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Scorpio & Cancer

Scorpio and Cancer interact on a highly intuitive and subjective level. They often understand what each other wants or needs based on the way they look at one another. Many unspoken vibes are shared between them both, emotionally strengthening their relationship. Cancer appreciates Scorpio’s loyalty, dependability, and commitment to the partnership. Cancer is able to understand Scorpio’s deep need for privacy, and is always there for them to return to after periods of isolation. Cancer seeks a strong and reliable partner to spill their secrets to, and Cancer often feels as though they have found one in Scorpio.

Scorpio loves the fact that Cancer is a shelter they can always turn to — a spiritual haven. Cancer is tied to domesticity and their home. Cancer loves making their home comfortable, warm, and welcoming for Scorpio. Their family, friends and loved ones are Cancer’s utmost priority. Cancer will often put Scorpio’s needs above their own, and is an excellent counselor. Cancer has a selfless heart and is naturally willing to help Scorpio during their most challenging moments.

As Water signs, both of Scorpio and Cancer bond very intensely to those they love. They can be very controlling, particularly Scorpio. Luckily in this case, neither Scorpio nor Cancer are likely to be turned-off by this behavior because they both openly exhibit it. Cancer and Scorpio feel comforted knowing that their partner is as emotionally attached as they are. Cancer is prone to being more moody than Scorpio. Although Scorpio is understanding, she can also be confused by Cancer’s sudden shifts in mood, and Scorpio may lose their patience with Cancer.

Scorpio is more willing to express the complete extremes of their passionate emotions. That means when Cancer gets offended or hurt they may become angry or aggressive. Cancer has a much more passive-aggressive response when they feel frustrated — they tend to withdraw into his shell. Cancer is so intuitive that they can often sense when something is wrong with Scorpio, even if Scorpio does not outwardly express it to Cancer. This makes Scorpio feel understood in a world where they are so often misunderstood.

42 responses to “Scorpio & Cancer

  1. This is me and my man to a tee. He is a true blessing to my life and this is spot on. I read your horoscopes on IG everyday for over a year but first time visiting the site! Keep soaring scorpio!

  2. I am a Scorpio with a Cancer Ex I have a lot of water in my sign and am very intuitive. My cancer ex was so sensitive and you would have thought that would have been me. I couldn’t take it and had to end it….I love your site I refer to you instagram posts everyday : )

  3. I love being with Cancers. I feel like we are so compatible with us both being water signs. My current partner is so sensitive and sometimes I come across as mean to him since I’m so blunt and honest, but he appreciates my honesty. He tells me often, that he loves the fact that I’m a Scorpio because we are so comfortable around each other, it’s like it’s meant to be. I find that I am mostly compatible with Cancers and I’m so happy when I’m with one.

  4. Everything about this screams me and my girlfriend, except she is the one who becomes passive-aggressive, and goes into her shell, I’m a Cancer, she is a Scorpio.

  5. Hmm..

    I have a Cancer Sun and ascendant, and a Scorpio moon so I definitely exhibit characteristics from both signs..
    Though my ex was a Scorpio/Virgo/Taurus , and as much I loved certain things about him, his darker side made it painfully obvious I couldn’t do it anymore.

    I love Scorpio’s for the most part, but I feel the lying and secrecy is too much. Trust is the most important thing for me and when I catch someone lying to my face , I can’t help that I’ll never look at them the same. =\

  6. Is Scorpion better off with Pieces than with Cancer? I feel that the controlling and aggressive part of Scorpions can only be curbed by Pieces’ compassionate nature.

  7. When I read this, I’m more into my scorpio crush. Although, he doesn’t tell me about his feelings but I can sense he likes me too. And I’m a cancerian 🙂

  8. I’m a male Scorpio and I’ve been with my first cancer woman for the past 3 years and I’m head over heels enthralled in every aspect of her being psychological, physical, emotional, deeply passionate and sexual. I find my peace with her the love always feels new. she can do no wrong!

  9. Am cancerian and was with a Scorpio for yrs everything was perfect but now I just don’t know what went wrong and he has ended up with a Virgo so it’s hard for me to believe in all this

    1. Chances are your Scorpio had more Earth elements in his chart. More than water or an equal amount. I’m a Scorpio who has always had a soft spot for earth signs. I find them beautiful neat and just compelling. I’ve dated two cancers in my life. Both with the same birthday. Neither one worked out. The one in my younger years taught me to curb my stinger. The older one taught me to be true to myself. We just didn’t mesh well at all. We didn’t think alike, had problems communicating. He was the controlling one. He also couldn’t relate to me mentally or emotionally. The physical relationship was great but the constant fighting was irritating and he was condescending toward me. I can go on but because I have an equal amount of earth and water in my chart I need a balance. I have a Capricorn moon and Venus in Virgo. Need I say more? Anyway the Capricorn and I met a few weeks after that relationship and we get along so much better. We think alot alike and our emotional attachment is there. I guess what they say about Scorpios and Caps are true. Oh yes and if he broke up with you he may love you but not romantically. There has to be a balance of romance and practicality for Scorpios to completely engage. We like to use both our hearts and heads in relationships.

  10. I feel in love with a Scorpio she drives me crazy with all her confusion, but I still deal with her because I love her. She makes me feel like I can’t love another girl I’m a cancer male

    1. I am a Cancer sun and Capricorn Moon and my boyfriend is a Scorpio sun and Virgo moon. We have been together for over a year and honestly one of the best relationships I’ve ever been in. Sometimes we get in predicaments where is is extreamly too blunt and he does hurt me. But I always know he will apologize even though he doesn’t understand a cancer’s sensitivity. We both though stubborn are forgiving despite his tendency to grudge hold. He always can forgive me after a disagreement. But the connection we have is something magical and comforting. We live together now and it’s like I found my soulmate. And we fell so fast it took us a week and a half to admit we were feeing things for each other that we had not felt before. Crazy. Lol

  11. Im a Scorpio chick n I have a Cancer male n yes its a challenge but if you take the time to mbalance the relationship n know your partner it works out..Yea my Cancer had an affair with a Virgo but it didn’t last..Virgos aren’t strong enough to handle a Cancer so of course husbands don’t live their wives n now its been @ 2 1/2 yrs 3 babies later..Once you go Scorpio yu don’t want no mo’

  12. My best friend is a Scorpio. She constantly enjoys describing the details of her life yet doesn’t take the time to reciprocate. I don’t get to share an opinion that differs because anything that goes against her opinion is wrong or she takes it as an attack. Then it’s hell in a handbasket with retaliation. I do not know how Scorpio and Cancer can work with one another when the shit hits the fan it’s hell. Even responding with compliments is condescending to her. I’d say the friendship is unretrievably broken due to her inability to move on. I’m in my 40’s. There’s no time for that drama. Stubborn Scorpio.

  13. I just fell in love with a Scorpio. I’m a Cancer woman who is 46 years old. I have never been with a Scorpio, but let me tell you. He is amazing and I feel this gravitational pull towards him. I have never felt so much and love how comfortable I am around him. The feelings are mutual from him. I say this match is perfect for us. I always feel safe and secure and I want to share all my love with him. Its just amazing. This was spot on accurate.

  14. I just love my Scorpio man. This is so true. He drives me crazy at times so do I. But I know we truly love each other. It’s a continuous growth. Everything is so genuine and true.

  15. Recently found my long lost, long time, childhood best friend/ crush. She’s a Scorpio and I’m a cancer. I have formed few strong emotional bonds in my life. The bond she And I have had since 13 or so, blows my mind! Now I understand why a little better. Decided I’d look up compatability because things are turning more romantic and my cancer-ness is getting all mushy. So, Ooooohh, ooookaay.
    Thanks, I’m going all in! CANCER STYLE

  16. I have the biggest crush on a cancer women and I’m a Scorpio man. Everything this says is true. Although we haven’t dated or talked on an intimate level yet, everyday I see her we look at each other and I can feel the attraction in my heart. It’s just the way she looks at me that I can feel that she has some type of feelings for me as well and just as it says above Scorpio and cancer connect without even saying words. What’s even more weird is that even when I’m not around her I feel in my heart that she’s thinking about me. I can tell she’s shy so I’ll just take it slow because even though I’m anxious to see what could be between us I don’t want to come on too strong to a point that might scare her and make retreat into her shell.

    1. God this makes me cry! I’m a water-dominant Cancer Sun/Taurus Rising/Pisces Moon/Cancer Venus/Scorpio Descendant and I had that connection with my good Scorpio friend of 7 years, and yes it was completely unspoken. Sometimes, it’d just be him or I kicking each other’s foot — which really sounds dorky when you say it out loud — but it was THERE. It was comforting and warm. Definitely in the look. I miss him so much and that thing we had when we were together. I tried to take it to the next level though and he couldn’t commit. Broke my heart to pieces. He told one of our other friends that he didn’t want to MARRY me. At least that’s the way the friend made it sound. I stopped talking to my Scorpio friend after that, I couldn’t believe he didn’t actually have romantic feelings for me. We’d been doing our cute little flirty dance tirade for our entire friendship! After digging a little deeper though I’ve concluded that he’s a very confused Scorpio. He has a Gemini moon and a Libra Venus. In fact, his sun sign and mercury sign are the only Scorpio’s in there. Looks like a Scorpio, talks like a Scorpio but deep down feels and walks like an Air Sign. Wish I’d have known sooner.

    2. Omg help I’m a cancer women and this Scorpio guy basically hunted me down after I left my job and he seen no trace of me any longer he found me on FB and demanded I hung out with him and at first he seemed so into me we had deep convos and we were intamate…but all of a sudden he stopped texting me ..coming to pick me up and ect he seem as though he lost interest but I don’t know why we had so much fun together and we connected im..maybe I should stop texting him so much and calling and he will come back to me …..any comments of whats going on did I do something wrong ..I feel like im chasing him

      1. They are known for their disappearing acts. Don’t take it personal. It could be that he’s playing games or he needs space to recollect. I dunno, but love yourself.

  17. I’m still trying to get used to my Cancer BF. His mood swings throw me off completely. I think this post helped a bit.

  18. I am a Scorpio woman and I dated a cancer man, and the chemistry we had was instant. Of course we both were unsure at first if it was a real true connection but after time and patience our love grew for one another. For me he is very very challenging a lot due to his moody ways. Of time I have learned to be patient and still welcoming to him when he comes out his shell. Over all the relationship is great and refreshing:)

  19. My fiancé, my one true love is a Cancer. We bonded from the very first day we met and have never parted ways. My Cancer is extremely loyal and understanding to my needs we have a bond that cannot be explained in words. Our relationship hasn’t been perfect but when things break we fix them and move forward/ I’ve dated many signs but Cancer takes the cake for me I’m so ready to spend forever with my lover and best friend

  20. Im so in love with a cancer man..Im a scorpio woman we began an instant attraction..but he was in an on an off relationship , with another woman. .I believe he had a piece of his heart with me , thats why he parted his ways with her….We parted ways after a one year in an on an off relationship, and he got involved with another woman..He is somewhat selfish , when he knows he won your heart.after a two year seperation and his rebound crelation..we have connected, I feel his passion more now!!! I feel he truly missed me..but we also i believe may be soul mates.. Them two years of. me crying was hard and im sure he was feeling less emotional but missed me We have a spiritual connection..and have we now have a stronger bond. remember Cancer man like their own time and if we love him we should understand he will not cheat inlesw given reason..so their r downfalls of commitment in these two signs..But im gonna keep him around .. playing my deck ..he will always return bcsc we make him feel oives somewhat like a king..Also he will always know when we have been dishonest and we also can make him walk away, but make sure he we have his heart.??MOODY MEN

  21. I’m a Scorpio woman and I met the Cancer man of my dreams!!! He’s had a lot of stress and struggling for the past 10 months. We haven’t even gone out yet, but he asked me out before all this trouble he has experienced. He is independent especially since he’s been so stressed out. I know at the deepest center of my being that he’s who I’ve wanted forever. We share eye contact and it’s like the rest of the world disappears. I want to tell him so much that I’m deeply and madly in love with him – I think he is, too. I’ve lost 100 pounds and I am still trying to lose more – he’s a gorgeous and handsome bodybuilder. He’s also absolutely brilliant and heart-melting sweet. So what we have transcends the superficial. I’m not saying that I’m unfortunate in looks but my body is not perfect but he looks at me like I’m the most gorgeous thing he’s ever seen. He’s poetic and he wrote on his Facebook without saying a name that he’d waited a number of days – it was for our date… it was that EXACT number of days between when he posted it and the day he asked me out. I want him for the rest of my life.

  22. I’m a scorpio male and I’m with a cancerian and she is the most sexiest thing in the world I’m happy to be with her she’s sweet, sensitive, funny, and sexy. I LOVE CANCERIANS!!!❤️❤️❤️?

  23. Hi,

    I am scorpio women, inlove in cancer man. I did something saying words that hurt him by doubt and mistrust. I tried sincerely apologize and gives him space for awhile. Hes confusing and tells me he wanted to finish it what we have but he wanted me still to message him and he let me know that he was here for few days in my country. Does it mean he says like its over but deep inside he wants me to please him? Thanks for help…

  24. my boyfriend is a cancer (5th july) nd m scorpio (nov 2)… we are new to relationship .. ….we hav some common nature… honesty, loyality,family person,trying to give time each other….some differences he is adventerous…m dull… he likes world.news…i have small world, my family, him , his family nd few frends??….. he understands me very well…. yea little bit of mood swings is something i need to understand… nd i need to understand he forgets everything while in work….. he is passionate lover and more physical….he liked to touch, few flirts , likes to kiss…. he is confident and at times become shy….it all depends on his mental status… nd i need to understand it…. he wants my future stable….he wants me to achieve high…. i also dont want to depend on him so we are working and doing well in our jobs…inshallah we will marry within 2 years… hope our relationship goes very well ..we r lucky both of our family members are very happy with our realationship…. i love him more every day…. ??

    well cancer nd scorpio compatibilty is very good i think…. thing is cancer is cautious because of trust issue nd checks u everytime… nd we scorpio are highly loyal… nd cancerians like that…. scorpio should try to open bit nd should always keep in mind that their lover is little sensitive…. nd cancer is good in balancing everything friens family love… but sometimes they forget everything while in work ( they are sincere workers)… forgets family nd lover for friens while at work….we scorpio wants cancer to be with us in our precious moments…..

    1. To the scorpio who is in a newly 1 mo. relationship with a cancer gal and thinks she is rude and cold shouldered…she’s not! She is going to qualify you before she allows her heart to get involved! This is her strong suit…a proving ground because cancer women can not get the man of their dreams everyday – we must mate for life long love affair reasons only! Scorpios are our best of the best match to help us with inner challenges that we can not receive from other guys. In fact…slow mo the while thing & see if you do not get a better response as she may be thinking that the fast paced efforts are desperation & she wants a lover who is in for the long haul not a one not stand heart breaker because she will break – I mean for real! I am a cancer woman!

  25. Im in a 1 month relationship with a cancer girl she’s 25 im 28 .. i dont know what to expect of this .. i like her and im getting atached im thinking she is not that attached to me because there is a kind of distance. When we are just the 2 of us it’s all perfect .. but when we arent seeing eachotge and we talk on social media she is so arogant and distant never calls … dont get me wrong i like that she gives me space and that she keeps her distance but that paranoic nature makes me wonder in fear of not loseing my time and emotions to nothing … maybe an opinion from team scorpio or some cancerians passing by .. it wold be wonderful .. Thank you in advance Team …

  26. I am a cancer woman who is able to interact in an atmopheric location with my scorpio male. From day 1 – it was like I could read his mind. He seems to be moving towards me and the beautiful protective unspoken caring attatment thing is going on! I can clearly see awesomeness ahead for us if this keeps up. He is so sexy & smart – caring & very detail oriented. Every chance to experience something new & learn a bit more, a piece of the puzzle is so rewarding…will he ask me to marry him on bended knee – I sure hope – & when he kisses me after I say my wedding vow ” I do” they will have to call 911 to peel me up off the floor!

  27. I’m a Scorpio who has fallen deeply emotionally invested in a cancer man. Deeply because I love talking to him but we tried to have sex a couple of times and it didn’t work out in my favor which made me distance myself from him for a bit because I was disappointed, annoyed and mad. I like him though a lot more than I should and I cannot seem to wrap my mind around it or get over him.

    My problem is, I think when I was getting close to him he was talking to another girl and he distanced himself from her to talk to me. I thought we were just talking as friends but then we tried and I was disappointed of his performance and I just stopped talking to him. That caused him to retreat and go back to the other girl he was talking to and now I’m fucked and I want something but I can’t do anything. He’s cancer born July 22 so that’s like transitioning sign. Sorry not big on the horoscope talk but all I gotta say is: I wish he would give me another chance.

  28. I’m a Scorpio who has fallen deeply emotionally invested in a cancer man. Deeply because I love talking to him but we tried to have sex a couple of times and it didn’t work out in my favor which made me distance myself from him for a bit because I was disappointed, annoyed and mad. I like him though a lot more than I should and I cannot seem to wrap my mind around it or get over him.

    My problem is, I think when I was getting close to him he was talking to another girl and he distanced himself from her to talk to me. I thought we were just talking as friends but then we tried and I was disappointed of his performance. That caused him to retreat and go back to the other girl he was talking to and now I’m fucked. I like him and I want something but I’m trying so hard to accept that it’s a fail now and I just gotta move on. I just want him to give me another chance

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