotionally, and on the intellectual level Scorpio’s are on. The physical attractions can be enough to keep the fire going with the Saggatarious but fall short of the intellectual level (maybe it’s a planetary alignment thing).

    Go for the cancer if you’re more homely; for the more busy Scorpio’s the Pisces is what you want and need.

    The Saggatarious is deadly to the Scorpio in my honest opinion; they often shoot before thinking. Don’t tell yourself that you will dodge it either Scorpio.

    The Saggatarious has perfect aim.

    1. Hi I’m a Sag woman and my childs father is a Scorp! We’ve been broken up for almost a year now but my heart won’t let go! We still communicate but I can tell I’ve hurt him badly and he can’t see past it! I just wanna kno is it too late and if not, what can I do to bring him back? Please help me. This man is my everything and more and idk what else to do.

      1. Don’t go back. It won’t work.
        I’m a Sag married to a scorpio.
        They think they are always right, possesive, fake in public , don’t know what it takes to keep his sag woman happy, doesn’t see the consequences of his actions until it’s too late. always come up with great ideas and give great advise but doesn’t follow them. Doesn’t want his sag to have a opinion of her own. I’M getting out of this as soon as I can, but foolishly brought kids into this mess so it’s taking quite some time. BUT DON’T GO BACK. You left for a reason, he won’t change.. move on

        1. Perfectly on point. I’ve been in a relationship with a scorpio guy. He was doing the same with me and even he disrespect me. So to be myself I broke up with him. Still he claims that he loves me but scorpios are liars and cheats.

  9. As a sagittarius, I am open and kind until I have been crossed. Scorpio’s direct and/or indirect secrecy and need to feel to keep things compartmentalized/hidden is the biggest annoyance for me. Also, when they are feeling depressed and like life sucks, I can’t empathize – pick yourself up and move on! Okay, I’ve said my piece… Love to all (:

    1. Oh my gosh! ‘J’ yes! I’m a Sagittarius too and for me my star sign is just so on point! I think a lot of people think I’m bitchy for having the “pick yourself up and move on!” sort of outlook but that’s just how I feel!! I’m too honest for my own good sometimes but I just find secrecy so darn annoying!! There’s just no need for it!

      1. You all are full of it too!

        I have never met a more insecure, jealous, mean woman as a sag.

        You all do not know the meaning of the word friend.

  10. I’m a sag. My Scorpio broke me twice and now here he is.. Coming back for the third time but I refuse. I dunno whats on his head. He left me then now he will come back..

  11. Sag male here. This relationship can work, you just can’t be selfish to eachother. You can learn a lot from eachother. My Scorpio lady is the air I breath , she brings me back to earth. Oh this pair can work . Don’t give up . Both very strong signs. Great match if you want it.

    1. Maybe it’s the Sag male and Scorpio female combo that works b/c i love love love my sag man. He is very extroverted to my wanting to keep to myself. He breaks me out of my comfort zone and we have some much fun. Not to mention his thoughtfulness and million other things. I’m a happy scorpio lady!

  12. So .. Here’s my opinion about my sag! He is very honest and that is one quality trait that is hard to find ! I respect him on many different levels, however he is brutally honesty about a few other things in our friendship ! I believe it’s not what you say ..it’s HOW you say it ! which will make or break how a sensitive scorpio respond to you ! We have a strong fear of being judge along with harsh criticism !! If you want your SCORPIO to open up ! Be understanding and remember nobody’s perfect it’s all what you make of it !! Appreciate the good times !! The world won’t be here forever and neither will we !

  13. I’m a Sag who has tried to have friendships with countless Scorpios. Keyword tried. Meaning it’s an effort. I find that the first line is true, Scorpios have a very black and white way of seeing things, with no room for middle ground. It comes off very dogmatic and in arguments the Scorpio would usually insist that one person was right and the other was wrong. And if they did realize there were gray areas and there was fault on both sides, they would have some difficulty digesting the situation.

    Sagittarius are extremely open and honest. We’re too honest and that can definitely hurt some feelings. But I find that Scorpios are really secretive, especially when they’re feelings are hurt which is not helpful when communication is key.

    In all my Scorpio relationships, I felt like I was actually the one doing all the work. Making a huge effort to show my Scorpio that I was a safe, non-judgmental place for them to talk. So that we could work thru our probs. But all I would get is severe mistrust and attacks on my character. And lots and lots and lots of blame.

    Lol, this is just my friendships tho. I can’t imagine what’s like to have a romantic Sag/Scorpio relationship. Sounds like a mess.

    1. Wow thats exactly how I’ve felt with a scorpio friends, a lot of shifting blame, attacks on my character, they play a lot of games too, couldn’t stand it bc we can see that they’re being manipulative and just throw our hands up in the air and walk away. I’m a sag w sag rising.

    2. Interesting. I have tried everything to be friends with my SIL. Instead I get the finger pointing that everything is my fault, she doesn’t want to take responsibility. I am a Scorpio female and she is sag. She is the total opposite. I can’t stand when someone has a problem with someone and they go to other ppl and talk crap. I confront her that is how I am, and she tells me she tells the truth…cough…..Then she finally admitted to me she is not the best at coming to me when she has a problem. I can take honestly as I am blunt and honest myself. Then I found out she is Scorpio/Sag…no wonder. I have tried everything but she never took the time to get to know me at all. But then I am Scorpio and rising Sag so I feel that these signs do affect the person personality. It is to the point where we hate each other and I mean HATE. I will not stand someone disrespect me but as far as dating a SAG, HELL NO. I am married to Aquarius with I think moon or rising in Aries. Interesting that you said you felt like you were doing all the work but in my case, the opposite including the blame. Granted there is more to this story but the one thing I don’t do is LIE.

    3. ALL OF THIS!!!! I clicked with a Scorpio woman because of my happy-go-lucky and caring nature … ended up getting sexually involved with her and an old flame/friend (Aries/Taurus cusp bday on 4/20)… I welcomed her into my home and my life with open arms, honesty, kindness, friendship in earnest… and all she eventually brought was b.s. and drama. I’m too open and honest yes. But I mince my words and told her things I only knew through wisdom and experience. She always thought someone was judging her or trying to make her uncomfortable… as she was sleeping in my bed every night, eating the few groceries I had, cuddling with me, or driving herself crazy with situations that just did not serve her. She got mad over small things and I kept forgiving them. She lied as needed to get whatever she needed done and would never be upfront about anything. She had also developed really quick and fast feelings for me post sex and was hurt by every. little. thing. that hinted at there not being a long term romantic relationship between us. Scorpios are too much work, too little result. They are generally selfish, but I will say they are about their business. Whatever they want, they will go for it relentlessly until they choose to walk away for whatever reason… Easily scorned and condescending, because they feel it is thoroughly justified.

      But then again, no one is perfect. They just remind me of a bloom and wormwood tea. Bitter zodiac with a pretty image.
      #SagWomanOut

    4. Reading yours out of all the replies yours brings tears to my eyes as I read, streaming down my face. I’m a sag black South African female and my lover as I wpuld call him is scorpio. I don’t know what he callone thing I’ve noticed that he is highly secretive, kinmoody, and difficult to read and please. I want to assure hom of my loyaty, care, respect and most of all love and support a his efforts but itshard to reach him. When I think about to know him he slips away. I aso feel that he is likey to have multiple relationships and that for me is a big no i cannot and will never allow it bc I don’t. I love him so much I actually fee so secure in him when he is awesome and he is just the best. Its a complication and I can’t do complication. I love him and I know if we can be open we can have all that we both need because he is a great person I pick that up. He is European. I just need the person that makes me happy when he is happy. Please advice

  14. I’m a Sag and I just broke up with my Scorpio boyfriend. For like the 15th time. We haven’t talked in 3 weeks longest ever. My thing with him is his lack of communication skills, but I still love him.

  15. I’m a sagittarius female… I dated a scorpio male once. I gave him my heart and forgave him more times then I should have. He cheated on me more times then I care to count and abused me. I thought I saw the good in him and could help him from the shadows of his life. I’ve seen some of the worse scorpio has to offer. But I’ve also seen the good as well. My sister’s fiancée is a scorpio and she’s a sweet heart. She is so interesting and once you know where to look for she is easy to understand. My grandfather who is a scorpio is more of a mystery. Although I grew up around my grandfather living in the same house I find it difficult to see what is on his mind. So the only scorpio I’ve ever had issues with is just my ex. As for other sagittarius well I don’t mind them but my mother who is a sagittarius like me shows the worse our sign has to offer. She was far worse then my ex by all accounts including the abuse. Personally I go out of my way to help my friends. I know I can be blunt at times and brutally honest. It’s not that I mean to be it just comes out that way. My aquarius husband thankfully understands. That honesty has helped my friends as well the same for the spontaneous nature. It has helped a virgo and gemini friend understand life was worth living and cheered them up. I guess the reason why people sharing signs are so different is that everyone is focused only on their sun sign and most don’t realize they have an entire birth chart. For example I’m a sagittarius but my ascendent/rising sign is cancer and my moon sign is libra. There is a lot more to it then that but all in all it makes me a shy sagittarius with a strong sense of justice, I can’t stand unfairness and I can’t stand not having freedom but I also am terrified of being the center of attention. Sorry for rambling ^^

  16. So I read this and what I keep thinking on is while I started out with very black and white views life has and does push me to see all the grey areas.

    So while some Scorpios MAY be stuck with that trait others, like myself, may have been taught by life to see the “grey” areas.

    I didn’t read this thinking on couples, but I do know the one Sagittarius I met, outside of my newborn son,gets VERY STUCK on black and white, who’s “right”(when I could care less on that, just want both sides to be heard).

    I’m not saying all Sagittarius males are like that(as I don’t know every Sagittarius male, obviously,lol) but it’s odd how my issues with trying to maintain said friendship with that male, was his need to be right and how everything must be this way or that way and no room for a different opinion.

    He says he prides himself on an open mind, but it’s lack there of, that makes it so difficult because you basically end up saying “mhm” while the person talks when they are like that instead of actually being able to communicate.

    I do think there are differences in horoscopes due to gender though so I’d be curious to meet a female Sagittarius and see how it differs.

    I also think there’s a difference between what type of relationship you try to have with differing horoscopes as sometimes something can work for a friendship and not a relationship and things like that.

    Even still, even where it’s harder to get on you can learn things.

  17. Well my first love was a Scorpio, we dated in high school and are both in our late 30s now. Throughout the years he always seems to find me, but not always was it anything romantic I think he just liked being around me, anyway things changed this past year on my bday and we became romantically involved again …smh…it was so hard getting him to open up but whenever he would he’d disappear on me a few days which started to annoy me bc I don’t like clinginess but I do want to hear from you! Anyway he began to play lil games and before I knew it turned into a real Ike & Tina affair without the physical abuse we’d go from loving each other to hating each other it was draining, plus once I’m hurt when I’ve been nothing but patient and loyal to you oh my words can and will hurt…I just can’t with this man love him to death but I can do without him and wish him the best! Its been almost 3 months since I’ve seen him but we’d go from weeks to 2 months sometimes after an argument but this is the longest..He liked to hit that nerve noone else could which is such a bad idea when dealing with a Sag also very selfish…He is now blocked lol but texts still cum thr sometimes smh..long story short he was an asshole. Not a good combination for this Sagittarius!!

  18. I am a scorpio girl and i love my Sag man so much. It was love at first sight. The first kiss was like magic.. we’ve been through so much. both ups and downs but 2 years down the line growing stronger. he is the best i’ve ever had and the best i’ll ever have. despite all our flaws. we are the best

  19. Sagittarius Female here, I am in a friendship with a Scorpio Female. We get along, and we click well, but the only thing is the secrecy. She isn’t very open to me, but I am to her. I can tell I have to be cautious because I am not patient at all, and I am the type of person that needs to know the direct point, and everything involved with the point, so I know detail for detail. I feel like Scorpio only touches the surface of some subjects. Now, on another hand I am dating a Gemini Male and I am a Sagittarius Female. I go to my Scorpio friend, and she listens to me vent to her, and gives me advice which I like, but then she is right to the point which I like.

  20. Im a Sagittarius female, and I have been trying to understand my mother for my entire life. I am now well into my 20s, the reason why we do not get along is because well it’s been said “Sagittarius is often perplexed by Scorpio’s critical, discriminating, suspicious and selective personality.” Coming from a strict and traditional family, this is confirms why I will never have a relationship with my mother.

    1. I hope that you have a relationship with her now. I am 35. My Mother is a Scorpio, and I am Sagittarius. If she is alive, go to her, and as a Scorpio she WILL understand and make things right. They are stronger than you can think…And so are We. She made you, and if she is alive, then you should let her know you. The real you. That is all she’s been really trying to do. ❤️

  21. I’m a young Scorpio and a few months ago an older Sagittarius was appointed as my new boss. We talked for an hour when we met and she seemed so cool that I wanted her from the start. The chemistry between us was undeniable and within a week we ended up in a bed together. We both enjoyed the experience thoroughly. Then problems at worked caused a rift between us. Months later we burred the hatchet and one night ended up together again. It was the best sex imaginable and—as you can guess—as a Scorpio I do spend a lot of time imagining great sex. We’re quite different people, we argue a lot, but because we have amazing conversations and because it feels so great when we’re together I’d like it to be more than occasional sexual encounters. I even avoid naming what I want as I know how a Scorpio’s emotional intensity scares away most people let alone wayfarers such as Sagittariuses. I adore her spirit, I have told her so, I care deeply about her and all I want to do is treat her like a queen she is to me but she won’t let me. I don’t have a clue what she wants. I often feel she doesn’t appreciate me as a person. I often find her to be tactless, mutable, and ambivalent towards me. She tells me some lovely things one day, then acts so detached the other, then tells me how she wants me in her life, then goes out with other people and tells me about it, then tells me how amazed she is by how much I make her enjoy herself, then rejects me. I can have just about anyone I want but I’m patient with her because I really think we have a lot to offer each other yet she often leaves me thinking that she can not comprehend the concept of devotion.

  22. I’m a scorpio woman. I’ve been with a sag man.. And two best friends who were sags. I loved them all… I always enjoyed there company. They made me laugh. And they were blunt. But as a scorpio I appreciate honest. I dont know what the deal is about us being down …. Because we made to overcome from the worst places in life. And if I was down … I m not sharing it anyway BC we people really dont care. Just some extra shit to throw in you face. This was my issue… They are not loyal people. They dont like secrets because they are mosey yet they will leave allkind of details out of their story just to make themselves look better. They will lie just to prove a point but the more they talk the more it reveals they are lieing. They will do anything for you… But at what cost. They claim to blunt but harbor secret emotions anD intentions. They act free but can still become trapped by their own insecurities, and putting them out on those around them. Like someone is doing something to them on purpose. This article said the want to talk things out..lol yeah they want to know what you got going on… But start asking them alot of questions in return and watch them shut down or bullshit their way out of a conversation. They dont like to explain themselves. Now the woman try to avoid confrontation by lieing but it makes it worse because they come off as tricky to scorpios and others. The sag man… Is very confrontation. Aggressive and emtional. If you do something they dont like.. They immediately become aggressive and upset AMD they will confront you… And if you respond in the same manner they act like its you with the issue. I really cared for them… But i had to let them all go… Because at the ended of the day. They were not as loyalty as I thought they were. And they all felt a way negative about me I found control. .. Yet still wanted to be friends after their betrayal. I would never date a sag nor will I ever be close friend to one again….

        1. You do the same things and call us out on those.Agresive and emotional?Check.Being confrontational?Check.Hypocrites and criticizers.Not even one thing about you guys gives you right to demand loyality and honesty from us.You are buzz killers,complainers,venom spitting monsters who needs to be thrown under the train.Bwahahaaha

          1. LMAO… thank you for showing your TRUE colors!

            I don’t demand anything from you, because I don’t want any of you in my presence let alone in my life, LOL!

          2. You do know you sound like a stupid, childish, idiot right?

            Get a life…because all you are is a mean, insecure, jealous, hate-filled scab.

          3. mean(nowhere close to you,master), insecure(everybody have it,better or worse hidden), jealous(nothing special to be jealous about), hate-filled scab?No thanks,I’ll stay stupid,childish idiot then,at last I don’t poison anybody life,like you do.

          4. And yet you keep going, which proves my point.

            Buy a clue and get a life, because yours obviously sucks beyond repair.

  23. Dating a Sagittarius male has caused me so much happiness and pain at the same time. It hasn’t been very long and already we are always running into obstacles over the dumbest things! I envisioned my life with him, but now I don’t think we will make it through. Oddly, I feel that I’m the one as a Scorpio female that has been way too confrontational about how I feel and his lack of attention and love towards me. He couldn’t understand where I was coming from, which show that scorpions need more than what a sag can give them. I fear he is going to break up with me tomorrow, and over nothing.

  24. I am a Sagittarius girl and I have a best friend who’s a Scorpio and she’s a girl and I’ve known her for about 4 years now. But not to long ago she met a guy and he’s from new York I’m not sure what he is but she’s been talking to him a lot as they are best friends and I have no problem with that but at a point I accidentally came off as if I was jealous and she got extremely mad and I tried telling her I didn’t mean it like that and she said “fine. I’ll just leave and stop talking to you for good.” I gave a few tries not to lose her and I succeed but she’s so secretive at time’s I give her so much of my honesty and I only give her the bad when she truly wants it. She’s a great person in my opinion she helped me with my depression somewhat and but now it seems I care about her more then she cares about me she’d leave me so simply… Me and her have fought once or twice seriously but got over it and I’ve just come to the thought I’m scared to be left alone again I never had many friends but I’ve chatted with a few people but she got jealous and so I stopped for her then she treats bad at times then treats me great I’m so depressed again and confused. I HATE these feelings I wish I had a on and off button with feelings often…. Can ANY Scorpio help a Sagittarius eh?

  25. Needless, to say, I think it depends on what kind of scorpio woman you are and what kind of Sagittarius you are

    November Sag men is better together with a October Scorpio woman,
    Do yourself a favor you too, Do not sleep together too fast, after 6 months maybe, to a year, take it slow get to know each other as much as possible. Sag men is tester and tries to get things his way, he’s a now person and thinks later if the Scorpio gives him what he wants too soon, he will leave, and disrespect you..

    A sag is a good match for a scorpio woman trust me!!

    She needs him and he needs her. He is spontaneous, she likes planning, but compromise with him, tell him its your turn or your not coming over to watch a movies or any sports til he does or not even a walk on the beach, he likes chase make him work fir a seductive sexy, hot sexy smart woman..
    He will marry you Ms. Lady if you do the chase and not sleep with first. You are worth waiting for both of you are..
    Please listen to me..
    10 years of dating a sag.
    And it can take some years to get to know each other.. Cat and mouse games sometimes..

    Cynthia Merritt..
    Contact me at cmhairstylist@ yahoo.com

  26. Needless, to say, I think it depends on what kind of scorpio woman you are and what kind of Sagittarius you are

    November Sag men is better together with a October Scorpio woman,
    Do yourself a favor you too, Do not sleep together too fast, after 6 months maybe, to a year, take it slow get to know each other as much as possible. Sag men is tester and tries to get things his way, he’s a now person and thinks later if the Scorpio gives him what he wants too soon, he will leave, and disrespect you..

    A sag is a good match for a scorpio woman trust me!!

    She needs him and he needs her. He is spontaneous, she likes planning, but compromise with him, tell him its your turn or your not coming over to watch a movies or any sports til he does or not even a walk on the beach, he likes chase make him work for your best love..
    Scorpios are very loyal..

    A Sagittarius man can be a good man too and loyal. Very protective gets jealous too he controlling as well. Dont be fooled he’s just quiet or has more humbled way of showing it or does not say nothing at all he tries to dismiss you.. He will spoil his woman and she spoil him too..
    Flowers, roses candy dinners..
    Love great exotic love making is there..
    Peace love and happiness..
    Pleasure Pain is there..
    Ups and downs do happen..
    Compromise commuincation is much neded.

    Selfish and stubborn ways are there

    Scorpio woman has to get that under controlled and he does too..
    Sag are ego guys..
    Scorpio is sexy temper woman
    But he has to relax her with sincere say its ok I’m never leaving you.you mine forever

    Reassurance is needed thats ok we get lost and just want n need to hear it..

  27. I’ve just had the pleasure of meeting a very lovely and talented Scorpio. Astrology aside I just hope that she is willing to accept me as I am,just as I have accepted her.

  28. I once dated a younger woman who went to the CLE (College Learning Experience) program for people with Asperger’s Syndrome & met a young lady named Stephanie who too had Asperger’s like me. We both loved playing videogames, and were into Anime. Things seemed fine as we dated until about a month later when my temper started to come out. I didn’t do anything physical but I realize that back then I was hurt due to the many struggles our relationship didn’t last. Plus her Mother was a bit controlling. I just wish she would live a happy life above all else. Though I feel that we are still meant to be I need to let her go & grow. In fact I want Stephanie to grow because she’s in need of it. I love her & I always will she’s a cutie.

    Stephanie if you are reading this just know I’m sorry for everything between us. You deserve a man better than me anyway.

  29. Very much on point!!!!! Wow! This explains my whole relationship with my Sagg. ❤
    I could write a book explaining how all of this is so correct. ?
    #TeamScorpio
    #ILoveMySaggitarius
    ♏❤

  30. I was willing to do anything to make it work with my Sagittarius, but was impossible to overcome the differences. On the positive side, I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything in the world, but on the negative, I am brokenhearted. It hurt like hell for quite a while.

  31. Sagittarius female with scorpio man together 4 years married for 1 year. I must say this relationship is Not Easy. Sagittarius and Scorpios are not that compatible but it is Something there that is Unexplainable. Scorpio men are crazy and moody even clamp up sometimes when mad or sad but I must say the good outweighs the bad. They are smart, intelligent, intense, passionate, and good providers. If a scorpio man really loves you I promise he will take care of you. Trust me I need my space every so often because I’m a free spirit but I have learned to deal, ignore and be happy. Idk if I would ever date a scorpio man again but I must say I am content with the one I have. Good luck sagittarius!!!

  32. female Sagittarius here, been talking to a scorpio male now for 4 months, I am trying to take my time getting to know him but sometimes he tries to rush me…..and say things like there is something wrong with me…..and sometimes he makes me so tired that my energy is depleted, and when he tries to do little things for me especially when I’m sick, but knowing me I just need some space to cope and getting better he will took it personally, and he bottled his emotion up like crazy…..finally, today we were talking he did not seem interesting ….even when I reassured him and send him beautiful text…..I just sent him the last text that I did not know he was busy, he makes me feel like I was a bother to him, I told him we can talk when he is not so busy……..pretty much, I cannot do anymore text, but I don’t tell him, I am just leaving it alone……I have no more energy I am December 2 his birthday is November 6

  33. I dated 2. On point. They were adventurous and light hearted. Sometimes I felt my emotions were too much. I Tried to make one Distant relationship work; but I knew our texting and skyping was tough. I let him go and he wasn’t too happy. He is in the military. He will visit family on the holidays; but he was willing to make things work. even offered to buy my plan ticket. I shouldn’t couldn’t accept…he was too good hearted!

  34. I’m Sag with Scorpio moon. My Scorpio man is the one and my top want in life is love so cop that haha. I’ve spent life committed to my lovers many different signs and years in each. I’ve never flitted through love. This is the best and the worst I was lied to and betrayed by him and still fight for his love. The secret life of a Scorpio is the death of a sag. As all of us say honesty is everything. Our directness and objective optimism are always looking for the solution and nothing else. Our want to care and better humans is applied to our lover also. Our commitment is eternal and our ultimate vulnerability that’s why we’re so cagey, the weakness of an archer is the back our blind spot. We’re half horse so watch those hind legs if you’re doing weird shit back there Scorpio that’s why we hate secrets. We are big scary and armed to never miss but we have a big heart and understand the bleakness of life. Protection is paramount to us feeling safe. I’ve worked and worked and worked and cried and cried and cried for my Scorpio I’ve let him shred me apart. I’ve stood over him and protected him. Love him endlessly he is like the water I drink to survive and I love how opposite we are I don’t want sameness that’s boring and we all hate that, we love the adventure of our Scorpio. The only thing is if they are and you both are willing to adventure. If we stay put in our mutual stubborness that’s all it will be. He chose his secret life and I only asked for the openess and trust. After everything not given. I remained an open book pushing through the attacks on me. Now I find myself using the last of my love to not release the arrow. We never want to it hurts us more especially damaging humans once our experience is learnt and our true justification is there we release and leave. You had the chance. Both sides also need to be heard!! I can’t say this enough to suppress a sag is a cruelty in itself and we will leave or come for you for your wrong. There’s too much to write lol. I want this to work I love it so much and him more than myself something we don’t do. I’m at a loss. Love all of you.

  35. I’m a Sag girl that’s been dating (but mostly just sleeping with) a Scorpio male for 1 month. He tried and tried and tried for almost 4 months and I spurned his advances but then I got lonely and vulnerable and we did it. We kept sleeping together, we have amazing sexual chemistry, but our other chemistry is flawed. We’re both very secretive. We both like eachother, because when we’re together we have such sweet moments, but when we’re apart we’re like nonexistent to eachother. He told me that he loved me during sex on two different occasions, also he made me promise not to sleep with anyone else. But still, I remain detached because I do not want to smother him and I don’t know if I can trust him, because he’s so private. But I like the fact that he opens up about some things. But I feel the more detached I become the more it confuses and turns him off. He can’t figure me out. I just do not know how to be vulnerable. I treat him nicely though. If he asks for a favor I am right there to help and guide and I just want to better him as a person. He is so stubborn though. I just am so annoyed by this situation. We’re both stubborn. I don’t see this ending well.

    Another thing, with Scorpio men, they do not like to say thank you or show much gratitude. You can bend until you break and they’ll appreciate it but don’t like saying thank you I guess because it’s not masculine? And they can be very dependent in needing to be coddled and I just cannot do that. I want it to work so badly because the sexual chemistry is so intense but I don’t think it can.

  36. Scorpio woman here bad experience with sag he played lots of games and try to come around only when he wanted something n said whatever to get it inconsistent inconsiderate and very condescending

  37. Scorpio male here – I recently met and have been communicating with a sag woman who I am finding myself increasingly attracted to. I found her to be confident and forthcoming, and also found myself attracted to her dark side which she has only given me a small peek at. We have seen each other several times (distance is a factor) but have maintained semi-regular communication. I would love for this to blossom into something more but as it stands, I disappointingly don’t see that happening.

    Sag is a ‘new’ sign for me and I have no personal frame of reference. Regardless I think I could see right off the bat where the possible relationship tension points would be – I usually keep to myself and prefer one-on-one whereas she struck me as a social butterfly who gets more text messages in a minute than I receive in a week. I don’t hold that against her though, and I understand why many people would want to be her friend. I am more of a depressive scorpio than a jealous scorpio, so in this example I was okay but I think over time, if this pattern held consistent, I would be prone to feeling left out and disenchanted. The upside is that I felt like I trusted her as soon as we made eye contact – I know that is irrational but its not something I feel often and is undeniable. My impression is that it cut both ways because we both shared a lot and it felt natural.

    From a physical perspective, at least from my point of view, I also felt we were highly compatible. We have slept together all the times we have met up, and despite that this was a little fast for me, it was effortless. When I was holding her I could feel that she was as lonely as me which was cause for both comfort and concern – the concern is that our intimacy might be mechanical or instrumental, the comfort is that we have some strong shared emotions. My optimistic side tells me that I was only able to feel that because she wanted me to, and that ignited my protector instinct, making me feel more attached to her. My realistic side tells me that I need to take it for what it was and not unilaterally try to build a relationship out of how I feel (since that’s only half of the picture…and since it has gotten me into trouble in the past :/ ).

    The curveball is that she is also a scorp cusp. I have never found cusps to affect the general patterns very much, but maybe there was something here. I did notice at least a few occasions of complimentary nonverbal communication and I find non-verbal communication to be a common occurrence in company of other scorp.

    Usually it takes me at least several months to feel connected with someone like this, but it took a very short time with this sag. I don’t think she wants anything more than a friendship, which I am OK with but it also makes me sad. Maybe there is some shared experience in my anecdote – being drawn in very heavily by a sag but also kept at careful distance?

  38. It is a match which can never work. Sag is too superficial whereas Scorpio is too deep. As a Scorpio I can tell you that with Sag, I always feel there is something fake in their speech or in their way of being. A Sag man told me that he was scared to get too close to me. He acted like a real coward and if there is one quality I like in a person, man or woman, is courage.

    Sag seems to live life on the surface, without any real involvement or consideration for the other people. The ones I know are actually extremely narcissistic and they don’t even realize when they hurt people. If you want to get along with Sag, you have to be very fake and a kind of distant. I think the best sign for Sag is Aquarius because Aquarius are very detached and are not jealous or controlling. Aquarius are also free spirit and they don’t mind to have a partner as much volatile and flirtatious as Sag.

    According o my experience, the best friendship I had, as a Scorpio, was with a Leo and a Pisces but the rising sun and the rest of the chart is extremely important and everything has to be taken into account to have an overall view.

    For love relationship, I will never be with a Sag. They just listen to their desires. They do not care so much about other desires. Besides, they can be extremely boring and not very interesting. They change their minds often and they are also very focused on themselves. I basically escaped from every relationship I had with a Sag. Their conversation often evolves around themselves or the topics they like. They can also be extremely jealous and possessive.

    I definitely prefer to exchange with Leo, Pisces and Scorpios like me. With other Scorpios I feel at home and I am sure not to get headache or being neglected. I don’t think Sag are deep enough to love someone else than themselves.

    1. Because you don’t understand us,simple-that’s how you’re deep(facepalm).Ridiculous stuff.Only criticizing,nagging,silent treatment periods and bringing other’s down-Go to hell with such ‘depth’.
      You’ll never be with Sag?One happier sag more.Scorpio calling Sag jealous and possesiv?Give me a break or i die of laughter.Sag not able loving someone(obvious manipulation is obvious)?Maybe not you psychopaths scorpios,but guarantee you,there are people we can love ex.Aquas,Leeb’s,Arians.

  39. I’m a Scoprio been in love with a Sag. I was very attracted to her, physically, so as we naturally do, I started searching behind the surface. The search had a cost for me. You see, in order to find any deepness in Sag, you need to go very deep, and in order to go deep, you need to share things you wouldn’t otherwise. Unfortunately this strategy backfired at some point, as she thought she knew all about me and started to criticize me.

    The problem with Scorpios and Sags is, that Sorpio has many layers. He can be fun and outgoing and at the same time he can stay in for days and not want to communicate with anyone, or we do things we don’t really give a shit as a bridge to get somewhere, and of course, Sorps always have a plan. Sags on the other hand, claim they want the adventure and new things, what they don’t say thoughs is that they want all these in some others expense, and they won’t try hard to get the adventure they want. They dream about something, but they don’t really pursue it. Scorpios always pursue their dreams. Actually we don’t have dreams, we have goals. We need to go there and we will do anything possible to get there, even if we kill ourselves. This is something a Sag cannot understand and cannot appreciate. This is the big problem this relationship need to overcome.

    So when Sag is sharing a dream with a Scorpio, and if Scorpio really cares -cause if he doesn’t care, he doesn’t care-, he will do anything possible to make that dream true. This is so fascinating for Sags and perhaps new for them.About the honesty thing, they are not more honest than other signs, they are just tactless and they don’t know how to speak most of the times, and this is because they never try to achieve anything. Even if they love you, even if they want you with all their heart, they will never really believe that they can have you, they will not put any effort on that, not because they don’t care, but because they can’t overcome any obstacles, they can’t fight. They don’t fight, they just run, throwing arrows. People think they are light hearted and they don’t really care, not it’s because of their inability to aim, Sags are archers with no goals to aim, and they know it. They prefer to run.

    But you can’t run away from a Scorpio, can you?

    1. Do you really love her or do you look down on her?! And if you do love her what exactly do you love about her because you did not mention one positive trait. All I really saw in essence was “lazy, unrealistic, shallow.” I’m a Capricorn dating a Scorpio man but I have alot of Sag women in my life… and every single Sagittarius woman I know or have ever met is hard-working and goal-oriented. I can’t say the same for the men, but the women yes. And I don’t think Sags think they can’t have you and that’s why they don’t put effort in. Sag people are extremely forward and will tell you if they want you. The women are some of the most aggressive that I have met. With Scorpios though, what you consider “layers” a lot of other signs consider “weird,” “withdrawn,” and do not want to be bothered with you It simply becomes a nuisance trying to figure out your weird moods. My sister is a Sagittarius and is like an open book… I could imagine she would have a hard time connecting with a eerily mysterious Scorpio. And Sags don’t like to chase too long or too hard. Anything they want that they feel is not easily attainable has to be analyzed, “Is this really worth it?” and they usually decide, “eh, there’s more fish in the sea.” Scorpio is a sign that will play mind game after mind game after mind game and then call you weak and shallow for not sticking around through it. That coupled with you all’s moodiness, and the fact that you guys seem to think you all are the only ones with substance would be enough to drive Sagittarius crazy. I think you would be better off with a Pisces or a Cancer. If you like more aggressive women then Capricorn or Virgo. I imagine a Sag would get bored of you since you have so little in common, and Sag (especially the women I’ve known) are prone to infidelity when feeling bored or tied down.

      1. Oh please sag women are some straight up hateful beeeoches!

        I have never met a trustworthy one as a friend, they are garbage!

        As a scorp woman, I am one of the most open, upfront, honest people out there and out of AAALLLL women I will NEVER deal with a sag again if I can help it! The 2nd worse are libras and finally cappy women….YUCK!

        All you say may be true of scorp men or the ones you know, but do NOT make sags out to be saints, because they are FAR FROM IT!

  40. I’m a Scorpio woman dating a Sagittarius man . We only been dating for about a month but it feels like forever In a good way . He’s funny , honest, nd I do feel like he really cares about me but sometimes he gives me mixed signals . We see each other almost everyday but he don’t understand that I’m the type of Scorpio woman that you have to keep happy due to me recent heartbreaks. He seems to understand nd he wants us to work out . I see in his eyes that he do love me but sometimes I feel like I’m over extending myself . But he told me he’s gonna try and do better for me cause he wants to see me happy . Out off all the lying Taurus men I been with this Sagittarius is great .., I juss want to make sure it’s gonna work out for us in the long run . I don’t want us to part ways or he’ll be my next heartbreak ..

    1. Do not put all your eggs in one basket until you know for sure….

      I have never been attracted to a sag outside of friendship and my two male sag friends I do not speak to like I used to. One got married and the other pissed me off to the point where I no longer want anything to do with him. I have known them both for about 25 years.

      I think they make good friends for scorps, but relationships mehhh….they seem to be loyal, I’ve never known either of them to cheat, just no attraction to them for me.

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