Scorpio is a very complex and secretive Water sign. Libra, on the other hand, is an Air sign that has more light-hearted emotions than Scorpio. Libra is all about being harmonious and finding the beauty in everything around them, including their immediate environment. Libra enjoys being in the comfort of their home, just like they enjoy traveling to a beautiful country. Libra’s harmonious emotional nature is perfect for uplifting Scorpio when they get in a dark or confused mood. Scorpio is very intuitive and has the ability to read into Libra’s thoughts and feelings. This can make Libra feel ill at ease, at first, but eventually they feel comfortable with it.
Libra has an emotional need to be liked, and this makes them a very social, friendly, flexible, and cooperative person. Libra seeks to be in a peaceful environment with minimal conflict, noise or chaos. Scorpio also enjoys serenity, although Scorpio’s inner world can be quite turbulent. Scorpio can become jealous, resentful, possessive, and hateful — which are all feelings Libra will not be used to. If taken to an extreme, such emotions may even frighten Libra, Scorpio must therefore exert patience and give Libra the space they need. Libra will open up to Scorpio only when they feel completely ready.
Scorpio has the potential to stir up drama in the relationship is they feel that things are running too smoothly with Libra, because Scorpio gets suspicious when situations are too good. Scorpio does not enjoy taking part in small-talk, which is something that Libra does not mind as much, and this can lead to rifts in topics of conversation. Scorpio seeks drama, intensity, and passion in their relationship and will make sure it exists, one way or another.
On a good day, Scorpio and Libra can endlessly discuss the complexities of life, the hidden aspects of human nature, and investigating universal mysteries. Libra is constantly changing, yet inherently remains the same. Libra is attracted to Scorpio’s intensity and lust for life. Libra knows that Scorpio is the perfect person to go on intellectual adventures with, and he is grateful for Scorpio’s companionship. Both Scorpio and Libra need to be given the freedom to love without expectations. They both enrich each other’s lives emotionally and teach each other how to be better, more well-rounded individuals.
I’m in a longterm relation ship with a libra (7 years) . And it’s not easy at all. He is very immature and take everything I can say as an attack. It’s not easy. I know I’m not the sweetest talker and diplomate girl in the world. But I made effort and I became more calm just so we do not argue . He is selfish. I think that my relationship will not last very long, because he doesn’t change.
I have been in a long term relationship with a libra going on 3 years. I found myself chuckling when I read your statement. It pretty much sums up my relationship. But what I found that works for us is compromising and understanding. Also remembering what drew me to him also helps. Good Luck!
I am not in a committed relationship with a Libra yet myself and the Libra in my life are very drawn to one another. We have addressed that there is an intense magnetism between us. Although we are both extremely drawn to one another, this compatibility description addresses some of the main reasons we are not together.
I am intense and eager to dive deep within our relationship because I want to explore and better understand why we are so drawn to one another but he- as the Libra he is- requires space and patience from me. He needs space and often when he and I have intimate moments or conversations, he needs a few days of space. I don’t have much patience for his small talk or what I determine to be “pointless chatter.” Initially his tendency to initiate small talk infuriated me but now I just don’t engage much with it.
On a good day, our conversations are unlike any others that I have had. It’s amazing but it doesn’t happen as frequently as I’d like- being the Scorpio that I am.
We have not known each other all that long (roughly nine months). Regardless, his lightheartedness and ease in life has taught me a lot during these transformative months. As I am in the process of shedding many skins, there are days or weeks that I am incredibly turbulent and caught within much of my darkness. So long as it is not a terrible day in which I am cynical and negative, his lightheartedness helps me break from the darkness. His presence in my life has been very beneficial, regardless of the unclear terms of our relationship. Granted, I recognize there will come a point that I will want to make the terms of the relationship VERY clear. We will see how it all plays out.
This sounds exactly like my relationship with my “best friend”. I love him, he drives me crazy, he will probably never be ready and we can’t stay away from each other. I have learned so much from this man, it’s unbelievable. He’s teaching me trust, patience and understanding. However, there are some days when I want to give up on it because ge takes me there and then pulls away from me. I don’t know how much longer this can go on though.
Hey Emily damn you hit it right on the spot man I’m actually in a relationship with a Libra and I’m a Scorpio myself I want to know how things are playing out for you . our stories are very similar
Libras are very intuitive creatures themselfs they know when and when not to … Balance.
I have been in an on-again-off-again relationship w/ a Libra-Scorpio for 5+yrs. It hasn’t been easy, and sometimes I have wondered if it is even worth it, but we can never stay separated for too long. I think we have emotionally (and intellectually) manipulated each other until we, somehow, redefined it as Love. He is everything that I am not. I am everything that he is not.. yet we are the same. We fulfill each other, and too often we destroy one another; however, we learn to Love all over again.
I was in a 7 yr long relationship with a libra. It was a roller coaster of joy and pain! We ended very badly and I spoke on the bad with people only. We didn’t know how to communicate correctly, so with my Scorpio traits we clashed hard. Every time we separated it would be short lived, even after cheating I would find myself drawn back to him. It has been an entire year where we never spoke or saw eachother in person. Dated people but I have still been messing him and his libra ways! We recently ran into eachother and spoke. Everyone I spoke with threaten not speaking to me if we get back together and yet our signs magnetism is so strong. With how deep we scorpios are I am going through so many levels of confusion trying to figure out if the we can truly be in a relationship. There is a lot of work involved when trying to make a relationship last between a Scorpio and libra! As side note I feel like I need to learn how to deal with libras more In-depth due to the revaluation I did when I figured out I have 2 sons, mother, boyfriend(ex, or idk now) , step-son, brother-in-law, and I’m forget getting some but they are all libra!!! As a Scorpio I am surrounded by libras in every area of my life!
Im the libra
Hes the scorpio
Hit it off kmmediatrly
But gor tgese very reasons ive pulled away
Verbally abusive very possessive
We were roomies
Not lovers
He insued his controling tactics
And i literally packed up and moved to another state
This dud mot keep us from tslking again
I hated that hed be so vengeful and reeentful
Like seriously how can you harbor such horid feelings and wish desth on someone?!?
Overall hes a great guy with a huge heart
A little fake at times just to get ehat he wantd
But overall genuine and passionate
Anywhoo my mother was s scorhis mom is a lib
So the affinity was there
It still is
But i know i cant be with him unless i am
In a more confident and secure place in my life
Because he. .. Insists on it being his way or the highway
(-_-)
Had a tremendous attraction with a Scorpio girl but being the shy Libra, it took me a few months to call her for dinner at home..Alone. And then a month more to ask her out. But things were intense for her even before i called her home for dinner. Running around me like a nymphomaniac, trying to find ways to get close to me and touch also sometimes, standing near me doing nothing, bending down to show her a** purposely and all the usual scorpio desperation i guess.
Things went well until with the first date. One fine day, i said something untentionally that SHE didn’t like. BIG FAT EGO got hurt, it picked up a grudge and she got her revenge in this way:
We were having a casual conversation about trying a frappucino from my store and i said i could buy one and bring it to her. She said it would be hot by the time i reach her place. (Usual Scorpio drama, which we Librans HATE by the way!!)
Since it was a nice sunny day, i asked what she thought about stepping out of her home for a frapuccino. I agree that it is rude and this question did not come out as well as i thought it would..so i instantly asked her out for a frapuccino, realising i made a mistake with the question earlier. I guess that wasn’t enough!!
We decided a place and time for the next day and she insisted i decide the place quickly because she had to go to sleep at 8pm(Scorpio drama again!!!)
Next day, I reached the decided place before time and waited for her 3 hours at a transit centre nearby. 3 hours!!!!!
She never showed up.
Best part happens now.
She sent a text at the end of the day saying she forgot her house keys inside her room, which she locked by mistake with all her belongings, including phone, and that she did not remember anyone’s contact info. Everything a BIG FAT LIE. Just like her BIG FAT EGO.
I was upset that day( and for the next two weeks). Next day, i sent her a text saying its okay. We’re all humans and we make mistakes.
No reply. Two days later, i asked her how she was doing. No reply. I broke down emotionally after two days and sent a long text saying that it was obvious that her excuse was a big fat lie and i’m not going to wish her on her Birthday(Scorpios hate that, i know) and that i am done with her for this life.
A week later, she sent a text saying if i am not going to talk to her ever. (Another BIG FAT LIE)
I didn’t feel like talking to her at all but after a week more of sulking, I thought about asking her why she wrote such a big lie and then she had tons of lies more to cover up her initial lie. “My phone must have been off, i never received any of your messages after the day we were supposed to meet” “The world is not perfect” etc. etc.
Trying to act normal after her devilish action!! And she also had the audacity to ask me for coffee after this incident. “Just want you to be okay with me” she said What a crazy, manipulative and predictable woman!!! That’s when i decided to cut things off forever.
Who does such stuff with people you care about?? I know she cared about me but i guess Narcissists care more about themselves than anyone else. That’s what most Scorpio’s are, aren’t they?
Complimenting her appearance, helping her deal with a challenging career, being helpful in finding a new place for her, encouraging her to study more and learn to cook so she could improve her earnings and reduce her expenses respectively. And tons of other gestures from my side, because I truly cared for her. And by the way, Scorpios can only care if others care, other wise they don’t give a sh*t. She started caring because i cared so much about her. Turned out to be Frickin’ narcissist.
None of the above was enough for the egoistic girl i was planing to date. Thankfully, i cut myself off before she could intentionally hurt me more for something hurtful i unitentionally say. I don’t even reply to her texts now.
I did wish her on her Birthday and will continue to do so as a ritual till the day she realises her mistake. Honestly, I will be more than happy if she finds a good guy for herself. (We Librans care that much, just so you know)
I could have turned her whole life upside down for what she did and the lies she said but we Librans aren’t egoistic and revenge seekers like Scorpios. And miserable people like her will find a way to destroy their own life. They don’t need my help.
Karma, bith**s. :^D
Librans very very rarely expect anything in return from others and in my case, I just wanted her to be a good friend, if not a girlfriend, but for reasons explained above, I can’t even be friends with her anymore.
She still sends me a message to wear something warm, if she sees me in the bus someday wearing a light sweater in somewhat cold conditions. She wouldn’t give a sh*t even if i had died waiting for her!
In fact, now i just don’t care whether she suffers or stays happy without me. (Be very afraid because Librans can be colder than the coldest of scorpios)
You are the worst human beings, Scorpios. Period.
Wowwwwwww ! Yuh
Thank you for all the interesting comments. As a libra involved with a scorpio a lot of your issues are on my plate as well. But i would like to thank a few of you for expressing the fact that there is lots of relationship drama with a scorpio. There is only it always looks like i do something wrong lol like its always my fault. So thank you I’m going to secretly start rolling my eyes and reminding myself that its just drama.
I also feel the idea of walking away very acutely at times. But cupid hit me with one of his infernal arrows and I am completely helpless. At my age the pros in the relationship far outweigh the cons. And I think in our society today we tend to be quick to decide to just bail out. By all means if you are truly being abused some way then pull your pants up and get the hell out of it. And no I’m not being uppity and just saying that. I walked away from a 31 year realtionship with someone who will possibly never admit he has a problem. But I am proof that you can leave. And life is better when you dont have to listen to them, see them or do anything with or for them.
I have raised a few children who are all very successful despite the alcoholism they grew up surrounded by. It was worth counting the pennies and nickels and dimes to buy milk for breakfast some mornings. At this point in my life I wont be making any more babies and I dont want to raise anyone else’s either. My remaining years are my time to be lived as much on my terms that the forces of the universe will allow.
Ultimately only YOU can decide if a relationship is going to be good for you. No one is perfect. And no one will ever be perfect. Anyone we meet is going to require that we practice Acceptance or the list of failed relationships will just continue to grow.
Do your best to be your best YOU. And work on making sangria out of some of the bruised fruit that you come across on the road of your existence. Good Luck!!!
Hello,
I am the Scorpio and the guy is a Libra.
So I am going to tell you guys a story, So I met this Libra on the first day of college, we were matched in an uber pool. I honestly did not know what was going on because we both came from the same school. So I was just standing there waiting for the uber driver to pull up and next thing I see is a guy going inside the uber (I didnt expect the person I matched with went to the same school as me) and I was like “wait is this my uber?” so I asked the driver, “Is this for Cat?” he was like “yeah” then the uber driver asked the other dude “are you so and so” he was like “yeah.” Okay, usually all the guys that I would pool with aren’t my type whatsoever, but him omg it was crazy. So we me and Libra started talking in the uber. At first I was kinda just ignoring him because I was so tired and I just wanted to go home but he had some interesting topics, anyways, he has all the qualities I find in a guy like who knew? We had so much in common, like we both found out we have a love for political science, we both love being independent and we love talking, like we are both super social. Anyways, after having a 30 minute long conversation with Libra we finally got to the part where we introduce ourselves LOL. He also lives in the same city as me!! So like I meet a great guy in an uber from school (which is 30 mins aways from where we both live) Here’s the interesting part, I think it is a Thursday and I have astronomy at 12pm I usually sit towards the back but I was kind of late that day so I had no choice really, so I had to sit in the front. Next thing you know it, I see Libra sitting a row in front of me, diagonally from me!! We both were so shocked and we just laughed it out. Class was starting, I could see in the corner of my eye that he couldn’t stop staring at me, like I legit caught him staring at me once bc I looked at him. I honestly thought it was cute. He kept doing it for a few days and I was like okay yay!! he’s kind of noticing me! I found him on instagram and I followed him and I messaged him on instagram ( he followed me back) and we had a great conversation until I mentioned asking for his number…I dont know if he is a conservative but it seemed like he didnt want to give his number away to me because he read the message and didnt reply, so I just said “well goodnight!” and he said gn back… It kinda made me upset, but anyways I guess I got over it but he kept staring at me in class because knowing me, if a guy gives me any sort of attention, I think hes in to me, and I hate that about myself, so I would focus on the negatives, the cons of me ever liking him, but it did make me smile when I catch him staring at me. His birthday comes, He sits right in front of me, like seriously bro, anyways he tells me he just turned 20 and in my head I’m like “but your’e a 2nd year in college and he graduate hs in 2015” and t he couldnt have been held back a grade because he is so smart. But anyways I told him my birthday is in November so like a couple weeks from now and then I told him I was turning 18 and he was like “so your’e 17” I was like “yeah” and then like what I’ve noticed recently, he wasn’t really looking at me, like it made me lowkey sad that he wasn’t really looking at me and smiling. Anyways, I know this may sound weird but I’ve been really thinking about him lately and I’m just trying to get over him but it seems like everything I do isn’t working. My bestfriend tells me I should just say hi and start a convo but I am scared too. I dont know what to do, please help what do I do?? (if you read this far your’e a real one, just saying)
Hey. It sounds like he might be playing hard to get or perhaps he wants you to be the one to initiate any kind of convo & such. Libras like attention they need to feel wanted and like when people are interested in them, they seek to be accepted and when they aren’t they feel rejected and perhaps a little sad. You probably aren’t making things any better by debating whether to make a move or not. You should just go for it. Also you may have come off too strong too soon when you asked for his number. This turns libras off when people come off too strong. They like to only really touch the surface of things (unlike scorpio) & never really dive head first into any sort of commitment. I say give him what he wants. Engage him in small talk, go back & fourth with him, libras love that. Until one day he might decide to really give you a try. But until then, give him space he needs that he will appreciate it. Be the best you possible. Show your best qualities. Avoid being the negative half of yourself around him. Libras hate conflict so don’t be confrontational no matter what. I myself have been head over heels over a libra for almost two yrs now ! & have gotten no where except a few dates & a lot of laughs. They really need space ! A shit ton of it !! I think our feelings towards libras are 3x more than libras feeling towards us. They can’t help it its who they are. Your probably over thinking it. Don’t! Just go with the flo & like i mentioned give him space !
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So I’m a Scorpio Sun with a Libra Venus dating a Libra Sun with a Scorpio Venus and Rising. We love eachother truly and it’s hard to stay apart, but Libra and Scorpio are not easily compatible at all! Prepare for a constant back and forth, but it’s the sexiest sign and prettiest together!
Reading these comments made me realize that telling my Libra boyfriend today I can’t be his woman anymore was the right thing to do….we cannot communicate, it’s always a debate and I’m being defensive. He stuck in his own ways and feel like I’m always coming for him…and although I’m the same way, I do listen and try to change, he doesn’t. He doesn’t like my fiesty-ness but try to tolerate and I can’t be with someone who is tolerating me, I’m a Scorpio and always gonna be one no matter how much i change or calm down. We scare them too much libras aren’t ready for us…friends is all it should be…if that even lasts smh…i give up…love him dearly but I want to be me.
I am dating a Libra man as a Scorpio woman. It definitely has its ups and downs…lol. But, weirdly enough we can’t get away from each other. We have both tried and we just always come back to one another. It is insane. We have the same friend group and our friends basically watched us dance around each other in a deep, dark trance until we actually got together. It was our mutual issues with the “spotlight” and “public opinion” that really tore us apart. Once we got together, we were both scared but neither one felt it was a legit option to leave. He’s never been this close and forthcoming with another person, and neither have I. It has been the most intense experience of my life. He calms me, he makes me practice mental discipline, he makes me feel alive and doesn’t even realize it. He’s the only person who has never succumb to this weird Scorpio charm I have (due to the fact he has mercury and mars in Scorpio). I found him fascinating. He found me stressful and beautiful. I feel like in a weird way, we are the gender-bender version of the Beauty and the Beast.
As a Scorpio woman, we tend to get obsessed about finding out how much someone loves us. Are they willing to care about us? Are they willing to climb into the unknown and be willing to take the first step just in case it’s too dangerous? We pry, we poke and we are never satisfied with answers. We’re disappointed easily by love even though we keep trying. We smother them with an invisible blanket that they don’t even know they have on until it’s too late.
This was true until I met him. He unlocked the most beautiful things inside me. I feel that I am slowly becoming one with my mind. I have found someone to organize it, heal it all without even trying. I have found myself by loving him.
OMG I’d love to meet you! You sound so much like me!
I’m reading all the comments on this match and none of it seems to match what I have going on. I’m a libra involved with a scorpio who is very talkative we have great conversations and understand each other on this deep level. It’s always been there these feelings. We make each other feel safe and have a hard time saying goodbye. My point is is that it depends on where you are maturity wise if you haven’t fully found yourself of course you aren’t going to be happy because you still have a lot of growing to do as a person but at least for us we both know who we are and we respect how different the other is and that makes things go a lot smoother.
I’m a libra woman who currently has been getting on with a Scorpio man very well so far.
Most of the comments I’m seeing are Scorpio women complaining over a libra man. It’s better if the libra is a woman in the relationship while the Scorpio is the man. Most libra men tend to be too soft or too emotional. I’ve seen it, trust me. Scorpio women tend to be a tad bit more intense than Scorpio men, especially in regards to attitude. That behavior tends to push libra males away because every libra strives for peace and balance.
But besides all that, I’m a libra female interested in a Scorpio male. We’ve been friends for a while and I’m planning on actually moving to his state and meeting him in person for the first time. We video chat and talk over Xbox (we’re both big on gaming). The relationship was almost blissful at the start. We would flirt a lot and have deep conversations about everything. He’d tell me how much he wanted me in his arms and how he wanted to just hold me close. He’d tell me how beautiful I was and how cute I look when I blush. Those little cheesy things would get to me. I’d melt like butter. Gradually over time, he started getting into trouble and became distant. He’s slowly coming back from it but I won’t give up. We argue and bicker over small things but nothing serious or dire that it would damage the relationship. He does brood a bit and say some rather mean things from time to time. But I’ve learned to accept this as his way of being honest with me. He’s helped me get out of my shell more and I’ve helped him with communication. He’s a lot more talkative now since he’s been speaking to me.
Hello. I have also being in companionship of childhood friend who is Librian . Now I feel to be more than one with him like his Partner. Since he’s not talking to me after the quarrel like he was before. Awaiting me. I would be happy if we stay together for the rest of life.