Where Scorpios come to soar.

Scorpio & Gemini

A Scorpio-Gemini match can be both fascinating and frustrating. Gemini has a much more light-hearted approach to love and friendship than Scorpio (for the most part). Gemini does not seem as committed, or at least they do not display their need for commitment with as much vigor as Scorpio. Scorpio is usually a very serious and faithful partner, while Gemini can be freedom-loving, inconsistent, and evasive. The different approaches in the way Scorpio and Gemini shows love and affection can be alarming and confusing.

Positively speaking, Gemini adds a lot of enthusiasm, liveliness, good humor and fun into the relationship. Gemini is likely to think of unique and exciting date ideas and they can always bring up a topic of conversation which is interesting and stimulating for Scorpio. However, Scorpio may sometimes not feel emotionally secure with Gemini, because they seem to have two natures: sometimes Gemini is very affectionate and loving, and other times Gemini seems indifferent and cold. Scorpio never knows what they’re going to get with Gemini, and this can be deeply unsettling for Scorpio. Scorpio fears that Gemini will not always be there for them.

Scorpio likes to know what happens next, and when they enter a relationship they are in it for the long-haul. Gemini, on the other hand, tends to live in the present moment and takes things one step at a time, without much concern for thinking too far in the future. In fact, if Gemini feels pressured to commit before they are ready to, they will feel the need to run away from the relationship. If Gemini is given the freedom and independence they so deeply crave, then Gemini is more likely to be satisfied and remain in the partnership.

Luckily, Scorpio enjoys their solitude because they are very independent themselves. Therefore, Scorpio may not always feel the need to be tied to the hip with their partner. They can be a bit shy when it comes to love, but if Gemini is able to break down their barriers using their sharp humor and witty conversation skills, scorpio will eventually open up to them — but only if they gain and keep their trust and does not play mind games with them. Scorpio is a highly dependable lover, and Gemini should not take their loyalty for granted.

This relationship works best if you both work on your own interests and projects, while uniting when you both need each other’s support. You can make a formidable team if you find a balance between sharing your passions and also respecting each other’s need for seclusion. The key to overcoming the potential challenges in Gemini-Scorpio pairing is to learn to love and appreciate each other’s differences. Scorpio and Gemini are attracted to what makes each other so different. They should embrace their eccentricities rather than change them.

69 responses to “Scorpio & Gemini

  1. Oh yes! This is SO true! I’ve been married to a Gemini for 13 years, and he does everything as described. Our biggest issue has been the online flirting with other women, as well as his lack of interest intimately; of which he claims is due to his PTSD. We’re both retired military. They ate VERY complex beings, and after 13 years I still haven’t figured him out. It drives me batty, as I’m very overly analytical lol. We’re still here together though. One thing that I don’t doubt is his love for me, or I wouldn’t still be here. Thank you for this awesome read. I’m definitely sharing it with him.

    1. I’m a Gemini woman and I got raped while I was in a relationship with a Scorpio man..he thinks of it as cheating and broke up with me and doesn’t ever wanna see me but I know he is hurting because his parents and friends are telling me this. He also cried when breaking up. He said after the incident he hasn’t loved me anymore. I don’t have any proof except my constant truth that I know but he still feels betrayed. He said right now he needs space but later he wants to be friends. I love him and didn’t mean to “cheat” on him, I don’t wanna be just friends but I’m afraid to go up to him and talk even just a simple hi. What should I do I don’t know if he will hate me, I’m probably the last person he wants to see but I really want to see him. He means so much to me I can’t explain it. And I’m trying to do the no contact rule but being a gemini I’m always paranoid that he will forget me and move on. Does he still love me and do I have a chance? Will he come back and what should I do?

      1. Why would you want to be with someone who does not understand you were raped?

        Scorpios are generally loyal to a fault, if you are the one…so he may come around, but again I would not want someone who could not be more understanding about such a traumatic event.

    2. I’m a Scorpio just broke it off with my Gemini now he finds a hundred and one reason to text or call even though I told him i need some time to heal it’s like talking to a wall anyone else dealing with this?

        1. That is sooooo True
          , We Gems want what we cant have but uhh eventually ends up gettn it anyway. We’re clever lil fucks

  2. Scorpio girl here . I have been dating a Gemini man for 3 years on and off ( currently off rite now lol ) . All I’m going to say is Scorpio run for your life this man will bring out the worst in you please believe me . When we first started dating , I wasn’t looking for any thing serious and I really was not interested in him at all , but I said what the hell just have fun . I have never been more attracted to someone in my life . The sex is unexplainable because the thing is I have had better sex in the physically form but he takes you to another place with his sex it’s so amazing. Being a Scorpio I take pride in being loyal Gemini on the other hand wouldn’t know what that word meant if you smacked them in the mouth with it . We are always fighting and not on speaking terms but some how he will never just go away !!!!! And whenever he comes back I’m rite there to answer and take him back its almost like he has a power over me .I love and crave him just his touch alone melts me

      1. Hi I’m a Gemini and I have been in a relationship with my SCORPIO boyfriend and he left me for a girl for no reason left me never called or texted why he wanted too break up!!! And like a month later he texts me do you wanna get back together and I’d took him back and he started too cheat more and that’s when I started too cheat and it was a hole Lotta bullshit he was texting bitches and I’d I was but then we broke up all the time an got right back together and I’d always told him how I felt and he always never gave a shit and he never gave a shit ever and I was just sitting here in this relationship and he was saying I love you and he started saying I never went too hurt I’m sorry this year 2018 is are 3 year being in this relationship in 2016 that’s when we was babysitting and like August he says this and starts too get tattoos of me tells me how he feels and I just feel like should I still trust him or should I still love him for what he did and what I did. Was alot and he says he loves me but he don’t know should he trust me and I give him my all and I stayed loyal for him I lost all my friends for him BC he was jealous he doesn’t even want me talking too my girl bestfriend BC I have instagram and she comments nice things about me and I feel like the reason he’s doing this is BC he wants me all too him self BC he’s selfish and I love that about him….. But he thinks I don’t care about him or love him but if I didn’t care I wouldn’t never took him back I love him so much and it’s hard too let him know BC he thinks I’m lying and he says no matter what we go threw he’ll never forget me and he says even if I don’t love him he loves me this one day we was arguing about me talking too a old friend that texted me on instagram and it was a boy and I reads it and respond he tells me I told u don’t text no boys and I wasn’t even flirting with this guy’s. And he says go Fuck with him and leave me on read all the way until tomorrow and says I love you Bae and says wyd and I just one day texted I hate you and he gets mad and says what and I’m crying and he says you really do hate me and I says no I hate what you do and now he thinks I really truly hate him… What should I say. And how do I make him forgive me and believe me.!!!!!

    1. Kia…3 years?! Kudos to you. I am in a similar situation with my Gemini boyfriend of 3 months and I feel like it’s been way longer than that.

    2. Story of my life, three years as well, also off
      Seriously it’s draining and ridiculous but I’m always there to let them come back
      I’m trying to get away…baby steps

    3. Girl… I’m a Scorpio woman. I feel the exact same way! It’s like our souls connect when we look in each other’s eyes and while having sex it’s nothing I could ever explain until I saw your post, so amazing!!! He fits my sexual needs to a T but then comes the next day and it’s a disaster because he doesn’t talk/text as much as the day before and I get pissed and start a fight because I hate being ignored.. We have a connection unlike anything I have ever experienced in my life in the bedroom.. He pisses me off so bad with the lack of what he wants or where we stand but doesn’t want me with anyone else and is extremely jealous over me! Wants his cake and eat it too, that sure as hell doesn’t work with me. Our fights are insane, neither one of us give up until we cut deep but then lol makeup sex!!!

    4. Ugh wow, I feel you on so many levels. I pretty much cut him off beginning of this year and now I can sense he’s slowly crawling back and it’s been two years.. there’s been so much inconsistency but also so much adventure. He always manages to lure me back in that same vicious cycle/pattern! he’s like Mr. Big in satc (didn’t work out essentially because of the long distance) but when he’s in town, always brings out the best but also the worst in me sigh -_-

    5. Omg, guys this is so me right at this moment with my partner. It’s like he has power over me, and I’m so emotionally weak that I just never fully let go.

  3. Wao, I just was looking for advice about that I can’t get out my head this germini man, so this 2 girls explain my inconvenience so let me read again and again so l can learn how to deal with flirting / nightmare / adorable / love-hate man

  4. I’m a gem woman dating a Scorpio man. yes there are differences ive noticed. We get along pretty well. We don’t argue..But we do have a lot of discussions.
    I don’t know why we are described in general as big flirts and scared of commitment. I actually do want commitment with the right person I can see myself with for the long term. I am not a flirt in general either.

    1. Same hefe. I’m a GEM and been with my beau for 3 years on and off. I can see myself committing to him but he’s still in his shell as well as I am. Idk what we’re waiting on but we’re going to keep trying for the best.

    2. Women and men of every sign are different.

      The men are usually the bigger douche bags, but there are some women who give the men a run for their money.

  5. I am Scorpio lady. He is the best sexual bean that i ever had so sensual and in touch with me in bed, but after 3 months we broke up. He told me that i start pressure and make him feel like he can’t breath, but now after 2 months he is back…again sexual chemistry wild and passionate..we Scorpio are craving to know next step and they are like lets just relax and have fun. Maybe that is what attracts me the most, that free mind approach and loving life style.Don’t know if we gonna make it, but maybe there lies a beauty of all story. But we scorpion’s like to knoooow hahahaha

  6. I have a problem with this because I am a Scorpio woman, and every time I find myself really ‘feeling it’ with a guy, I find the guy is a Gemini (more often than not).

    I know that famously the Scorpio/Gemini partnership is one of the worst in the zodiac, but it’s their fun loving nature; ability to make people relax and their attentiveness that is so attractive to me. I always sense that they are genuine; heart on your sleeve kind of people. However, I always sense a form of vulnerability in Gemini men that is also attractive to me. The bravado so often masks a deeper intellect and emotional wellspring that the Gemini will not allow themselves to explore. So, as a Scorpio I want to help the Gemini to explore that part of themselves, but the Gemini really doesn’t care enough to take the journey; which I can’t understand, why would you not partake of an opportunity to ‘know yourself’ better?

    The biggest problem with the Scorpio/Gemini combo is that the attraction is definitely there when first you meet; and you can have so much fun together, and genuinely like each other as people, but it seems that the long term outlook is grim. Perhaps Scorpios and Geminis are destined to be ‘just friends’…and occasionally ‘with benefits’…ha!

    …I just wish I would stop finding Geminis so damn attractive though…

    1. I recently started seeing a Gemini man who has been a family friend for all our lives. His sister was my best friend but died in a car accident 8 years ago. She tried to get me to date him about ten years ago but I valued her friendship too much. Their mom tried to get us to date several times since then but he just doesn’t seem like my type. Now after over a year of being apart I am helping him through a difficult breakup. He wants to jump in and be serious but I am overly cautious. He doesn’t have boundaries and he is manipulative but he plays it off like he is such a “heart on your sleeve” good guy. Which, it’s true, he is generous and helpful but usually when he has ulterior motives. I have allowed myself to get too close to him but will not sleep with him. I wish bi had never gotten so close because bobbin having a hard time breaking it off with him especially because he has been a friend for so long. It’s extremely hard for me to trust people and we are such different people, in a way that repulses me from him. I have told him that I just want to be friends but he continues to push my boundaries and overstep them and be overly suggestive that there is something more between us. I agree, run away as fast as you can Scorpio. Do not allow yourself to be vulnerable to this sign because they will steal your energy 10x over. I’m working on an escape plan.

    2. No, Scorpio women are into the game and trying to figure someone out!! Problem is, one day you know the Gem the next day you don’t (maybe?) I feel that he is confident yet insecure, you have to understand both for him to open up!! Ha. He doesn’t get to figure me out like that and I like it that way, leaves him guessing!! Play his game better but not falling in love is the trick. Don’t allow the confusion and emotions to consume you, stay in control over the situation! Scorpios will always be 5 steps ahead of the Gemini..

  7. Omg, this is SO us. I am a Scorpio and he is a Gemini, been together 6 years, but somehow spent many of it apart, (jobs, school, a separation, travel, ect) We’ve always gotten along so much better when apart (if he can stay in communication with me). My Gemini also has issues flirting/talking to random girls online, and we don’t have much of a sex life at the moment (his choices, NOT MINE) which is a big issue for me. I could go on and on but this is just so us in so many ways. I always wonder why I stay, then somehow I remember when it’s good why I stay. He’s pretty complicated and I never know which him I’ll get when he wakes up in the mornings, but I think I’m much more complicated, to complicated even for myself sometimes. No wonder he can’t handle me most of the time. Sigh. Wish things were simpler!

    1. I’m. gem woman. Involved with a Scorpio man. He acts the same way as your describing the gen man. I mean the same exact way. It’s so weird

  8. I can’t believe I was reading my story…Kia just describe myself and my husband…we love each other but can’t be together… KIA explained how she didn’t like him at first and the everything happens, about the sex same thing not the best sex but he is just amazing… But he flirt a lot and I got tired and kick him out…I miss him so much but he is so cool and flirt to much I can go crazy, I know he loves me but we can’t be together… He will always be the love of my life.

  9. Accurate! This is share my story.. But I really love him. Beside that he is sering another zodiac which is a capricorn. I just wish he made his choice asap!!

    1. Exactly what I’m going through with him 3yrs off and on broke it off to be with a woman who bought him a car.. ( they are opportunists as well) but after months of trying to stay away… As soon as he calls im there.. Smh… I hate it that I love him so much.

  10. Im a Gemini woman and I’ve fallen for a scorpio. In all relationships you’ve gotta be patient with the growth of your partner. So dont pressure your Gemini into anything they don’t want to do. Btw gemini love deeply. I’m a flirt but when im in love I’m committed to my man a 100%. stop thinking too much scorpios.

    1. You are right… I’ve noticed that a Patient Scorpio will get through to a Playful Gemini. But for sure Scorpios will over analyze everything… that’s something I’m still working on!!! Thanks for the pointers

  11. I’m a Scorpio man, my Gemini woman has several guy friends, and many other time commitments. I see how the time apart allows me to recharge and space gives understanding. But I can only imagine a future where I am never quite immersed in the relationship, where I have to settle for living out my independence (which I love) but without someone waiting on me. This is just odd and hard to grasp. -Josh

    1. Josh so as a Scorpio you like it that a Gemini has their own life and can pursue her own dreams while you recharge? I love my Scorpio but he can be suffocating at times and then painfully distant. There’s no in between. I know now that when he’s distant he’s recharging from what I’ve been reading. But he says he trusts me and loves me. Any suggestions? I can see myself completely immersed in him but being such an independent sign I can’t live like that. I think that’s why we do so well together because when I’m independent and doing my own thing I reassure him that I will be home and he has nothing to worry about so he can relax and focus on recharging and doing him.

  12. I am a Scorpio woman and i am currently in the process of getting to know a gemini woman. It is soo hard because it is confusing as hell knowing id she wants me or not since she loves her freedom, but this describes both of us soo perfectly. But i guess with time we will see if this hopefully grows into something because I am already attracted to her. Emotionally and physically

    1. I’m a scorpio woman in love with a Gemini woman and it’s awesome. At first me and my gf was like this for 4 years but thats just a Gemini way of saying they aren’t ready and unless a Gemini heart n mind is not made up and isn’t ready to commit it would always be back n forth but hold on I guarantee you when a Gemini fall inlove and wants to commit to you it’s the best feeling in the world!!!!

  13. Oh my god this is so me and the gemini guy I’ve been dating!! I feel like we are going to break up every week and we are always having deep conversations about our differences like how we show we like each other in different ways. I totally want to know what’s next for us and want him to commit and he is so go with the flow and doesn’t want to be tied down. It’s so frustrating! But I think I’m starting to understand him a little bit more and just accept the differences and embrace them. I hope our relationship works out. I’m crazy about him. <3

  14. Wow this is so true I’ve been with a gemini man for 8 years on and off mostly on but its like a rollercoster ride thru hell then heaven constantly!

  15. Hahaha OMG this is exactly me and my girlfriend. I’m a Gemini woman dating a Scorpio woman. Actually. If you are open n honest n loyal to your Scorpio then you’re not gonna have any problems.
    Key is communication with the Scorpio . No secrets. No lies. Be open and honest .
    I actually want to settle down . Not be flirty n flaky as what my sign says. OMG.

  16. OMG!!!!!!! This is soooo me. I am a Scorpio male who is falling in love with a Gemini male. Every week I try to separate from him , because I can’t figure him out. I can’t though it’s like I’m addict to him. Then he’s so charming he pulls me in everytime. I am a loyal person but I can tell appreciates it but still he wants to be free. He’s a very flirty guy and it pisses me off I hate it. Then he keeps telling me be patient and open minded and stay positive and like we are going to move to the next step. He is a Dl bisexual guy so that does add an entire different dynamic to the situation. There is defiantly a bond between us. I love him.

    I had a relation with an gimini before and that was a rocky 4 year relationship and ended badly. Knowing this I still find myself very very very attracted to gemini’s even though every horoscope says we are terrible together. Although when I I’m with an Gemini sparks fly. I just don’t understand, and Pisces men are impossible to find. I’m starting to believe Pisces has the lowest population out of the zodiac signs.

    1. It’s because Pisces are always hiding!! My best friend is a Pisces gay man and he is always complaining about how he can’t meet a good guy that wants a stable relationship. It’s because he is always looking in the wrong places and doesn’t put himself out there into groups that have his interests in mind. He’s usually going to cafes, the gym, and all these hetero normative places that don’t allow him to mingle with other men openly. He is also very much a homebody and he likes to shop for his home. Hopefully that helps you. Stay away from Gemini! :p

  17. I am a Scorpio female who seems to attract Gemini men like crazy. I don’t know what it is, but it honestly drives me nutz. I recently started seeing one AGAIN and it’s been back and forth, but he makes me laugh like no other. The sex is really great and only gets better. It’s the push pull. I also wonder if this guy is my twin. I’ve realized a lot of things that piss me off are things I am guilty of myself. Although, I wouldn’t say I am inconsistent like this mofo. Seriously though, I don’t need him. But I do want him. Like crazy! As long as the Gemini man keeps it real, honest, and loyal, I’m so down.

  18. I’m a gemini female deeply in love with a scorpio female and everything I’ve been reading has been similar to my situation. I had several stings from scorpios and yet can’t get enough of the scorpio sting. My closest relationships have been with scorpios. They are super supportive and loving and then theres the side that is way too serious. I don’t know how to get deep emotionally with a scorpio because of the intensity that emotions bring. My recent ex scorpio and I broke up due to me just not being ready for the full on relationship. Its so intense between us when we are together officially. She wants the security that I can provide yet she does her own lil flirting and always befriending new thirst buckets lol. I personally am not pressed to be with anyone. She likes her ego stroked and I don’t stroke ego. I tell her the truth and its received as me judging her. I don’t feel I can keep it real with her about her and so when I feel I am restrained from expressing myself freely I don’t want to deal with someone. So I broke up with her. In less than a month after our break up shes in another relationship. Our on and off situation has been over the course of 2 years and it always works out where one of us are coming out of a relationship or situation. I felt like our friendship was best but our love runs so deep for one another. Its wild how we are drawn to each other yet so at odds with each other. This is the first time I’ve experienced the back and forth with an ex. There was one that I dated and we never got back together but had a connection. This time around I’m learning to accept how much I love her and still move on. You would think love could be enough but its definitely not. I pray for that woman every night for her happiness for her safety and for her health. I try to stay close enough so that the line of communication is still open but not be too vulnerable. I hate feeling too much at once. It over whelms and when I can just be a friend and keep it real that’s the best feeling. To share my thoughts and ideas is another great feeling. Well to those who are still together you definitely give me hope.

  19. Am a Scorpio gal, Gemini moon in a relationship with Gemini man, Scorpio moon. We def are a yin-yang couple. Started things quick, in a span of 5 months. Feels like we been together so much longer than that. He is my best friend and we been through some crazy stuff along the way. We both learned a lot about eachother and still are, the good and bad. And the reason I feel we are a power couple is because I continue to understand patience with him and myself. Gemini’s can be hard to figure out at times, but that’s what it is.. give it time. Of course my Scorpio ass starts to think all things that can go wrong but then that’s when I start to work on myself cos that’s a insecurity problem. I tend to drift off myself. We both want power as well but we seem to compromise that in certain situations. Sex is out of this world. I feel so much love from him than I ever did with anyone. I can see however reading from the other stories the many obstacles you can face. And I’m analyzing why is it that him and I are so good together. We are just honest as fuck and loyal. Yes they are natural flirts but shit so is scorpios at times. If something seems off it will be addressed even if it’s abit uncomfortable we manage to end our discussion positively. We are very focused ppl at this time of our lives. We got other things going for us. Constantly helping eachother other to help ourselves and be better people. We try not to look to deep into the future, I keep it realistic though, if one day it doesn’t work out then so be it. But I know right now things are just so great and will continue to be.

    1. This is Hopey and yes I and a Scorpio gal. Lol I am dating a Gemini Guy! We’ve been together for about a year n a half and I just love him deeper n deeper every single day! He is so romantic, handsome, and charming! There is something about him that honestly I find so charming and irrisistable!! Sometimes we have ups and downs and it may feel like a rollercoaster but at the end of the tunnel he’s always there for me! With Gods help we’ll always stick together no matter how different or a like we may be from each other! He will always be my love and my life!

  20. Hey guys! So I have been dating a beautifully handsome gemini for 3years and 7 months now and it feels amazing to tell y’all that it is going amazing!
    In our relationship he has been very fucking loyal, even more than me. We have an Oh my god so great sex life!!
    Yes we tend to enjoy more when we meet after some intervals of time but even when we meet daily, it has a different kind of fun. We are very intimate, we understand each other, help grow our trust, each other and out differences, also I’m very patient with him and that’s so easy, being funny works to explain him things . Even if you’re not a scorpio you should always keep relationships like sand on your hand. Never tighten your grip or the sand will fall off. In our case , mashallah it is not so fussy as I’ve read many a times. We pray , and we avoid these zodiac things because they complicate our life. It is just a belief and believing it is upto you. Cz i am telling you these years have been THE BEST!

  21. I’m a Gemini woman very much attracted to a Scorpio man who btw is MARRIED. Everything I’ve read about us both is spot on. I wish I wasn’t attracted to him because he’s married, but it’s something about him that has me so drawn into him…

    1. Gemini woman, that’s very bad. I’m not saying you are a bad person. It’s OK to have fantasies and wishes even if they’re wrong. But when it comes to deeds: even if he’s flirting back you should be staying away from him. It’s fair towards his lady and you will be treated the same by your future husband too.

  22. Scorpio man that’s been after my Gemini woman for about a year now. Very Magical, very intense. But she is so evasive it’s frustrating! Her nonchalant attitude makes my super serious one seem extra. She’ll ignore me, I’ll blow up, she admonishes me, & I’m forced to fall back and check my ego. But I can’t quit her. I keep coming back for more. Everything that’s been stated is spot on. I understand to pull a Gemini takes the patience of a crocodile. & the confidence of a Lion.

  23. So true all of it
    Gemini man that loves a scorpion women.
    Nether of us wanted to fall in love
    But the contention was to strong the sex to good an keep getting better.
    Neater of us could stay away from each other. But not only did we have great sex we wear good best friend.
    .Haven’t seen her in 6 years an still
    She is all I want.
    Say what you will but she brought something into my life that was missing. An I haven’t found since.
    I believe the combo can an will work if both can stop thinking. An stop worrying about dumb shit..
    your togather with your soul mate yes I believe the tow signs are or two halfs of a hole. I know she loves me still. An she still craves my touch. As I do hers
    Not sure how I know I just know
    Never has any women gave as much pleasure or had me wanting to satisfy any an all her desires

    She will always be dancing in my dreams

    So my advice to a male Gemini is don’t wait for her to come back cause she won’t go get her if you don’t it’s goon hurt an you will never get her out of your head an you will be kicking your self in the ass when she moves on

  24. Hey all.
    I met a Scorpio guy over a year ago going in two, I’m a Gemini guy. When I first saw him I fell in love with the guy. Literally as soon as I turned to face him I got stuck to him emotionally and I still am. The only thing is, It’s not going anywhere, which is ok because technically he’s straight. But back to when I first saw him, I got a wave of emotions running through my body and heart. That’s only happened to me twice in my entire life. He left an imprint on me forever. The last guy that made me feel that way was also a Scorpio which was pretty weird. But this guy looked at me too and just put his head down, that was the first one I ever met/seen him. So what made me fall even more into him was when my coworker told me he said he wants to hang out with me and that he likes me (as a friend, I’m DL and nobody knows) but it didn’t sound weird it just sounded normal like he wants to hang out. That made me really happy yet sad because I knew how this would end. Anyways, he is such an awesome person, I don’t really know the guy but I felt like I did and I wouldn’t care about his demons, I just want to love him and him recoprocate the feelings but no. Anyways, later he transferred and I couldn’t let him leave without telling him how I felt. So I went on and did it, slowly. But I asked him if I can confess something to him and he replied with “lol sure”
    I told him I found him attractive. He never replied which was okay i understand that’s not normal. A couple days later I wrote to him again asking him if we are still okay, he said “yeah we still are” (my heart got really warm) I just replied with cool, thanks for replying.

    Then many days apart almost months I text him casually just to see how’s he doing, he gives me the “I’ve been busy” type of reply. Loving this guy seriously made me really depressed and I’m a Gemini, we don’t really fall into that.
    So months passed and I text him, he didn’t reply but I shown he has read my message. Hours later I just text him back saying that I don’t regret meeting him, I’m sorry if I freaked you out, you are such an amazing person, these feelings happening were out of my control etc. I finished it with saying, “I want us to go back to as if we never met, nothing against you but I have to do this to protect myself (my heart).”

    Then weeks passed and I saw him, I tried to ignore him but I can see him looking at me from the corner of my eye, he then came up to me and gave me a light soft handshake with a serious face, he’s always given me a handshake like that. I love this guy and it’s only making me feel really bad about myself. I pray to god to help me forget him.

    What do you guys think?

  25. April 11 2017 I will have had my Gem for five years. I have found a new patience. She isn’t as weak minded as the women who came before her. She is like an ever blooming flower, and she fascinates me even still. So I give her space to run, to pursue any ambition, and she lovingly finds her way back to stable every night. Our fights are usually to the death, and our sex is always stellar. So I can say that this is quite accurate, if you as a Scorpio want to engage in something meaningful with a Gemini, learn the meaning of the word, compromise. Remember that a fight that is not ending, is usually over, now you stubborn asses just have to stop yelling and calm down. Remember that they can’t be caged, but when one falls for you, you won’t need one.

  26. I am a Scorpio woman and I can relate to everything that’s being said about a Gemini Man. The sexual chemistry is absolutely amazing. It makes you question everything you ever knew about sex. It’s very difficult being with a Gemini because he is not as expressive as the way we expect our lovers to be. As we are very expressive as a star sign. We require constant love and nurture. With a Gemini it’s kind of what you see is what you get. He has never lied to me even when we first started seeing one another he had a girlfriend but the sex was so great we developed into something more. He left his girlfriend and has been on a military training this year. We are giving it a shot it’s been about 4/5 months being in this open relationship. I think being in an open relationship eases him into the idea of us being together without making him feel pressured. He knows how to step up to that table. He has been a great boyfriend for great boyfriend for the past few months. I can tell he is trying. As a Scorpio I have a very controlling compulsive nature and he is the exact opposite. I embrace him, I embrace his change. To be honest I’m really just going with the flow, but I have never been so intrigued instantly by someone. They are extremely gifted sexually. As gifted as a Scorpio. We started off as beneficial friends but through the world win we grew a close friendship and now a pretty decent relationship. I always question his feeling and motive and carefreeness but what I realized about a Gemini is they don’t do something they don’t want to do. So if his with you, he kind of actually wants to be with you. Don’t question it. Enjoy the ride. It’s not as easy as my other compatibile relationships such as a Cancer, piecies, Virgo, Capricorn and even my opposite sign, Taurus. But once you guys figure out how to communicate with each other, the rest follows. Geminis have almost the same intuition we do.

  27. I am a Scorpio woman with a Gemini man. And yes, they are very tricky. Never to sure what side your going to get. Its like Dr. Jeckle and Mr. Hyde… One side is so loving, understanding and the most wonderful person anyone could ask to be around. The other side, well lets just say the devil has his match.. lol!! We’ve had our differences and disagreements. But he is by far the most honest, real man I have ever met. I know his love for me is real, and does everything in his power to love and protect me. Even if he is an ass… Our sex life is AMAZING!! And i can honestly say he brings a side out in me I’ve never known before.. It’s far more than physical thow. When we make love it’s like our souls connect, and at that moment we are truly one in spirit and nature. Its beautiful!!!! He has been able to break down my walls and help me open up about past abuse and I can trust him with everything that I hold dear in my life. He’s a GREAT dad to our blended family. And yes, he is a flirt and loves to be the center of attention. As well as I am. But it’s who he is. I never worry about it going to far or it being something else. I accept him, for him. Just as he accepts me for me. Together we are truly a head turning couple.. It hasn’t been easy, and oh have we gone to war with each other. Because we are fixed signs there is a clash of tempers. Like a hurricane!!! But I would never give him up for anything in this world.. He is my soulmate.. And I love my Gemini man like no other. Hard to understand at first, but once they love you. They will make you a queen like no other can. He will protect you, provide for you and do everything in his power to show you his undeniable affection and love.. Just listen to your Gemini man, he needs alot of love and attention. Show him he is your King. Treat him like a man. Let him go with the boys for some fun, dont blow his phone up when hes crabby from work. Let him unstress first. Treat him in private like you would in front of his mother.. And I promise, your relationship will be amazing..

  28. I am a Scorpio woman who has been married to a Gemini man for 18 years and we were together for 5 years before that. I am just here to say we can definitely be more compatible then you might think! From day one he made me laugh and since we have a similar sense of humor we always enjoy being around each other. Only two areas in our marriage are challenging, and I would say to talk over for other Scorpio/Gemini match ups. One is, if you plan on being parents then discuss your philosophies towards parenting (we have two). My guy is an amazing dad, always there for his kids, very devoted and loving. He gives all of his time, patience, love, money, everything to his children. We are devoted to them together. However, he is far more indulgent than I and I am the stricter one, but it is hard to be strict when both parents aren’t on board. One other area is, although I have more close friends from childhood still in my life than he does, I don’t make new friends easily as an adult and we do not have a lot of “couple friends” to go out with. This is not an issue for me but is more of an issue for him. He loves his nights in (thankfully!) but sometimes he craves more couple companionship. So give your Gemini guy as much social time as you can, either with other couples or also with his guy friends, it will go a long way to keeping him happy.
    But our philosophies on life, religion, finances, how we run our home, importance of our relationship, importance of extended families, we are on board with all of this. One other blessing is we are both neat freaks! A match made in heaven I would say.

  29. I am a scorpio lady & I have an extreamly srong bounded relationship of 8 years with my best friend Gemini man we met at collage & we are best friends ever since
    We have been apart for a year after gradeuation but he managed to find me again….we have a strong mental – soul connection sometimes we say we are soulmates some sort of a mirror actually!!!!
    I like to give alone spaces to people around me coz I believe I need my space too…but generally we are here for eachother sometimes the intensity of me as a scorpio turn me a bit emotional & claches with the unreal cold exterior of him as gemini ” which I try to control’ to avoid any damage of the relationship that I really gratful to have but fortunatelly I know he understands me better than anyone ….we may not connected sexually coz we are not friends with benifits but to scorpios out there if any of you have a feeling the gemini guy in your life is more than just a fling or a sexual intrest ….keep it simple with him be his best friend give him space & believe in the relationship you have & dont force things hard I know its a hard task for an intense scorpio but every thing that worth needs time & patience & every door needs the right key

  30. Didn’t initially come to this site to read about compatibility with geminis but I had an ex Gemini and upon reflection, why not. Bland relationship with my ex Gemini from memory but we had some fond sunshine memories. A good companion to have in life but not really a romantic partner (personally didn’t match me). We haven’t been together for a couple of years now and I do miss my Gemini and the ups and downs the surprises and excitement, always full of laughter – the way you would miss your good old friends. Even sitting here makes me warm and smile on the inside. Always cheery, but I had a more sentimental and deep side. It wasn’t until I met someone else that I saw what true romantic love was. We both have parted our ways now and each found our new lovers. I’m lucky in a way that we ended it on positive terms and that we still keep in contact over social media – not many couples end on good terms so I guess I was lucky in that aspect. But we are both so much happier and fulfilled with our new lovers. I still wish my ex Gemini all the best but sometimes going beyond your boundaries allows you to see what you didn’t see before or realise that thing you were missing in someone.

  31. Continuing on my previous comment, my ex Gemini was a safe bet but when you take risks, who knows you might end up with someone much more matched for your soul. I know I took the risk and let me tell you, it was worth it.

  32. I’m a Gemini woman, that’s attracting a lot of Scorpio women, (i’m Bi and i just completely run away from Scorpio men period, that ain’t nothing but good dick and drama), the women however, just pull me right in. Scorpio women are very intuitive (just like gems), but that testing you shit, pushing your buttons and the head games are just to much at times. That really gets on my nerves sometimes (because i appreciate a challenge but damn) what’s so hard about being honest about your feelings, Scorps can be brutally honest about everything else, but wanna play mind games when it comes to feelings tho. what I like about a Scorp is that they are so different, and we can have a lot of fun together, and of course the sex is great. we really match each other imagination and stamina wise. but the way they can switch up at times and just start shit out of nowhere, Uhghh. just tell me what you want and stop playing games. Scorps love to make you feel like your the only one feeling some type of way, knowing damn well they’re feeling what you are times 10.

    1. Ooo step backkk someone is like a moth to a flame! Hey gem, instead of questioning ‘what’s so difficult about being honest’ about our deep feels (and hey don’t you dare roll your eyes!)… try understanding first then you can judge or better, DONT JUDGE AT ALL. I laugh way too hard. Gem, why don’t you take a step back and look at yourself in the mirror, maybe with a pair of binoculars, and ask yourself, are you really that special among all other zodiacs? and wait, did you just call yourself intuitive? did you just make that claim? Sure, anyone has a right to their opinions but hey, if you were so intuitive why did you later ask ‘just tell me what you want and stop playing games’? Because if you were so intuitive and matched our ways of thinking and being, you would know without having to ask. If you were so intuitive you would know what mind games we are doing and you would know how to handle those mind games. If you can’t pass them well that’s just too bad. Also, you call yourself high on stamina? Who do you think you are? Gem is no match stamina wise to us Scorpios… how can a flakey gem have as much stamina and determination as us intense Scorpios? How? Tell me how? There are other zodiacs out there with more stamina than a gem. Now stop whining like an immature kid gem, and grow some balls.

  33. I am a Gemini female here and all the greatest loves of my life have been scorpios. I don’t know why I’m just so drawn to them maybe it’s the passion maybe it’s the fighting maybe its the amazing sex I don’t know. I’m currently dating a Scorpio yet again and he is by far the craziest, passionate and hot headed i have ever been with. We keep each other on our toes. He drives me crazy with his bipolar nature but i just can’t quit him. He is also 11 years younger than me which is crazy. When I am with someone I’m loyal and faithful but I hate the jealousy and the possession and the need to control every aspect of my life that’s what drives me crazy about Scorpio. But i just can’t walk away and they draw me like a moth to a flame. Ugggggh! No other zodiac has such a pull on me like a Scorpio. Why are you all so damn magnetic.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *